I have been reading here for a few months now and would like to ask for a few opinions or experiences.
Wife and I are anal only for a few months. For me because I have always preffered anal and for her because there is usually pain when doing pussy stuff.
She had issues with her libido for a long time now. There is basically no lust at all and she is rarely sensitive to experiencing any kind of sexual pleasure. We tried many things including mental and herbal treatment but it only marginal improves.
So at the moment we only fuck for my pleasure even though she usually has fun as well but doesn't experience any pleasure.
Some time back when we had regular anal she did have anal orgasms so I can assure that its possible for her.
I believe there are many women suffering from lack of libido on the one hand but also numbness or insensitivity for physical contact. Can anyone share their experiences with this?
My wife never orgasmed from vaginal penetration. She had great clitoral orgasms from manual stimulation, but there’s always the clit orgasm crash that follows.
After we started hormone therapy, she responded differently to anal play and eventually I was able to fully penetrate her ass with my cock. She orgasmed within minutes without clitoral stimulation. She has anal orgasms, sometimes two, every time we have anal sex (the only sex we have).
She may consider having her hormone levels checked. Even younger women may have deficiencies. My wife actually needed testosterone, and that is what improved her libido. I’d recommend a physician that specializes in hormone therapy as many docs simply prescribe estrogen.
I hope you both can find a solution. We’re in our 60’s and I’d put our anal sexcapades up against 30 year olds. My wife regrets she didn’t address her deficiency when she was younger because she’s addicted to anal. I’m just happy as hell to be fucking her ass once or twice a week at age 65.
My best to you both. Let us know how things are going.
thanks for your detailed reply. We will pursue a blood test in the near future, there must be a simple reason.
The herbs and stuff we tried were also targeted at normalizing testosterone levels but apparently they either didn't do enough or we were tackling the wrong place.
Let's see how things turn out