I don’t get fisting. What is the appeal ?

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I don’t get fisting. What is the appeal ?

Post by Backdoorlover » Thu Jan 13, 2022 1:49 pm

Back in the days I sometimes saw some fisting passing by as I looked for porn. Watched it once out of curiosity and dismissed it as “porn only stuff”

Now that I am on this forum I come acrosse some topics about fisting and suddenly I realize people do this in real life. My question still remains though… why ?

What is it that is so appealing about putting a hand or fist in your or your partners asshole ? Genuine curiosity here. Not to ridicule or something. It will never be appealing to me but I want to learn anyway. 😘
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Re: I don’t get fisting. What is the appeal ?

Post by AnalJay » Fri Jan 14, 2022 2:28 am

My wife started fisting me earlier last year. She was quite amazed when she actually got her hand all the way in. We don't do it all the time but every now and then. I used an inflatable butt plug to train up to it and I do kegel exercises to keep my ass hole toned, they might not really be necessary but they are good to do anyway. The sensation is great. I guess messing with butt plugs n stuff it was just a natural progression to see if a hand would go up. I'll fist her vaginally one time an she'll fist me anally another. It's a fantastic sensation and I'm glad I took the time, several months in fact, to gently train my ass to take her.

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Re: I don’t get fisting. What is the appeal ?

Post by OCfemboy » Fri Jul 01, 2022 12:04 pm

For me, and from what I've read and heard from others, it's about a deeply intense personal connection between the fister and fistee, where constant communication and feedback are essential in the earlier phases of exploration. At least until each becomes accustomed to their own methods and styles, desires and results.

When someone's hand is inside me, I feel so much closer to my fistee than any other type of penetration, and perhaps a big part of that is what is arguably the most important for most human sexuality, mental stimulation. Every little movement of the fingers and hand, rotation of the wrist, and wiggling, stimulates the plethora of nerve endings within me unlike any other method. Even fisting toys aren't close to being the same.

Until and unless someone has never experienced fisting as a fister or fistee, there's really no good way to describe it. Sort of like trying to describe why a prostate orgasm is better than any other type.

Perhaps it's best related to anal sex as opposed to vaginal. Once someone has experienced good anal sex, it can become a preference due to there being a more pleasurable feeling achieved for both. It's the same for fisting, at least for me, yet not something I do very often. It's more of a sexual delicacy enjoyed on special occasions.
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Re: I don’t get fisting. What is the appeal ?

Post by Backdoorlover » Fri Jul 01, 2022 12:31 pm

I understand other people like and love it. To each their own.

But to me personally it had the same appeal as shoving a ballpoint in my penis. It gives me the creeps. So I will never do it to anyone, nor have it done.
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Re: I don’t get fisting. What is the appeal ?

Post by OCfemboy » Sun Jul 03, 2022 12:20 pm

Backdoorlover wrote:
Fri Jul 01, 2022 12:31 pm
I understand other people like and love it. To each their own.

But to me personally it had the same appeal as shoving a ballpoint in my penis. It gives me the creeps. So I will never do it to anyone, nor have it done.

Unfortunately, there are a lot of people who feel the same way about any form of anal sex, as well.
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Re: I don’t get fisting. What is the appeal ?

Post by Quebass » Mon Jul 04, 2022 9:49 am

For us fisting comes from passion. When she starts putting in a finger or two she gets really horny and pushes in more, I do the same with her. From my experience once the knuckles go in my ass, it swollows the whole thing and I start shooting my load all over the place.

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