It's so embarrassing and I have no idea why it keeps happening or how to stop it. We use water-based lube and not a ton of it so it's not like it's extra that's coming out after the fact. Everything else seems normal and I don't have any other issues. I feel like this didn't happen before I started having anal sex more regularly. I love anal and don't want to give it up, but this issue is driving me crazy.
Please, does anyone have any advice?
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- try a daily dose of psyllium husk to make things less fluid back there. (Try to find a 100% variety, there are commercial products that contain it but often in small amounts.)
- your sphincter muscle tone's probably not quite up to speed yet, so leakage is happening. Try some kegels a few times a day until you're getting anal sex more frequently - contrary to popular opinion that will improve muscle performance, not slacken it.
Daly and spontaneous anal can be always clean.
1) Buy a Bidet and use it after going to the toilet, before and after having anal sex. My girlfriend and I we use glycerin soap without perfume
2) Start the foreplay with a good rimming, Then insert your longer finger on her asshole in a sexy way, to the deepest point your finger can go. It is the continuation of the foreplay and the best way test to check if the ass is empty. If you touch something, you can choose: Do dirty anal or wait until she goes to the toilet. This is my personal system. and always worked for me.