Hey everyone. So I just got married to my wife last weekend! It was a wonderful ceremony and I’m super happy to be with her. However, we haven’t had anal sex in about 2 years, and before that we used to have it regularly. Since that time, she had been diagnosed with an autoimmune condition that has affected her digestion, so anal has basically come off the table, though admittedly I kind of accepted it because I love her and I still enjoy PIV.
However, getting married triggered something in me and I’ve come to realize how much of my desires have been repressed over this time, because anal is my true desire. She has a great ass and I really want to get back into fucking it, as that would truly satisfy me, and we both have had difficulties getting her to orgasm from clit stimulation which has been a source of relationship stress in our time together.
I know I need to communicate this gently to her and slowly reopen her mind to anal. We discovered that she loves the 69 position with me eating her ass, so I’m going to do much more of that in the coming days/weeks, and slowly bring up the anal conversation again. I realize that a great deal of my anxiety comes from these years of repressed desires. I will update this post with any progress, and welcome any encouragement or advice!
And instead of me telling her anal was important to me and we should do it once a week so she got better in relaxing her asshole, I let my anxiety take over and assfucked her even less. Till the point I stopped doing it.
We should always be able to talk openly about sex to our lover.
We have discussed a medium-long term plan that involves her quitting her job - we are trying to get pregnant right now so if that's successful, she can go on maternity leave and/or quit her job permanently. I have a pretty well paying job so we could likely survive with just my income. To be honest, it really turns me on to think I'd be the provider/breadwinner and she'd be at home taking care of our child and being generally fulfilled in life not having to do her soul-sucking desk job. Of course, with her being more fulfilled and less stressed, her sex drive will improve and hopefully her health issues as well. I'm playing the long-game here but I'm hopeful - I know she loves anal and she expressed she has missed it as well.
My ultimate fantasy would be to have a nice long day at work, come home and have my wife start sucking my dick immediately when I get home, and her ass would be mine for the taking at any time of day. I know this will be challenging with a young child, but I'm thinking longer term
She's going to be a filthy little anal slut in no time. I'm excited to start fucking her perfect ass again!!