Increasing anxiety from repression
Posted: Fri Sep 23, 2022 11:04 am
(reposting my post from Reddit here)
Hey everyone. So I just got married to my wife last weekend! It was a wonderful ceremony and I’m super happy to be with her. However, we haven’t had anal sex in about 2 years, and before that we used to have it regularly. Since that time, she had been diagnosed with an autoimmune condition that has affected her digestion, so anal has basically come off the table, though admittedly I kind of accepted it because I love her and I still enjoy PIV.
However, getting married triggered something in me and I’ve come to realize how much of my desires have been repressed over this time, because anal is my true desire. She has a great ass and I really want to get back into fucking it, as that would truly satisfy me, and we both have had difficulties getting her to orgasm from clit stimulation which has been a source of relationship stress in our time together.
I know I need to communicate this gently to her and slowly reopen her mind to anal. We discovered that she loves the 69 position with me eating her ass, so I’m going to do much more of that in the coming days/weeks, and slowly bring up the anal conversation again. I realize that a great deal of my anxiety comes from these years of repressed desires. I will update this post with any progress, and welcome any encouragement or advice!
Hey everyone. So I just got married to my wife last weekend! It was a wonderful ceremony and I’m super happy to be with her. However, we haven’t had anal sex in about 2 years, and before that we used to have it regularly. Since that time, she had been diagnosed with an autoimmune condition that has affected her digestion, so anal has basically come off the table, though admittedly I kind of accepted it because I love her and I still enjoy PIV.
However, getting married triggered something in me and I’ve come to realize how much of my desires have been repressed over this time, because anal is my true desire. She has a great ass and I really want to get back into fucking it, as that would truly satisfy me, and we both have had difficulties getting her to orgasm from clit stimulation which has been a source of relationship stress in our time together.
I know I need to communicate this gently to her and slowly reopen her mind to anal. We discovered that she loves the 69 position with me eating her ass, so I’m going to do much more of that in the coming days/weeks, and slowly bring up the anal conversation again. I realize that a great deal of my anxiety comes from these years of repressed desires. I will update this post with any progress, and welcome any encouragement or advice!