Anyone here masturbate AO?

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Anyone here masturbate AO?

Post by backdoorbabe8 » Mon Jan 16, 2023 3:02 am

I want to start masturbating entirely AO, but I’m addicted to my clit. Avoiding vaginal penetration is not as difficult for me. Currently I never cum without something in my ass but I’m unsure of how to achieve an anal orgasm.
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Re: Anyone here masturbate AO?

Post by Backdoorlover » Mon Jan 16, 2023 3:43 am

This is cool. Backdoorbabe seems like backdoorlovers’ daughter 🤣

My girlfriend still didn’t orgasm without clitplay. So I see no need to ignore your clit if it pulls you over the edge.
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Re: Anyone here masturbate AO?

Post by backdoorbabe8 » Mon Jan 16, 2023 9:07 am

Haha I love it :lol: that sounds ideal actually, masturbating with only clit and anal stimulation. It’s mostly what I do already but I think I’ll challenge myself to commit to it
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Re: Anyone here masturbate AO?

Post by Colt1911 » Mon Jan 16, 2023 2:45 pm

backdoorbabe8 wrote:
Mon Jan 16, 2023 3:02 am
I want to start masturbating entirely AO, but I’m addicted to my clit. Avoiding vaginal penetration is not as difficult for me. Currently I never cum without something in my ass but I’m unsure of how to achieve an anal orgasm.

When you experience an anal orgasm, you’ll know it. My wife describes it as a full body experience. She can feel it up her spine. She uses a vibrator wand on her clit during anal play and penetration as it enhances her experience. When she feels her anal orgasm approaching, she tosses the vibrator aside to enjoy the anal orgasm without any clit stimulation.

She also loves butt plugs and we also use them for anal play. You may want to try a dildo in your ass using different angles to see if that can produce an anal orgasm. Angles are important for comfort, as well as pleasure. Because of her anal orgasms, we’ve been anal only for going on five years. Unlike clitoral orgasms where a woman experiences a crash, she can continue with penetration and often experience a second anal orgasm. This is well worth your time pursuing. Welcome to the forum and my best in your anal ventures!

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Re: Anyone here masturbate AO?

Post by backdoorbabe8 » Tue Jan 17, 2023 11:45 am

Colt1911 wrote:
Mon Jan 16, 2023 2:45 pm
backdoorbabe8 wrote:
Mon Jan 16, 2023 3:02 am
I want to start masturbating entirely AO, but I’m addicted to my clit. Avoiding vaginal penetration is not as difficult for me. Currently I never cum without something in my ass but I’m unsure of how to achieve an anal orgasm.

When you experience an anal orgasm, you’ll know it. My wife describes it as a full body experience. She can feel it up her spine. She uses a vibrator wand on her clit during anal play and penetration as it enhances her experience. When she feels her anal orgasm approaching, she tosses the vibrator aside to enjoy the anal orgasm without any clit stimulation.

She also loves butt plugs and we also use them for anal play. You may want to try a dildo in your ass using different angles to see if that can produce an anal orgasm. Angles are important for comfort, as well as pleasure. Because of her anal orgasms, we’ve been anal only for going on five years. Unlike clitoral orgasms where a woman experiences a crash, she can continue with penetration and often experience a second anal orgasm. This is well worth your time pursuing. Welcome to the forum and my best in your anal ventures!

I love using my butt plug and dildos as much as possible. I’m currently doing the constant penetration challenge, I just passed 24 hours for the first time and I’m in heaven!
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Re: Anyone here masturbate AO?

Post by Colt1911 » Tue Jan 17, 2023 3:59 pm

backdoorbabe8 wrote:
Tue Jan 17, 2023 11:45 am
Colt1911 wrote:
Mon Jan 16, 2023 2:45 pm
backdoorbabe8 wrote:
Mon Jan 16, 2023 3:02 am
I want to start masturbating entirely AO, but I’m addicted to my clit. Avoiding vaginal penetration is not as difficult for me. Currently I never cum without something in my ass but I’m unsure of how to achieve an anal orgasm.

When you experience an anal orgasm, you’ll know it. My wife describes it as a full body experience. She can feel it up her spine. She uses a vibrator wand on her clit during anal play and penetration as it enhances her experience. When she feels her anal orgasm approaching, she tosses the vibrator aside to enjoy the anal orgasm without any clit stimulation.

She also loves butt plugs and we also use them for anal play. You may want to try a dildo in your ass using different angles to see if that can produce an anal orgasm. Angles are important for comfort, as well as pleasure. Because of her anal orgasms, we’ve been anal only for going on five years. Unlike clitoral orgasms where a woman experiences a crash, she can continue with penetration and often experience a second anal orgasm. This is well worth your time pursuing. Welcome to the forum and my best in your anal ventures!

I love using my butt plug and dildos as much as possible. I’m currently doing the constant penetration challenge, I just passed 24 hours for the first time and I’m in heaven!

My wife will plug before we go out to dinner and she gets so wet she soaks her panties. How do you control the constant pleasure and concentrate on work or other things?!?!

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Re: Anyone here masturbate AO?

Post by clouds » Tue Jan 17, 2023 4:15 pm

backdoorbabe8 wrote:
Mon Jan 16, 2023 3:02 am
I want to start masturbating entirely AO, but I’m addicted to my clit. Avoiding vaginal penetration is not as difficult for me. Currently I never cum without something in my ass but I’m unsure of how to achieve an anal orgasm.

I know how you feel, I've been there ;) A few things I learned in the past ~2 years (as you, I never masturbate without anal being involved, very often AO):
- A few questions first(you don't have to answer me just for you to find out what you want :) ): Is your goal to cum without touching your clit? Have you tried edging or having a ruined orgasm? Does anal turn you on or do you enjoy the feeling of doing anal? Do you enjoy the denial aspect of not touching your clit while doing other stuff? How long do you think you could last without having a clit orgasm?

- For ME there are three types of orgasms. Pure AO orgasm, front orgasm (trying to make this gender neutral) and combined orgasm. They feel slightly different.
Front orgasm is short&sweet, very localized, sharp and often leaves me feeling empty (at least that's how I remember it - it's been a while).
AO orgasms can last a long time, they start somewhere down there and then they spread through the whole body and everything tingles and it feels absolutely fucking amazing for a long time. I usually start shaking after having one and then I feel refreshed and fully awake. I don't lose my sexual energy at all and sometimes I'm even hornier than before and go again, a few times until I'm a mess xD It's totally addictive.
Combined orgasms is what I call orgasms where the focus is on anal stimulation but I slightly involve the front. Sometimes just putting some pressure on. Some taps. Just to intensify the feeling and getting closer to the edge. It can't be too much front stimulation because then it becomes overwhelming and it stops feeling good. And before the orgasm happens I have to stop all front stimulation and then it just happens (similar to how others described in the thread). Mind turns completely off, body moves by itself, most intense feeling I could imagine. After I often just lie there for a while and need time to recover and catch my breath because it's so overwhelming. But after I feel similar to having an AO orgasm, probably slightly less horny :mrgreen:

- What brought me forward the most on my journey are two things:
1. Having sessions as described in the combined orgasm part above, where the front stimulation becomes less and less. Intensify the feeling you get from anal by touching your clit, but not too much and then let go and focus on anal again. When you cum stop touching your clit and finish with your ass(might be very awkward at first and you may not be able to do it - that's ok). Don't rush, take several months for that process. Signs that you are progressing are that sometimes you will feel horny in your ass instead of other parts. Or you will have parts of your session where the anal stimulation will feel so good that you forget about doing anything else. And you will maybe also find that after a while, stimulating the clit too much distracts you or stops the feeling from anal completely and you naturally do it less.
2. Have a period (like a week or month) where you go full denial on your clit. You can do anal stuff anytime. But clit/vagina is off limits. This is a challenge but it was very eye opening for me. I learned that I'm a completely different person when I don't front orgasm 3 times a day (in a very positive way - I can go into it if you want) and after a very challenging initial period (like the first week or so, I did about a month and a half in total) it started becoming easier, the anal sex became so much better and I thought if I had to, I could go on a long time like this. To me, even the way to an anal orgasm started feeling better than a regular front orgasm, so I stopped missing those after a while. Don't punish yourself if you don't reach a goal or anything, I mean do what you want, but i don't recommend it :D I suggest treating it like a fun little experiment.

- Final thoughts: Some people have the craziest orgasms the first time they experience anal, for others it takes time and maybe some simply never enjoy it. But I can assure you if you are the kind of person that is very turned on by anal and want it as your main sexual activity because it's fucking hot - you will get there. It might take some time but your body is very adaptable in that way! People can orgasm from nipple stimulation and thoughts alone. Anal is easy compared to that. Also experiment with different toys and positions, the right size and shape toy (surface too!) can make a lot of difference.
I was masturbating to porn like 3 times a day a few years ago. Now I'm at the point where I can lie in bed and feeling horny back there and then masturbating and cuming AO by using my fingers, never even thinking about doing something to the front. It's the best thing ever. I wonder where this leads and I'm sure others can get there too.

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Re: Anyone here masturbate AO?

Post by backdoorbabe8 » Tue Jan 17, 2023 10:26 pm

Colt1911 wrote:
Tue Jan 17, 2023 3:59 pm
backdoorbabe8 wrote:
Tue Jan 17, 2023 11:45 am
Colt1911 wrote:
Mon Jan 16, 2023 2:45 pm


When you experience an anal orgasm, you’ll know it. My wife describes it as a full body experience. She can feel it up her spine. She uses a vibrator wand on her clit during anal play and penetration as it enhances her experience. When she feels her anal orgasm approaching, she tosses the vibrator aside to enjoy the anal orgasm without any clit stimulation.

She also loves butt plugs and we also use them for anal play. You may want to try a dildo in your ass using different angles to see if that can produce an anal orgasm. Angles are important for comfort, as well as pleasure. Because of her anal orgasms, we’ve been anal only for going on five years. Unlike clitoral orgasms where a woman experiences a crash, she can continue with penetration and often experience a second anal orgasm. This is well worth your time pursuing. Welcome to the forum and my best in your anal ventures!

I love using my butt plug and dildos as much as possible. I’m currently doing the constant penetration challenge, I just passed 24 hours for the first time and I’m in heaven!

My wife will plug before we go out to dinner and she gets so wet she soaks her panties. How do you control the constant pleasure and concentrate on work or other things?!?!

That’s another benefit of plugging for me, eventually it goes from sexual to comforting as I wear it throughout the day. Being filled is a nice sensation, and so is just knowing the plug is there. Flexing my asshole a few times is all it takes for it to go from comforting to sexual again, lol. But it’s fun to able to control it.
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Re: Anyone here masturbate AO?

Post by backdoorbabe8 » Tue Jan 17, 2023 10:38 pm

clouds wrote:
Tue Jan 17, 2023 4:15 pm
backdoorbabe8 wrote:
Mon Jan 16, 2023 3:02 am
I want to start masturbating entirely AO, but I’m addicted to my clit. Avoiding vaginal penetration is not as difficult for me. Currently I never cum without something in my ass but I’m unsure of how to achieve an anal orgasm.

I know how you feel, I've been there ;) A few things I learned in the past ~2 years (as you, I never masturbate without anal being involved, very often AO):
- A few questions first(you don't have to answer me just for you to find out what you want :) ): Is your goal to cum without touching your clit? Have you tried edging or having a ruined orgasm? Does anal turn you on or do you enjoy the feeling of doing anal? Do you enjoy the denial aspect of not touching your clit while doing other stuff? How long do you think you could last without having a clit orgasm?

- For ME there are three types of orgasms. Pure AO orgasm, front orgasm (trying to make this gender neutral) and combined orgasm. They feel slightly different.
Front orgasm is short&sweet, very localized, sharp and often leaves me feeling empty (at least that's how I remember it - it's been a while).
AO orgasms can last a long time, they start somewhere down there and then they spread through the whole body and everything tingles and it feels absolutely fucking amazing for a long time. I usually start shaking after having one and then I feel refreshed and fully awake. I don't lose my sexual energy at all and sometimes I'm even hornier than before and go again, a few times until I'm a mess xD It's totally addictive.
Combined orgasms is what I call orgasms where the focus is on anal stimulation but I slightly involve the front. Sometimes just putting some pressure on. Some taps. Just to intensify the feeling and getting closer to the edge. It can't be too much front stimulation because then it becomes overwhelming and it stops feeling good. And before the orgasm happens I have to stop all front stimulation and then it just happens (similar to how others described in the thread). Mind turns completely off, body moves by itself, most intense feeling I could imagine. After I often just lie there for a while and need time to recover and catch my breath because it's so overwhelming. But after I feel similar to having an AO orgasm, probably slightly less horny :mrgreen:

- What brought me forward the most on my journey are two things:
1. Having sessions as described in the combined orgasm part above, where the front stimulation becomes less and less. Intensify the feeling you get from anal by touching your clit, but not too much and then let go and focus on anal again. When you cum stop touching your clit and finish with your ass(might be very awkward at first and you may not be able to do it - that's ok). Don't rush, take several months for that process. Signs that you are progressing are that sometimes you will feel horny in your ass instead of other parts. Or you will have parts of your session where the anal stimulation will feel so good that you forget about doing anything else. And you will maybe also find that after a while, stimulating the clit too much distracts you or stops the feeling from anal completely and you naturally do it less.
2. Have a period (like a week or month) where you go full denial on your clit. You can do anal stuff anytime. But clit/vagina is off limits. This is a challenge but it was very eye opening for me. I learned that I'm a completely different person when I don't front orgasm 3 times a day (in a very positive way - I can go into it if you want) and after a very challenging initial period (like the first week or so, I did about a month and a half in total) it started becoming easier, the anal sex became so much better and I thought if I had to, I could go on a long time like this. To me, even the way to an anal orgasm started feeling better than a regular front orgasm, so I stopped missing those after a while. Don't punish yourself if you don't reach a goal or anything, I mean do what you want, but i don't recommend it :D I suggest treating it like a fun little experiment.

- Final thoughts: Some people have the craziest orgasms the first time they experience anal, for others it takes time and maybe some simply never enjoy it. But I can assure you if you are the kind of person that is very turned on by anal and want it as your main sexual activity because it's fucking hot - you will get there. It might take some time but your body is very adaptable in that way! People can orgasm from nipple stimulation and thoughts alone. Anal is easy compared to that. Also experiment with different toys and positions, the right size and shape toy (surface too!) can make a lot of difference.
I was masturbating to porn like 3 times a day a few years ago. Now I'm at the point where I can lie in bed and feeling horny back there and then masturbating and cuming AO by using my fingers, never even thinking about doing something to the front. It's the best thing ever. I wonder where this leads and I'm sure others can get there too.

Hi, thanks for the insight! I would like to work my way up to cumming AO since the sensation sounds amazing. However like most women I’ve been using my clit to get off practically my entire life, with anal exploration coming next and finally vaginal. An AO orgasm is likely going to take a lot of practice, but to answer one of your questions, anal really turns me on. Plugging every day has only increased my love for it, and now I have no problem fucking my ass with a dildo several times a day. Since no clit stimulation is way too hard for me right now, I’m focusing entirely on my asshole during masturbation instead with a vibrator on my clit. I am definitely reaching the point where I feel arousal beginning in my ass, which gets easier the more often I plug. And finally, cumming AO would be my ultimate goal!! Nothing sounds more satisfying than that, as porn is more of a practical thing for me and not something I really enjoy. You’ve given me several experiences to look forward to!!
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Re: Anyone here masturbate AO?

Post by Backdoorlover » Tue Jan 17, 2023 10:48 pm

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