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by Rimmer » Wed Mar 01, 2023 1:44 am
Ya, my wife asked me if I wanted to just use her ass for sex. She didn't realize it at the time, but she wanted to be dominated and this was a way into that for her, it was only later that she realised she wanted to be sexually submissive. She had sort of suspected I preferred anal and almost subconsciously decided to put herself under some form of submission. I say that because she likes piv sex. It felt great for me when I took a breath and said 'yes, I would actually like to just use your ass for sex.' But I did say that we would have piv as an alternative now and then. Anal would be the norm and piv maybe on her birthday or special occasions - like some wives treat their husbands to anal on their birthdays, we would play it in reverse. That lasted several years. It may (or it may not be) that even if your husband isn't mithered either way, you said he was happy to use either hole but wasn't over zealous about anal, it may be that the kink of you saying you want only anal or you want to switch it round from the norm and have anal as the norm and piv on special occasions - kinda the opposite to what 'normal' people do, his kink switch will be flipped and he'll be into the kink of it, not so much doing anal but doing something abnormal may turn him on to it. As I say, my wife preferred piv, but some kink lurking in her head made her ask me if I wanted to just have her anally. In fact she didn't suggest it as something she wanted to do, she just asked if I wanted that and when I said yes, she submitted - she had all but tricked me into dominating her with my desire. Haha, if he agrees to having more anal you'll have to walk in the bedroom with a strap-on and say, 'right, bend over then!'
I'm married and just had anal for the first time a year ago... I love it! I'm so addicted I constantly think about anal. My man says he will fuck any hole I got but he seems reluctant. 
