Advice for a Beginner

[TelJ2003]

Hey. I'm 21 and have been anal only for a few months. My first boyfriend, when I was 17 wanted anal primarily for his for his pleasure and I was naïve when it came to hygiene and safety. Moving forward 4 years we are both switched on and are having an amazing time. A lot of this knowledge came from reading, talking with others, experimentation with trial and error. My advice would be listen to your body and be gentle was you explore your limits. Don't worry because these change as you develop resilience and get used to it. You can have a lot of fun finding out new sensations and pleasures of which there are many. I don't like lube but that is a personal choice. Previous posts give some great advice on lube. I am a fan of using dildos when exploring. It can give you a good idea if anal is really for you and gives a clue what a real cock will feel like. I'm lucky to have a boyfriend who is open minded and listens rather than thrusting his cock in an seeing what happens. I love combing oral sex with anal and ass to mouth plays a big part in our sex life. Have fun and if you need a chat I'm on here most days

[Spiller2006]

Hey. I'm 21 and have been anal only for a few months. My first boyfriend, when I was 17 wanted anal primarily for his for his pleasure and I was naïve when it came to hygiene and safety. Moving forward 4 years we are both switched on and are having an amazing time. A lot of this knowledge came from reading, talking with others, experimentation with trial and error. My advice would be listen to your body and be gentle was you explore your limits. Don't worry because these change as you develop resilience and get used to it. You can have a lot of fun finding out new sensations and pleasures of which there are many. I don't like lube but that is a personal choice. Previous posts give some great advice on lube. I am a fan of using dildos when exploring. It can give you a good idea if anal is really for you and gives a clue what a real cock will feel like. I'm lucky to have a boyfriend who is open minded and listens rather than thrusting his cock in an seeing what happens. I love combing oral sex with anal and ass to mouth plays a big part in our sex life. Have fun and if you need a chat I'm on here most days

From the U.K. too and I must say you sound like a dream girl. Please keep exploring and enjoying everything anal life has to offer you. Not allot of girls like you at least I don’t meet much. Welcome to the lifestyle

[TelJ2003]

Lol I'm hardly a dream girl. I'm on a journey of exploration with my boyfriend and some trusted friends. It has opened my eyes and my ass lol, to new pleasures and adventure. I am learning from many of the more experienced and knowledgeable. I know a few ladies who enjoy anal and like me are learning and experimenting. I guess that is part of the fun! I have noticed that anal sexual activity does not seem to be popular among people in the UK. OK there is a lot of curiosity watching porn but for the vast majority of 'normal' people don't seem to engage in anal on a regular basis. With no plans to have children in the near future, anal is my preferred sex. I just find it more pleasurable.
What is your anal story? Do you have an interested partner and like-minded friends?