Our anal sex is great. She experiences powerful and loud anal orgasms. She also lets me know when she’s about to cum. Both of us enjoy all aspects of anal including the feel, sights, smells, tastes, and sounds. There really is nothing else like it. We’ll watch anal porn once in a while (only amateur because it’s more genuine) but we’re both totally turned off when the couple is totally silent… the moans and talk add to the experience.
The only area I’d like to improve is the dirty talk. We’re both vocal in terms of moans of pleasure and letting each other know when we’re about to cum. I’m looking for advice on how to up the dirty talk. I’ll have an opportunity to experiment this afternoon.
I’m looking for advice on how I can encourage her to give me more verbal feedback. I’m thinking if I up my dirty talk game, she’ll do the same. My plan is to tell her what and how I’m feeling as I’m fucking her ass. My hope is she responds by retuning the favor. I don’t want it to feel forced, which is probably the biggest hurdle.
Any advice, particularly from the ladies in the group, is appreciated.
Dirty Talk
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You can try telling her to say things and asking questions. Here are some examples.
"Tell me your my anal only wife (slut, gf, whatever works here)
"You like being my anal slut?"
"This is what your ass is for"
"I love how your pussy gets so wet when I fuck your ass"
The most important part is that you don't force it. Just say whatever comes naturally. Don't think about it too much and just let it flow without restriction. I'm sure she will open up as well once you do.
"Tell me your my anal only wife (slut, gf, whatever works here)
"You like being my anal slut?"
"This is what your ass is for"
"I love how your pussy gets so wet when I fuck your ass"
The most important part is that you don't force it. Just say whatever comes naturally. Don't think about it too much and just let it flow without restriction. I'm sure she will open up as well once you do.
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Why not just ask her what she likes? Everyone is different and there will be trial and error. Ask her if she'd like being called names? Or just start by telling her how good she feels, how she was made for this. Stuff like that.
You shouldn't be afraid to say "no I don't like that" with each other". I think it will lead to a healthier relationship to just talk to her about it. Say you'd like some dirty talk.
You shouldn't be afraid to say "no I don't like that" with each other". I think it will lead to a healthier relationship to just talk to her about it. Say you'd like some dirty talk.
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@NoVagAnal @Peachy V thanks for the suggestions. She’s getting ready now, I’ll report back later.
Anal is so raw and primal, we often get into it and forget about different positions or things we talked about trying. I have NEVER had a bad anal experience, so there’s nothing to lose.
Anal is so raw and primal, we often get into it and forget about different positions or things we talked about trying. I have NEVER had a bad anal experience, so there’s nothing to lose.
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Good luck with your date.
It's kind of a good thing that you guys get so into it you forget everything. Means your really enjoying. Just let whatever you want to come out naturally. Don't hold anything back and don't force anything.
It's kind of a good thing that you guys get so into it you forget everything. Means your really enjoying. Just let whatever you want to come out naturally. Don't hold anything back and don't force anything.
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@Colt1911 question.
If it doesn’t come out natural, aren’t you afraid that it will come out forced ?
If dirty talk is something you feel inside, I would assume there is nothing holding you back to express it. But if something IS holding you back, maybe it’t a good start to think about what and why.
And like @Peachy V says, and she’s a woman, did you talk to your wife about this subject ? You two don’t strike me as people who still have taboos between them.
If it doesn’t come out natural, aren’t you afraid that it will come out forced ?
If dirty talk is something you feel inside, I would assume there is nothing holding you back to express it. But if something IS holding you back, maybe it’t a good start to think about what and why.
And like @Peachy V says, and she’s a woman, did you talk to your wife about this subject ? You two don’t strike me as people who still have taboos between them.
Backdoorlover’s quote:
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
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Update… we discussed using a little dirty talk during our anal session yesterday. I described what I was doing to her ass with fingers and toys during foreplay. That was relatively easy and it felt natural.
When we transitioned to penetration, the talk stopped and I focused on pleasuring her ass with my cock. She moans and grunts and her anal orgasms are quite loud.
As always, our anal sex was great. It’s just not natural enough for either of us to talk during sex other than to announce when we’re about to cum. What we do matters more than what we say… a little hair pulling, fingers in her mouth, a little ass to mouth are more of a turn on than words.
I gave it a try, and it worked during foreplay but isn’t natural enough for either of us to use during anal sex. I’m a lucky man as she has powerful multiple anal orgasms, sometimes squirts, and fucks me as passionately and hard as I fuck her. Nothing ventured nothing gained as they say.
I think I’ll continue to describe what I’m doing to her during foreplay, but the act of penetration speaks for itself. Conclusion: Actions speak louder than words!
When we transitioned to penetration, the talk stopped and I focused on pleasuring her ass with my cock. She moans and grunts and her anal orgasms are quite loud.
As always, our anal sex was great. It’s just not natural enough for either of us to talk during sex other than to announce when we’re about to cum. What we do matters more than what we say… a little hair pulling, fingers in her mouth, a little ass to mouth are more of a turn on than words.
I gave it a try, and it worked during foreplay but isn’t natural enough for either of us to use during anal sex. I’m a lucky man as she has powerful multiple anal orgasms, sometimes squirts, and fucks me as passionately and hard as I fuck her. Nothing ventured nothing gained as they say.
I think I’ll continue to describe what I’m doing to her during foreplay, but the act of penetration speaks for itself. Conclusion: Actions speak louder than words!
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I forgot to mention something else… the talk before and after an anal session is a turn on.
It’s been a couple of years but I’ve texted Mrs Colt exactly what I’m going to do to her. It’s a turn on to compose the text even though what we end up doing may be different than the text.
Even after five years of anal only, we enjoy discussing our anal session after we’ve finished. It’s an intimate moment and easier to talk about it than in the heat of the moment. Yesterday, she asked me to get her small mirror so she could see her hole and my cum leaking out of her ass. That was erotic and felt natural.
The texting thing is fun, and if you’ve never done it, I recommend giving it a try.
It’s been a couple of years but I’ve texted Mrs Colt exactly what I’m going to do to her. It’s a turn on to compose the text even though what we end up doing may be different than the text.
Even after five years of anal only, we enjoy discussing our anal session after we’ve finished. It’s an intimate moment and easier to talk about it than in the heat of the moment. Yesterday, she asked me to get her small mirror so she could see her hole and my cum leaking out of her ass. That was erotic and felt natural.
The texting thing is fun, and if you’ve never done it, I recommend giving it a try.
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Colt1911 wrote: ↑Sun Jul 30, 2023 6:32 amUpdate… we discussed using a little dirty talk during our anal session yesterday. I described what I was doing to her ass with fingers and toys during foreplay. That was relatively easy and it felt natural.
When we transitioned to penetration, the talk stopped and I focused on pleasuring her ass with my cock. She moans and grunts and her anal orgasms are quite loud.
As always, our anal sex was great. It’s just not natural enough for either of us to talk during sex other than to announce when we’re about to cum. What we do matters more than what we say… a little hair pulling, fingers in her mouth, a little ass to mouth are more of a turn on than words.
I gave it a try, and it worked during foreplay but isn’t natural enough for either of us to use during anal sex. I’m a lucky man as she has powerful multiple anal orgasms, sometimes squirts, and fucks me as passionately and hard as I fuck her. Nothing ventured nothing gained as they say.
I think I’ll continue to describe what I’m doing to her during foreplay, but the act of penetration speaks for itself. Conclusion: Actions speak louder than words!
That's great. You guys found what works best for you, and that is the most important thing. Enjoy your wife's ass.
