Introduce girlfriend to anal sex

[ChrisW]

I can't add too much to what the others have said. You can't ever kiss and lick her anus enough and its fun for both.

Try watching anal porn together as that may change her perceptions. My girlfriend has said many a time how beautiful she thinks anal looks and I think many women feel differently when they see it.

[Ketyball]

One time, my partner and I decided to check out villideitti.net, a sex club, just to explore and learn more about different experiences and perspectives. While it was out of our usual comfort zone, it turned out to be an eye-opener. We met people who shared their experiences and offered tips, which helped us approach new aspects of our sex life more openly. It was fun and informative, giving us fresh ideas without feeling like we were pushing any boundaries too quickly.

At the end of the day, it’s all about timing and mutual comfort. You both have a good foundation of trust and understanding, which is crucial when exploring new territories. Maybe try having a relaxed conversation about fantasies and desires when you're both in the mood. Often, these chats lead to new ideas and help us understand what excites us and our partners. Just keep communication open and respect each other's limits. It's all about enjoying the journey together, no rush needed.

[canadianbuttluvr]

We have been in a relationship with her for 5 years and they will probably last a very long time (maybe a lifetime). So I would like to come to harmony in sex. We are doing well with sex life and she and I are very understanding. She likes that I'm into anal (receiving), but when I bring up the topic that she can try too, she abruptly refuses. She believes that anal sex can only be enjoyable for guys. I try to explain to her that the main stimulation often does not come from the prostate, but the feeling itself is pleasant (for whom is it submission or just the fact of penetration or fullnes). Moreover, she likes playing with the area around the anus.
I don't in any way want to forcibly do what she doesn't want, but maybe I'm missing something and she can be somehow introduced to it

This is not a dealbreaker in a relationship in any sense, but I would like to know how people introduce their partners to new aspects of sex life(for example dom/sub play)

I was married for 15 years before my wife was even willing to try anal. When we did, she prefaced that she was only doing it for my sake because she couldn’t imagine deriving any pleasure from it.

Later this year we will celebrate 25 years of marriage which means we’ve been having anal sex for 10 years now. My wife really enjoys anal (we are not anal only), she can regularly squirt from anal, and has (although rare) cum just from anal alone without any clit stimulation.

At one point I asked my wife what advice she would give to another woman if she was ever asked for advice, knowing how reluctant she was but now really enjoys it, so can quote her exactly cause the answer was so short; “I would say if you are willing to try it, do it, you might surprise yourself”.

Here’s my last piece of advice; if your partner does get to the point where she is willing to try it, make the experience entirely about her pleasure. Even if you are desperate for anal, focus only on what she finds enjoyable-this my friend is the path to gettíng her to continue down the path.

Good luck!