Long Distance

[Analwife15]

My husband is away for work for 6 weeks and I want to use it as an opportunity to reset sexually and train my ass to take him easily. I bought a few buttplugs, a dildo, and some really sexy lingerie. I’m working on keeping my ass plugged for a daily orgasm. I bought a new dildo to practice fucking my ass once I feel like I’m stretched enough. Does anyone have any experience training while a partner is gone? Do I have enough time to learn to take a cock easily?

[LindyLovesAnal]

6 weeks is more than enough.

Get yourself several dildos with one that is slightly bigger than your husband

[Backdoorlover]

I would really love it if my girlfriend would fuck her own ass with the dildo we’ve bought. And then afterwards hear her tell me she enjoyed an anal masturbation session.

She plugs her ass spontaniously, as a surprise. But the knowledge she has been fucking her own asshole, would be much more intense to me.

So don’t just train your asshole, let him know you are doing it. It will make him horny like hell
Nothing is sexier then a woman training herself to have better assfucks.

[Colt1911]

I would really love it if my girlfriend would fuck her own ass with the dildo we’ve bought. And then afterwards hear her tell me she enjoyed an anal masturbation session.

She plugs her ass spontaniously, as a surprise. But the knowledge she has been fucking her own asshole, would be much more intense to me.

So don’t just train your asshole, let him know you are doing it. It will make him horny like hell
Nothing is sexier then a woman training herself to have better assfucks.

Every now and then I ask her to fuck her ass with a large glass dildo while I watch. I know when she’s about to orgasm, and when that happens I pull it out and fuck her ass. Adding variety to our anal routine increases the intensity. We may have to do that this weekend.

[Colt1911]

My husband is away for work for 6 weeks and I want to use it as an opportunity to reset sexually and train my ass to take him easily. I bought a few buttplugs, a dildo, and some really sexy lingerie. I’m working on keeping my ass plugged for a daily orgasm. I bought a new dildo to practice fucking my ass once I feel like I’m stretched enough. Does anyone have any experience training while a partner is gone? Do I have enough time to learn to take a cock easily?

Plugs and dildos will help using tips others have offered. My suggestion is to discover the pleasure associated with anal. When that happens, your ass will be much more receptive. It might help to rub your clit so you associate anal penetration with pleasure. You might even get lucky and experience an anal orgasm. When you do, you will be hooked on anal and make your husband a VERY happy man!

[Colt1911]

@Analwife15 I also recommend trying different angles while fucking your ass with the dildo. You’ll find the most comfortable and pleasurable angle. This is more important when you use a hard, glass dildo. During anal play, my wife is more comfortable with the dildo angled more towards her back. This is best when she wants to take it deep and hard. When I fuck her ass the angle doesn’t seem to matter as much, but my cock isn’t 11” long either! Let us know how you’re training is going.

[Analwife15]

I’d love to have dildo play together. Last time I suggested it he was a bit put off, I think he only wanted to be the star of the show and not have me want another cock per se. But that was a few years ago. I bought a vixskin mustang because I wanted the almost real feeling of a cock in my ass to practice and train with. I can anally orgasm and I didn’t want something hard or unnatural feeling. I think it’s different in the scenario you describe where you’re making sure she’s fucking you while she cums (such a hot way to play!)
I feel like I have a bit more prep to stretch with plugs etc before trying the dildo. Or would you recommend spending more time there since that’ll obviously be more similar to actually having anal?

[Colt1911]

@Analwife15 when we discovered anal (actually when she discovered how much she likes it) anal play with dildos was important so she felt ready for penetration. Easier said than done but I’d talk with him about your desire for more anal play.

Everyone is different, but nothing turns me on more than watching her fuck her own ass with a dildo. Maybe tell him to watch you fuck your ass. After a little while ask him to fuck your ass with the dildo. My wife’s first anal orgasms happened during anal play. Tell him you want it.

I’m not an anal receiver (although I did try it myself to learn how it would feel to her) so I’ll defer to others on the forum to help you find a way to prep your ass for play and penetration. Based on our personal experience, time matters and the more anal play and more fucking the easier it gets. I’ve said this before, but I tease that hole by rubbing it and pushing on it without penetration. She pushes out and craves penetration with fingers, toys, or my cock.

In the beginning we used TONS of lube. Now, she enjoys anal penetration with little to no lube. I’m quite thick so she needs just a little saliva so I can start to penetrate. I recommend you and your husband use a lot of lube for both toys and fucking. We hate silicone lube, but it might help you as you train your hole.

Watching a woman anally orgasm with a toy or my cock in her ass is the most erotic thing I’ve ever experienced. If your husband is the same, he will do whatever he can to help you achieve pleasure and orgasm.

I joined this forum to discuss our newfound anal joy and to help men understand how to make a woman crave anal. I’m happy to help anyway I can, including conversing with your husband and helping him understand how to make it happen. In conclusion (I’m long winded!), lots of anal play (including clit stimulation) will help your hole “open up” and crave penetration. Please keep us posted as you practice for his return home. I can’t imagine how great an anal session I would have with her after six weeks!

[Analwife15]

@Colt1911 This is honestly so helpful and I really appreciate the thoughtful reply.
It’s nice knowing a man’s perspective. I’m a bit chickenshit to mention it to my husband just yet. I think I’m enjoying knowing he’ll get the surprise of a perfectly practiced anal wife the second he’s home.
After wearing my plug a few hours, I figured ‘what the hell’ and tried with the dildo. It was tough but after letting myself just stretch around it, I was actually able to take it all the way and had a really beautiful orgasm.
Does anyone have a suggestion for how often they have anal or play to keep the level they’re at?

[Backdoorlover]

@Analwife15, the answer to that is very personal.

When I assfucked my sweety the first time, I asked her how many times a week we could assfuck and she just said “let’s try again tomorrow and see what happens”.

Untill that point in my life, I never could have imagined a woman could enjoy having a cock up her asshole every single day. With long sessions up till 40 minutes. But there I was, assfucking my baby every day for more then a year.

These days we’re more at 4 times a week due to being tired. But I can shove my cock in her sweet hole whenever I want. Even 3 times a day. She loves every single one and never has any discomfort.