Married: Switch Roles?
Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2025 5:24 pm
Hey I'm married now and we're about a year post partum, and her sex drive dropped off a cliff which is apparently normal?
My idea was to focus in her ass of course, until her pussy is back on line. She now claims that she was never really that in to anal which seems like a surprise, not sure what to think about that.
A while ago we started playing with my ass though, with a thigh strap on. I really like it and it seems like it really turns her on, like she had the her biggest (clit) orgasm in a long time last time we played with it. She doesn't know I have experience with guys and would love a big toy in my ass and mouth all the time. One thing I'm afraid of is her seeing me differently in real life if she sees me suck the toy or if our roles are completely reversed in bed. I'm alpha in real life and usually dom in bed with women. I guess my question is whether to wait out the sex drought or change the dynamic completely to her topping me (and having clit orgasms) and how to move that forward if that's what I do. Thanks.
My idea was to focus in her ass of course, until her pussy is back on line. She now claims that she was never really that in to anal which seems like a surprise, not sure what to think about that.
A while ago we started playing with my ass though, with a thigh strap on. I really like it and it seems like it really turns her on, like she had the her biggest (clit) orgasm in a long time last time we played with it. She doesn't know I have experience with guys and would love a big toy in my ass and mouth all the time. One thing I'm afraid of is her seeing me differently in real life if she sees me suck the toy or if our roles are completely reversed in bed. I'm alpha in real life and usually dom in bed with women. I guess my question is whether to wait out the sex drought or change the dynamic completely to her topping me (and having clit orgasms) and how to move that forward if that's what I do. Thanks.