Achieving anal only orgasms

[taylork]

Your wrong chris my gf has anal orgasms alot (50% of the time) just from anal alone. Its a different experience for her, much stronger and like a total all over orgasm. She doesn't just feel it in her ass if thats what you think. If you don't believe then message me i will send you links for videos where women have anal orgasms.

[Chris]

Chris, you misunderstand. I don't think anyone is saying that the orgasm caused through anal stimulation is felt only in the anus.

Hey, Marcus. It seems to me that some people on page 1 are under the impression that "anal orgasms" have nothing to do with the clitoris; even at http://www.analonlylifestyle.com/viewto ... ?f=2&t=173, people are clearly under the same impression. I am more so arguing against that than "anal orgasm" only being felt in the anus. Of course, orgasms are often felt as going beyond the genitals; people often report feeling it throughout their bodies.

When people talk about vaginal or anal orgasms in women, they tend to talk about them as separate from the clitoris, as in "She orgasms without clitoral stimulation." Technically, they are referring to direct clitoral stimulation, as in an orgasm without using the hands, mouth or another body part, to stimulate the clitoral glans. But what people often neglect (and it's understandable given the recent research on the clitoris) is that the clitoris is much bigger than it was previously thought to be (it's far more than just its glans), and that the clitoris is usually, if not always, being stimulated during penetration of the vagina or anus.

Your wrong chris my gf has anal orgasms alot (50% of the time) just from anal alone. Its a different experience for her, much stronger and like a total all over orgasm. She doesn't just feel it in her ass if thats what you think. If you don't believe then message me i will send you links for videos where women have anal orgasms.

taylork, unless you can provide scientific evidence that orgasms from anal stimulation is purely a result of anal stimulation and has nothing whatsoever to do with the clitoris, then I don't buy "anal-only orgasm" (as in solely an orgasm from the anus). Not to mention that scientists don't debate the existence of anal orgasm, since there is no evidence for its existence (meaning as separate from the prostate or the clitoris); they debate the existence of vaginal orgasm because there is some physiological indication that orgasms may result from vaginal stimulation; but again, scientists these days think that vaginal orgasm (in the significant minority of women capable of it) is likely due to the extension of the clitoris. If a purely anal orgasm existed, why would it exist? Nature created it so that anal sex could take place? If so, why? Regarding "vaginal orgasm," the theory for its existence is to further reproduction. As for the clitoral orgasm, scientists don't know why it exists, except that it is the female variant of a penile orgasm and contributes to sexual pleasure (considering fetal development, it's more accurate to state that the penis is a variant of the clitoris, however). Also, women commonly lie about their orgasms, far more then men, and often to please their male sexual partners. Watching porn videos of women claiming to have a purely anal orgasm is not reliable; there is no device hooked up to the women to gauge the physiological response, and women in porn are constantly putting on a show.


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[marcus]

Chris, I'm still not entirely sure what you are trying to argue. The information regarding clitoris size is hardly new, nor the theory that the "vaginal" orgasm doesn't exist. Clearly though, there are women who claim one particular type of stimulation was responsible for their orgasm.

What would be your view on this:

Some women can achieve an orgasm as a result of nipple stimulation. A survey in 2006 has found that sexual arousal in about 82% of young females and 52% of young males arises or is enhanced by direct stimulation of nipples, with only 7–8% reporting that it decreased their arousal.[7][8] A 2011 study using magnetic resonance imaging has shown that the area of the sensory cortex in a woman's brain associated with the genitals, is aroused by stimulating her nipples. The same brain areas connected to genitals were aroused as well in men who stimulated their nipples.

(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stimulation_of_nipples)

Not clitoral stimulation there. What about nocturnal emissions, AKA wet dreams? Orgasm and ejaculation without direct genital stimulation.

And surely there is no doubt that the anus is a well known erogenous zone?

[taylork]

I don't need to prove its possible as i know it is. Why do you have a problem with anal orgasms? Why do you want to convince us it cant happen? And i'm not talking about professionally produced porn videos but ordinary couples.

[analsexonly]

Chris is being pedantic and arguing against a strawman definition of an "anal only orgasm". The actual definition almost everyone uses is "stimulation from only anal penetration". The mechanism triggering the orgasm from that anal penetration is irrelevant to that definition, and it doesn't matter if it's the internal components of the clitoris, the g-spot, or something else. The point is that the orgasm is occurring without vaginal or external clitoral stimulation.

[Chris]

Chris, I'm still not entirely sure what you are trying to argue. The information regarding clitoris size is hardly new, nor the theory that the "vaginal" orgasm doesn't exist. Clearly though, there are women who claim one particular type of stimulation was responsible for their orgasm.

What would be your view on this:

Some women can achieve an orgasm as a result of nipple stimulation. A survey in 2006 has found that sexual arousal in about 82% of young females and 52% of young males arises or is enhanced by direct stimulation of nipples, with only 7–8% reporting that it decreased their arousal.[7][8] A 2011 study using magnetic resonance imaging has shown that the area of the sensory cortex in a woman's brain associated with the genitals, is aroused by stimulating her nipples. The same brain areas connected to genitals were aroused as well in men who stimulated their nipples.

(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stimulation_of_nipples)

Not clitoral stimulation there. What about nocturnal emissions, AKA wet dreams? Orgasm and ejaculation without direct genital stimulation.

And surely there is no doubt that the anus is a well known erogenous zone?

Not clitoral stimulation there? Look at the text in full; it states, "A 2011 study using magnetic resonance imaging has shown that the area of the sensory cortex in a woman's brain associated with the genitals, is aroused by stimulating her nipples. The same brain areas connected to genitals were aroused as well in men who stimulated their nipples." Then look at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm#An ... nd_females, which elaborates: "Research suggests that the sensations are genital orgasms caused by nipple stimulation, and may also be directly linked to 'the genital area of the brain.' Komisaruk also relayed, however, that preliminary data suggests that nipple nerves may directly link up with the relevant parts of the brain without uterine mediation, acknowledging the men in his study who showed the same pattern of nipple stimulation activating genital brain regions." In other words, the orgasms concern the genitals. It's not like the breast has the same type of orgasm capability as the genitals, and as though the "breast orgasm" is not caused by the genitals. Furthermore, only women were shown to experience orgasm via breast stimulation, and such an orgasm is rare, just like "vaginal orgasm" and "anal orgasm" is rare.

I also wouldn't rely on Wikipedia as a reliable source, unless relying on the sources it cites. If the sources are reliable, then I'm likely to trust it. For example, the sources used at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris are up to par.

Nocturnal emissions, AKA wet dreams, and orgasm and ejaculation without direct genital stimulation, are still matters concerning the genitals.

Yes, the anus is an erogenous zone, but only for some people, meaning no matter how much you talk some women into trying anal sex, they are not going to like it; it's not always due to psychological issues that people don't like anal sex. And despite the anus having a lot of nerve endings, some of which some people find erotic, the cumulation of these nerve endings are not the type of cumulation of nerve endings that lead to orgasm...unless of course crossing the prostate nerves in men and the clitoral nerves in women.

And as for "information regarding clitoris size is hardly new," I'm willing to wager that the vast majority of people think of the clitoris as only the little knob (the glans) and don't know how big it likely is; research certainly indicates that, just like it shows that many people believe in "vaginal orgasm" (as in an orgasm unrelated to the clitoris).

I don't need to prove its possible as i know it is. Why do you have a problem with anal orgasms? Why do you want to convince us it cant happen? And i'm not talking about professionally produced porn videos but ordinary couples.

I don't have a problem with "anal orgasm." My problem is with people perpetrating myths about orgasms, which I'll elaborate on below. I never stated that people cannot have an orgasm from anal stimulation. Your problem seems to be with me stating that the orgasm is not caused by the anus itself. And porn videos featuring ordinary couples are no more likely to prove that an orgasm has happened for the woman than professionally produced porn videos.

Chris is being pedantic and arguing against a strawman definition of an "anal only orgasm". The actual definition almost everyone uses is "stimulation from only anal penetration". The mechanism triggering the orgasm from that anal penetration is irrelevant to that definition, and it doesn't matter if it's the internal components of the clitoris, the g-spot, or something else. The point is that the orgasm is occurring without vaginal or external clitoral stimulation.

I'm not being pedantic at all. No more than scientists who debate vaginal-only orgasms (orgasms that are believed to be unrelated to the clitoris). Like I stated at http://www.analonlylifestyle.com/viewto ... 6453#p6453: I know what "anal-only orgasm" refers to; I'm simply noting that there is no evidence that the anus itself is a mechanism causing the orgasm; people too often think that it is, and I'm tired of men and women perpetrating orgasm myths, which often make it more difficult for men and women to enjoy sex. Think about how many men try to find the G-spot, only to never find it, and how many women think that there is something wrong with them because they know that they don't have a G-spot but keep hearing from guys or sex guides that they do. The only orgasm in women that is known to exist is the clitoral orgasm, which is why scientists think that it's the cause of orgasms experienced vaginally, and other researchers assert that, for women, it's the cause of orgasms experienced anally (both "vaginal orgasms" and "anal orgasms" are rare; "anal orgasms" are also rare in men, perhaps because the vast majority of men don't try to stimulate their prostates) . I also don't believe in the G-spot, at least not as a distinct structure, since it's never been proven to exist, is highly debated among scientists regarding its existence, and scientists generally think that the G-spot, if it does exist, is an extension of the clitoris.

I think that people need to stop neglecting the clitoris, which they often do because sex (heterosexual sex especially) is so often focused more so or only on penetration. Considering that 70-80% of women, according to general research on the topic, need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm, I think we need to focus more on that (the clitoris) when it comes to sexually pleasing a woman, especially where her orgasm is involved. Compare her clitoral pleasure to your penile pleasure, and how sucky it is to not have your penis directly stimulated during sex (unless you're only in it for the sexual arousal). Men can still get the anal, but, for goodness sakes, take care of your woman's sexual needs and let her know that a clitoral orgasm is fine and is not inferior to any "other orgasm," that there's no need to try to orgasm anally. Does it make men feel good to know that they're making a woman orgasm just from fucking her asshole? Yes. But just keep in mind that she could be faking, and that the matter is more about her anatomy than your pleasure or pride.

[mardobolo]

The often-quoted number is that less than 30% of women can have an orgasm from vaginal sex alone. The number for anal-only sex must be even lower. And I've seen no evidence that a woman can "learn" these things, in fact they seem to correlate with anatomical factors (distance between clit and vagina etc).

So the way I figure it, most of us guys have to be paying attention to our partners' clits if they are going to be satisfied. Which makes it almost irrelevant whether the penis is in her vagina or anus.

[LuvMyWifesAss]

I don't have a problem with "anal orgasm." My problem is with people perpetrating myths about orgasms, which I'll elaborate on below...

Chris is being pedantic and arguing against a strawman definition of an "anal only orgasm". The actual definition almost everyone uses is "stimulation from only anal penetration". The mechanism triggering the orgasm from that anal penetration is irrelevant to that definition, and it doesn't matter if it's the internal components of the clitoris, the g-spot, or something else. The point is that the orgasm is occurring without vaginal or external clitoral stimulation.

I'm not being pedantic at all...

Jeezus,

Someone has waaay too much time on their hands. What are you the fucking orgasm police? I agree with TaylorK and analsexonly, most people would agree the definition of an anal only orgasm is anal penetration without direct stimulation of the clitoris or vagina. This isn't to say the clitoris isn't indirectly stimulated during anal sex. To the contrary, I make the point in the following post that anal only penetration does stimulate the clitoris:

http://www.analonlylifestyle.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=15

I don't really care how it happens, all I know is my wife has a much more intense orgasm through anal sex, without direct stimulation of her clitoris or vagina. That, to me (and most sane people), would define an anal only orgasm.

LuvMyWifesAss

[pinkiepie9898]

As you can see in this image, the bulbs of the clitoris lie adjacent to the rectum. Therefore, it absolutely logical that in women who are able to experience AO orgasms these 'assgasms' are in fact due to stimulation of the clitoral bulbs. Anatomy will differ slightly from woman to woman. It is possible that in women who are able to have AO climaxes more of the bulbs interface with the rectum.

This image was taken without permission from 'Anatomy of the Clitoris', The Journal of Urology, Vol. 174, 1189-1195

Just wow! This is so amazing. I want to read everything on this subject now. Thank you so much for posting this.

[dirtyoldlady]

Just going to throw a wrench in the works for y'all:

I can have an orgasm by dreaming about it - so nothing's touched anything below my waist. In the past, I was able to have an orgasm from just thinking about it - essentially daydreaming. Again, no manipulation of clitoris, etc.

For many years, I never had an orgasm from vaginal sex. I didn't think I could. Then when DH and I had our little discussion, he did a lot of research (likely very similar to Chris') and he was able to not only manually make me orgasm via my clitoris and upper vaginal wall, but I also had 'female ejaculation' - very strange and that whole orgasm was explosive. Alas, never happened again.

I have only ever needed external clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, but if it's done too rapidly it becomes so intense that it's painful. So from childhood, I developed a way for masturbation to not overstimulate my clitoris and achieve an orgasm. My orgasms are also 'whole body' experiences and always have been...I 'shudder' and if it's strong enough can even look as though I'm convulsing.

I have had what I call an 'anal orgasm' - cannot be achieved every time I am anally stimulated - it usually happens when I have been completely abstinent for a while. It is a pulsating sensation that quickly spreads throughout my body, just like a clitoral orgasm, but it originates at the anus and is much more intense than a clitoral orgasm for me.

The bad news for me has been that a drug I now take for neuropathy in my hands and feet has caused me to be unable to achieve an orgasm easily. My doctor wants to increase the dose, and I am refusing to allow that for fear that I would become completely incapable of achieving orgasm of any kind by any type of stimulation for any length of time.