Wearing a butt plug overnight

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Wearing a butt plug overnight

Post by mardobolo » Sat Jul 25, 2015 6:48 pm

My wife and I almost always have sex in the morning. Recently we've been experimenting with her wearing a butt plug overnight beforehand. (She wears this along with a leather collar -- separate story.) It makes her really horny having the plug in while we sleep.

(As a side note, I haven't noticed that wearing the plug makes her anus feel any less tight the next morning. The only difference I perceive is that I can go to full depth more quickly than when she hasn't worn the plug. We both like that I can spend more of my time at full penetration.)

We're still trying to find a combination of plug and lube that works best. The plug she likes is a silicone one that is fairly thick, about 1.25 inches at the base, 1.75 inches at the widest, and 4 inches long (apologies to non-Americans for the imperial units). She prefers this one because it makes her feel "full". We have also experimented with a stainless steel plug but it is much thinner at the base.

The only problem with the silicone plug is that it seems pretty dry and friction-y when I pull it out in the morning, no matter what kind of lube I used to put it in: Water-based or oil-based (coconut or shea butter). The steel one seems to come out more easily. Perhaps silicone absorbs the lube? Or steel is naturally more slippery?

Does anybody have experience with long-term plug wear? Are there particular plugs or materials that are better-suited for it? Thanks --

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Re: Wearing a plug overnight

Post by analgeil » Sun Jul 26, 2015 4:11 am

Man, your lucky! I wish I had a relationship like that. Buttplugs are possibly the hottest toy ever invented. What a turn on to fondle the woman of your heart in the morning and find one of them poking from her asshole...

But back to your question: I don't think the lube problem is caused by the toy but by the love hole of your wife. No doubt, that her body tries to absorb as much moisture as possible or decomposes the lube during the night. I guess this is even more true for any kind of butter. So don't blame the toy, it's still doing it's best ;)

Did you try a silicone lube yet? It's supposed to last much longer and should not be absorbed by her body. Unfortunately it's (mostly) not recommended with silicone toys.

Did you try a glass toy? It shouldn't be to hard to find a plug in the size your wife prefers and you can use it with any lube.
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http://www.plugsmith.com/Glas-Analplugs ... y::18.html

Plugsmith also has a large size metal plug collection. But those things are heavy ;)
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Looking forward to hear your experience!

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Re: Wearing a plug overnight

Post by Robert » Mon Jul 27, 2015 6:45 am

I'm so envious! I'd been thinking of posting about the same subject for a while now as I don't know how to make it happen. My girlfriend has flatly refused to wear a plug all night, which I really want her to do for us. I'm not sure what the problem is, even though we have anal all the time.

I won't give up though. After all, we eventually went anal only and who'd have thought that would happen? So I'll follow this with interest... :)

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Re: Wearing a plug overnight

Post by LuvMyWifesAss » Mon Jul 27, 2015 5:15 pm

My wife has worn the large mood naughty plug for an extended period, but said she didn't think she could wear it overnight. The amazing thing about this plug is that she finds it so comfortable to wear while sitting, walking, etc. We've had quiet evenings at home with her wearing it, as well as nights out on the town wearing it. We've even gone to the hardware store with her wearing it. I would like to have her try wearing it overnight, but I'll be happy with what I've got.

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Re: Wearing a plug overnight

Post by Robert » Fri Jul 31, 2015 2:36 pm

LuvMyWifesAss wrote:My wife has worn the large mood naughty plug for an extended period, but said she didn't think she could wear it overnight.

Is it a problem with that plug, or any plug that stops her?

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Re: Wearing a plug overnight

Post by LuvMyWifesAss » Sat Aug 01, 2015 10:06 pm

mardobolo wrote:(As a side note, I haven't noticed that wearing the plug makes her anus feel any less tight the next morning. The only difference I perceive is that I can go to full depth more quickly than when she hasn't worn the plug. We both like that I can spend more of my time at full penetration.)

I've noticed the same thing. My wife's ass feels just as tight, but I can penetrate her balls deep almost immediately. It's nice to, ad you said, spend more of my time at full penetration.
Robert wrote:
LuvMyWifesAss wrote:My wife has worn the large mood naughty plug for an extended period, but said she didn't think she could wear it overnight.

Is it a problem with that plug, or any plug that stops her?

After you asked this, I thought about it. I guess I hadn't really asked her to try wearing it overnight. I asked her last night (Friday) and she agreed. She said she didn't know what effect it might have, as she was so tired.

She wore it all night and removed it when she went to the bathroom in the morning. She said she didn't have a problem sleeping with the plug, but thought she would have become turned on if she hadn't been so tired. She wants to try it again later in the week.

I hope this might lead to her wearing it more often at night.

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Re: Wearing a plug overnight

Post by analgeil » Sun Aug 02, 2015 12:00 am

LuvMyWifesAss wrote:
mardobolo wrote:I hope this might lead to her wearing it more often at night.


Good luck to you!

Did your wife have any problems removing the plug in the morning like mardobolo described? Maybe she can give some helpful advice?

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Re: Wearing a plug overnight

Post by LuvMyWifesAss » Sun Aug 02, 2015 6:51 am

analgeil wrote:
LuvMyWifesAss wrote:I hope this might lead to her wearing it more often at night.

Good luck to you!

Did your wife have any problems removing the plug in the morning like mardobolo described? Maybe she can give some helpful advice?

Actually, she said the only thing she didn't care for was that it felt a little slimy in the morning. The Mood Naughty is a silicone plug, so we didn't use our regular silicone lube. We used a water based lube. I was surprised it hadn't dried up, like mardobolo indicated happed with his wife.

Last night I told her what a turn on it was to think about her wearing it all night and asked her if she would be interested it doing it on a regular basis. She agreed to try it at least one night a week for while and see, but that she thought she might enjoy wearing it more.

As we had sex last night (anal, of course) before going to sleep, she didn't want to do it then, but wants to try tonight.

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Re: Wearing a plug overnight

Post by Mmmmm » Sun Aug 02, 2015 7:09 am

Sounds like your a very lucky guy. I struggle to get anything at the moment never mind anal.

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Re: Wearing a plug overnight

Post by LuvMyWifesAss » Sat Aug 08, 2015 2:33 pm

Since my last post she's wore the plug overnight three times. She's attempted to wear it overnight three other times, but we both became to horny and didn't even get to sleep before fucking.

I do like when she wears the plug, even if it's only for a short period of time. When she does this, it loosens her up enough that I'm able to go full depth immediately, something that usually takes several minutes, even with our experience level. As well, she actually seems to last longer and want it harder after wearing her plug for a while. As a guy, there's just something about being able to slam your cock balls deep in her ass porn style.

The other night she asked me if I thought it was strange or if something was wrong with her that she only wanted anal sex. I asked her, "Do you think something's wrong with me that I only want to fuck you in the ass?" She said, "I guess that means your cock was just meant to go in my ass."

Mmmmm, I do realize I am a lucky guy. Are you married or with a steady partner but not getting anything? If that's the case, message me and I'll see if I can help.

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