Best Practices and Ideas. Sorry long post.

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Anal_247
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Best Practices and Ideas. Sorry long post.

Post by Anal_247 » Tue Mar 01, 2016 7:49 am

Again sorry for the grammer.

Ok, so here's the situation....my wife & I recently had our first child 6.5months ago butt prior to that (her getting prego) a major and focal part of sex lives was anal sex and I'm not talking about lame slow duck buttfucking. I'm talking balls deep pounding, grinding & bouncing up and down while moaning type of assfucking. Couple things, about 4 yrs ago she had a SURPRISE, no clit stimulation assgasm, she still has them. second...she likes anal but doesn't love it until she is stage 3 (buttfucking like pornstar)stage 1 is just the tip and don't move much. Prior to being prego we'd have anal sex once a week, but until a month ago it'd been 16onths since she got to stage 3. So pt of all that background was to show she can ASSFUCK LIKE AN ANAL QUEEN........when she wants to!!!!! aka has it in her mind and wants to do it...bc in my experience I have found that the ass can NOT be willed, begged, coerced or bribed into takin cock, let alone get to stage 3....to be a true anal queen means embracing it, mentally.

I told my wife before to 'own it' and that was a turning pt in our sex lives where vaginal only sessions became nonexistent w/o anal after or skipping the vaginal all together which was the norm and we are working at getting back too.....that's part of the Mental Aspect, owning it and being aroused prior to during and after, butt nothing says not sexy and turn me off like...."want to have anal tonight?" "Can I fuck your ass?"...throughout the years we coined certain terms to mean certain things, word association basically:

Hug-when she squeezes and unsqueezes my cock w her asshole...'I love your amazing hugs'.
Poundtown-evolved from belly down pounding anal sex to imply anal sex in general. 'We are overdue for pound town'
Pink flower-pink glass buttplug w floral design, super sexy and cute too
Twitch-(every time cream pie and she feels it) 'I want to feel you twitch'
Bouncy bouncy- usually cowgirl or sitting facing me, where she slids top to bottom fast and for long duration. 'Bouncy bouncy'
Own it-basically admitting to yourself do anal better than 99% amateurs porn & u love it more than u wanna admit...
Cancun ready-be ready for lots of anal
Helicopter-spins around 360 w my cock in her ass
Pop-head of dick being accepted into her asshole



So this spring we are taking a vacation to Mexico and I've told her to be cancun ready, we practicing weekly now and she doing awesome....this is our first trip just her and I and this could be our last hoorah. (2nd kid maybe). I mentioned how important the mental aspect is and that by even just changing buttplug to pink flower, makes the word/idea less intimidating and frankly more romantic. the word association has been a huge success and made everything about anal sex less intimidating for her mentally, that she actually will text me things like 'pound town'. She's bringing pink flower to Mexico and has thong swimsuits, she will be wearing pink flower majority of the time down there and that's going to be hot as fuck. I'm trying to think of ways without being totally obvious to have her think of anal sex, she knows it's coming but it's hotter when she is proactive and that requires mentally owning it and willing it to happen.

So the reason I'm here today is to look for additional ideas using different concepts that we can do to keep pound town on the top of her mind bc knowing what's coming makes stage 3 easy as fuck. For example-

Games-these are general ideas that need more formulating and structure, maybe you all can help bc I can't find jack on the Internet for 'mental foreplay specific for anal sex' but do so subtly as not appear single minded.

Nature images-spot something (clouds) that makes you think of anal sex (get 1 point). Challenging each other to spot erotic shapes or images that reminds you of _________. Make the blank anal sex for her and oral for the guy

Jeopardy-__ __ __ __ sex. Lol

20 questions. Leading to the ass

Fill in the blank for the airplane ride down- When you __________ it gets me thinking about your ______ in my ______ going in & out slowly then fast. That makes me ________! & I crave you inside my ______

Ever fantasizes about me fucking you in the ass?

Ever wanted to ask me to fuck you in the ass but got shy?

Jeperody, finish the sentence/thought

Even sentence u says ends with Bc I want you in my ass

Anal whore for a day, you have 10 tries to make me cave and do what u said or we go to room and u sit w my cock in ur ass for 10mins but I can not move at all or it ends and I give u sensual back rub for 10mins


Thanks all,

Look forward to the ideas

Blah this sums it up-

"This is, pardon the sporting metaphor, the 'psychological game'. Ladies, unless you actually want him inside you none of what I am describing here will work. You have to feel ready emotionally to make love anally, and you have to actively want him inside you. The goal is to cultivate inside yourself a sense of desire to have him in your rectum that feels as much as possible like the empty, hungry longing inside yourself you experience when you want him in your vagina. This will become easier and more pronounced once you start experiencing anal intercourse you enjoy. For the moment, preparing for your first anal penetration you need to genuinely feel that you want him inside you every possible way, including anally. It's good if your comfortable to say it out loud, but not everyone is comfortable verbalising their desire -- and being comfortable is the single most important issue here." -some blog?

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