Would you share her ass or pussy?

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Re: Would you share her ass or pussy?

Post by French Lover » Mon Nov 18, 2013 2:50 pm

Canassman wrote: Luckily my wife's fantasy is actually FMF - particularly having a woman lick her pussy while I fuck her ass.

Soooo great, lucky man indeed :D

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Re: Would you share her ass or pussy?

Post by LuvMyWifesAss » Mon Nov 25, 2013 5:48 am

Canassman wrote:I would not be able to share in a mfm threesome - probably usual male ego issues. Luckily my wife's fantasy is actually FMF - particularly having a woman lick her pussy while I fuck her ass.

I think my wife's fantasy would be the same, not that she'd ever give in to it. Maybe she would fantasize a DP with another man, but I just don't think so, as she doesn't seem to care for anything in her vagina anymore.

Not that I have either fantasy, but if I had to chose letting another man fuck her vaginally or anally, I would only want him to fuck her vagina. Her ass is mine alone. Before meeting me, my wife had sex with a number of people in high school, but I'm the only one she's ever had in her ass. That's just for us.

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Re: Would you share her ass or pussy?

Post by mogashim » Wed Dec 04, 2013 4:17 pm

This is a really interesting question! I have some experience in this. My wife and I have a deal - once a year for one night only (it's usually two weeks before our anniversary) we go our separate ways and each get to have sex with another person. It goes back to just before we got married. We agreed to have "one last fling" each on our respective stag/hen (bachelor/bachelorette) parties. Both experiences worked out well and seemed to strengthen our bond so to speak so we decided to make it an annual thing. So we've had I think about 8 or 9 of these trysts each. Funny thing is my wife actually prefers to choose female partners for this (I do like this but this is totally her decision not mine) but twice she has had male partners and in both cases the sex was just like she and I do together because that's what she's used to, that's what she's comfortable with and that's what she likes. It doesn't bother me when she has sex with somebody else even the guys but I think it would bother me (and surprise me!) if the sex wasn't AO.

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Re: Would you share her ass or pussy?

Post by sara » Thu Dec 05, 2013 2:58 am

mogashim wrote:This is a really interesting question! I have some experience in this. My wife and I have a deal - once a year for one night only (it's usually two weeks before our anniversary) we go our separate ways and each get to have sex with another person. It goes back to just before we got married. We agreed to have "one last fling" each on our respective stag/hen (bachelor/bachelorette) parties. Both experiences worked out well and seemed to strengthen our bond so to speak so we decided to make it an annual thing. So we've had I think about 8 or 9 of these trysts each. Funny thing is my wife actually prefers to choose female partners for this (I do like this but this is totally her decision not mine) but twice she has had male partners and in both cases the sex was just like she and I do together because that's what she's used to, that's what she's comfortable with and that's what she likes. It doesn't bother me when she has sex with somebody else even the guys but I think it would bother me (and surprise me!) if the sex wasn't AO.

:oops: :oops: :oops: I'm M's wife. This is all true but I am a little embarrassed reading it all here :oops: :oops: :oops: . It's ok though. I need to get over my shyness... (please don't judge!)

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Re: Would you share her ass or pussy?

Post by amorous945 » Sat Jan 11, 2014 8:54 pm

mogashim wrote:I'm M's wife. This is all true but I am a little embarrassed reading it all here :oops: :oops: :oops: . It's ok though. I need to get over my shyness... (please don't judge!)

No judgment here, Sara. My only question is, are these people you guys have sex with people you know (repeats), or do you find new people each time? I don't think that a woman would have trouble finding someone, but I it seems that that proposition would be much harder for a man to accomplish.

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Re: Would you share her ass or pussy?

Post by CumInAssOnly » Tue Jan 28, 2014 1:38 am

This is one of those kinks you either have or you don't. I am one of those guys who does. I've raised the topic with my wife several times, but she isn't interested in pursuing anything with another guy. Anyway a long time ago I had a girlfriend who was into MFM, and a couple times I got a friend of mine to join me fucking her. At that time anal wasn't something we even knew about, so there was no DP etc. -- we just took turns fucking her. For me it's crazy-hot to see another guy fucking my slutty girl, and to see her getting off on it. But I'll concede it's a bit unusual and I can perfectly understand why guys think it's nuts.

If my wife would ever do it, I'd share her vagina instead of her ass. Making anal sex comfortable for the wife takes more care and patience, and if you don't do it she can get hurt. So with a new guy it's somewhat higher risk. That said if he were a good guy and I knew he would do it right, I'd let the two of them decide where he fucks her. :)

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Re: Would you share her ass or pussy?

Post by Mobiustrip » Sat Feb 08, 2014 12:19 pm

My wife and I are poly so it's not exactly sharing but I actively encourage my wife to have her lovers fuck her ass. She loves anal sex and to me, since I fuck my lover's asses, why shouldn't she get assfucked by her lovers?
At first she was under the impression that she had to "save" anal sex just for us, so I asked her, "Don't you want anal sex from your lovers? "
"Yes", she said timidly, "I thought that you wouldn't want me to"
"I want you to be pleasured by your lovers. I'm a lucky man. I get more anal sex than three normal men combined. I know you love receiving anal sex. Why would I keep that pleasure from you?"
She had a date the next night with one of her lovers so I had her call him and tell him that she wanted him to fuck her ass. He didn't believe her at first and I actually had to get on the phone to convince him it was OK.
When I was done on the phone I realized that she had gone and gotten the lube. She handed me the bottle and without a word lowered her pants and panties and bent over the arm of the couch. "Don't be gentle," she said.
I took her advice. I usually finger her for quite a while before entering her but this time I just lubed my cock and shoved it up her ass. She screamed and bucked and I fucked her ass harder than I ever had before. She came to a screaming, squirting orgasm just before I came, balls deep in her rectum.
That was the trans-formative moment for her. She still wanted to have something "just for me" . I don't feel the same need to be proprietary so our compromise is I get to have her ass any time and any place that I want and I also have to give her permission each time she wants another lover to have her ass. I have never denied permission and I have no intention of denying her permission to have anal sex with her lovers. I have taken advantage of the any time, any place condition and have taken her ass on the side of the road while travelling, in our back yard, in a hot spring, at a play party with about 30 people watching and my personal favorite, first thing in the morning before she leaves for work. She has even asked me to fuck her ass on mornings that she has a big meeting, She says it helps calm her nerves before a presentation..

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Re: Would you share her ass or pussy?

Post by mogashim » Sat Feb 08, 2014 3:30 pm

amorous945 wrote:
mogashim wrote:I'm M's wife. This is all true but I am a little embarrassed reading it all here :oops: :oops: :oops: . It's ok though. I need to get over my shyness... (please don't judge!)

No judgment here, Sara. My only question is, are these people you guys have sex with people you know (repeats), or do you find new people each time? I don't think that a woman would have trouble finding someone, but I it seems that that proposition would be much harder for a man to accomplish.

For me it's mostly repeats or escorts. Finding "playmates" isn't a problem for Sara, guys or girls but there have been a couple of repeats with the latter.

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Re: Would you share her ass or pussy?

Post by amorous945 » Sat Feb 08, 2014 8:01 pm

Mogashim, I have always admired "Poly" people, as I believe that this is a viable option for some couples. I also know from personal experience that it is possible for "some" people to love more than one person. My wife and I experimented with this for a very short time, but jealousy and insecurity put a quick end to it. We were really ill prepared to pursue this venture, so it's no wonder that it failed miserably. That being said, my wife let one of her lovers enter her ass (wearing a condom), and I had no problem with it.

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Re: Would you share her ass or pussy?

Post by mogashim » Sun Feb 09, 2014 2:53 pm

amorous945 wrote:Mogashim, I have always admired "Poly" people, as I believe that this is a viable option for some couples. I also know from personal experience that it is possible for "some" people to love more than one person. My wife and I experimented with this for a very short time, but jealousy and insecurity put a quick end to it. We were really ill prepared to pursue this venture, so it's no wonder that it failed miserably. That being said, my wife let one of her lovers enter her ass (wearing a condom), and I had no problem with it.

I don't know if Sara and I qualify as fully Poly even though, like you I do admire Poly people. What we have is more of a mutually agreed and mutually beneficial holiday from reality once a year. I wouldn't have any major objection if she said she wanted to have "play time" with another at any other time or more frequently and I'm sure she feels the same if I wanted to but we're both happy with it just as a once a year treat. We never really planned for this as an ongoing thing, it was originally meant to be "one last fling" before getting married but it worked out so well for us and the jealousy/insecurity thing never really became an issue for either of us (thankfully!) so we decided to make it a thing we do each year.

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