Buttwoman wrote:Jack wrote: She's very loose when we have sex and suffers occasional incontinence, but tells me it's a reasonable price for the mutual pleasure we have derived throughout our long, happy and monogamous marriage.
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That's so rare I've never even heard of it, but I'm sorry it happened. I suspect some kind of major injury, cause the asshole was designed for a lifetime of rough use. I've been having anal, fisting, and playing with HUGE, HUGE toys for over forty years, and my asshole is still factory spec, and has that new asshole look.
I have to agree. My wife and I have been having anal sex three to five times a week for over 25 years. Most of the time I am inside her ass for at least 30 minutes, with a mix of vigorous, hard thrusts and slower, rhythmic movements. I have, quite literally, spent thousands of hours working her ass with my cock, hands, and toys. That doesn't even account for the nights she's slept plugged, or all the times she's been plugged in the evening to prepare for that night's session. My wife's ass hole looks and feels just as tight as the first time the head of my cock pushed past her sphincter and we both knew this is how sex was meant to be.
Early on I was concerned about a number of aspects of anal sex and what the long term effects might be. I spoke to our family doctor (a GP), a proctologist, and a urologist who were all of the opinion anal sex was safe, if pain was not involved, and would have no long term consequences. Think about it, the sphincter's job is to open and close hundreds of thousands of times over a person's lifetime.
Although I realize you have been having anal sex for more years, I don't know if your wife has spent as many hours with her ass penetrated. My cock is above the average for size. Not like some of the monster cocks you see in porn these days or anything. Seriously, who has a 14" cock that's as big around as a coke can? So, unless you're hung like a donkey, I don't know what could have caused the issues your wife has experienced.
It's great that she thinks it's a small price to pay for the pleasure. However, I don't think it needs to be like that. Has she seen a doctor about her incontinence, as it can be caused by a lot of different conditions? I have a friend that's a cop. He had to have his gall bladder removed. After eating a fatty lunch (he knew he shouldn't have) he ended up crapping his pants while struggling with a suspect. It surprised the bad guy so much he just gave up. I think I can say with a high degree of confidence anal sex didn't cause my friend's issue. So, it may not be the cause of your wife's.