My wife and I have been in an anal only relationship for 25 years.
During that time my wife, a nurse by the way, has never had an enema.
She considers them messy and potentially damaging.
She also understands that "shit happens" so we incorporate rectal cleaning into our sex play.
She takes Metamucil daily so her stools are firm.
She always sits on the pot beforehand but then instructs me to do a search for any "intruders" before she will allow full and deep penetration.
I start out by massaging her ass and then inserting a lubed finger into her anus.
If I feel anything up there (and I usually do) I tell her and we do a bit more finger play before she exits to hit the bathroom.
Lately I have found that I can help things along by inserting coconut oil suppositories that I make up beforehand.
I mold coconut oil purchased from the supermarket into suppositories and place them in the refrigerator for a few minutes.
I then follow this up by inserting my dick part way - no abrupt moves or deep penetration at this point - this is just for loosening things up.
Leaving these in until fully melted really helps move stuff along and it has the advantage of being mild & gentle in addition to it's lubricating qualities.
After she evacuates she has me do another digital exam again to make sure she is fully cleaned out.
For some reason she cannot achieve orgasm if she feels there is anything in her rectum besides my dick.
Does it work that way for other women? I would like to know.
All the best to you.
Anna wrote: ↑Sun Jan 05, 2020 5:32 amHello. I need some advice from women who have more than 3 years experience with anal sex. My boyfriend and I are anal only 3.5 years now. Everything was so nice until a month ago when I have experienced problems with cleaning my colon. We have anal sex 5 time a week so 5 days I have to clean my colon everyday. From the beginning of December I hav terrible stomach pain, the cleaning doesn't work so much anymore because when having sex my stomach hurts and 5 min after we get dirty a little bit. I'm very sad beause it is not comfortable anymore and I don't know why. I have been reading that it is not ok for your gut to clean your colon but those people probably don't have our lifestyle. Please give me your advice. Thank you.
I think the problem is you clean your collon, been having anal only for 5 years with my ext and she never cleaned her colon and with silicone lube it always comes out clean, I dont see poop staining my penis unless we use spit or another lube then silicon. So no cleaning requiring, and even the times I have some brown on my penis, no big deal, just clean up after and come back for cuddling;)
Myself, I clean every single time I go to the bathroom for years now, and I don't have any issue whatsoever. Use something like this:
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and not like this:
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The key is to carefully check the amount of water you put in and NOT to put too much water. Go to the bathroom as normal, then put water in with the douche (not too much) to rinse yourself (you won't irritate your anus with toilet paper that way, BTW), and after you pushed the water out, finger yourself to make sure the water is all gone, and to check if you're clean. Rinse more if necessary and finger yourself, etc. I actually masturbate anally pretty often that way, which helps shifting your sexual drive to your ass.
If you adopt this routine, you won't irritate your ass too much and be clean most of the time to stay available to your boyfriend, and be more intimate with your ass.