are we going anal only??!!

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Re: are we going anal only??!!

Post by Regent » Wed Feb 03, 2021 1:03 pm

Yesterday one more time I offered became AO to my wife (because we have almost 90% of anal). She refused, says that she likes any kind of sex.
I respect her decision. But, that strange))
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Re: are we going anal only??!!

Post by Samy » Tue Feb 09, 2021 8:08 am

Maybe it's psychological: for a woman, thinking your pussy will never be fucked again is pretty heavy.

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Post by Canassman » Mon Nov 01, 2021 10:20 pm

Just had to update that since I started this thread in 2015, we have been strictly anal only. It’s still been the best decision we ever made for our sex life. This January will be 7 years of anal only bliss!
We never argue at all, our sexy is stress free and amazing, we can talk about anything, and are more in love than ever.

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Re: are we going anal only??!!

Post by analogue » Thu Nov 04, 2021 9:33 am

Yeah @Canassman thats so true. What a great story.

I'm a forum member since 2017 and it changed our lives in such a positive way. In all honesty, i no longer expected my sex-life to change so dramatically in my later years. Four years for us now, I still can't believe it ...
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Re: are we going anal only??!!

Post by Canassman » Thu Nov 04, 2021 10:27 am

analogue wrote:
Thu Nov 04, 2021 9:33 am
Yeah @Canassman thats so true. What a great story.

I'm a forum member since 2017 and it changed our lives in such a positive way. In all honesty, i no longer expected my sex-life to change so dramatically in my later years. Four years for us now, I still can't believe it ...

Awesome congratulations!

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Post by LuvMyWifesAss » Sat Nov 06, 2021 2:09 pm

Canassman wrote:
Mon Nov 01, 2021 10:20 pm
Just had to update that since I started this thread in 2015, we have been strictly anal only. It’s still been the best decision we ever made for our sex life. This January will be 7 years of anal only bliss!
We never argue at all, our sexy is stress free and amazing, we can talk about anything, and are more in love than ever.

Canassman,

I can remember when you joined the forums. If I remember right, you guys were like 60% anal, or something like that? Despite this, I remember she committed to Anal only April or No Pussy November and it went pretty well. Then there were some ups and downs for a couple of years, until she committed to anal only?

You've been a great contributor here ever since, helping promote the anal only lifestyle. I wish the two of you many more years of anal only bliss.

For the wife and I, we've now been married 32 years. We were mostly anal for about 15 of those and now anal only for the past 16. Despite this, we still agree our sex life gets better and better. We don't know another couple our age that have sex as often as we do (pretty much every day). We both attribute it to being anal only.

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Re: are we going anal only??!!

Post by Canassman » Sat Nov 06, 2021 2:52 pm

Canassman,

I can remember when you joined the forums. If I remember right, you guys were like 60% anal, or something like that? Despite this, I remember she committed to Anal only April or No Pussy November and it went pretty well. Then there were some ups and downs for a couple of years, until she committed to anal only?

You've been a great contributor here ever since, helping promote the anal only lifestyle. I wish the two of you many more years of anal only bliss.

For the wife and I, we've now been married 32 years. We were mostly anal for about 15 of those and now anal only for the past 16. Despite this, we still agree our sex life gets better and better. We don't know another couple our age that have sex as often as we do (pretty much every day). We both attribute it to being anal only.
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We were about 80% anal only. And yes we had some issues to work out, but the final decision changed our lives. Last night my wife confirmed that she much prefers anal sex to vaginal, that her anal orgasms are much more intense than her vaginal ones were, and that she regrets nothing about making the switch to AO, that it was the best decision we ever made.

I enjoy hearing about others who have successfully made the decision as well.

This forum was instrumental in us having the conversations and having the courage to see this as a viable option. If it wasn’t for the forum we’d never have achieved the bliss we have now. So thank you for this forum and the good that’s come from it!

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Re: are we going anal only??!!

Post by helloagain4737 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 11:34 am

I just read this entire thread and I'm (a) extremely envious and (b) super inspired. I just got married last weekend to a woman who has one of the nicest asses I've ever seen. I love worshipping it, recently we discovered the 69 position (she was reluctant to it for whatever reason) and I basically just eat her ass for as long as possible while she sucks my cock. However, we haven't done anal in about 2 years which has been causing me to repress my urges and desires. When we first started dating, we did anal almost every time for a period of about 2 months. Then, she got an IUD hormonal birth control, which completely messed with her entire system. Vaginal sex started to hurt for her, but slowly this alleviated. She has another autoimmune condition that affects her digestion, so I've asked for anal a few times since but I haven't really been communicating my desire for it anymore, though it is definitely very repressed and I think it's time to broach it again. It's an absolute shame that her perfect big round ass isn't being fucked. I really miss it and I'm going to slowly and gently suggest it more and more in the coming days/weeks. Your comment about feeling stress free and more connected really resonated with me. I've always preferred anal but haven't really had a partner who feels the same, though she did love it when we did it back then. I think she is just scared now about accidents because of her digestive issues.

Anyway I know that's a lot of jumbled thoughts but I appreciated reading your story. I can't wait to start fucking my wife's perfect ass again!

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Re: are we going anal only??!!

Post by Colt1911 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 8:30 pm

helloagain4737 wrote:
Thu Sep 22, 2022 11:34 am
I just read this entire thread and I'm (a) extremely envious and (b) super inspired. I just got married last weekend to a woman who has one of the nicest asses I've ever seen. I love worshipping it, recently we discovered the 69 position (she was reluctant to it for whatever reason) and I basically just eat her ass for as long as possible while she sucks my cock. However, we haven't done anal in about 2 years which has been causing me to repress my urges and desires. When we first started dating, we did anal almost every time for a period of about 2 months. Then, she got an IUD hormonal birth control, which completely messed with her entire system. Vaginal sex started to hurt for her, but slowly this alleviated. She has another autoimmune condition that affects her digestion, so I've asked for anal a few times since but I haven't really been communicating my desire for it anymore, though it is definitely very repressed and I think it's time to broach it again. It's an absolute shame that her perfect big round ass isn't being fucked. I really miss it and I'm going to slowly and gently suggest it more and more in the coming days/weeks. Your comment about feeling stress free and more connected really resonated with me. I've always preferred anal but haven't really had a partner who feels the same, though she did love it when we did it back then. I think she is just scared now about accidents because of her digestive issues.

Anyway I know that's a lot of jumbled thoughts but I appreciated reading your story. I can't wait to start fucking my wife's perfect ass again!

We’re a couple in our 60’s and my wife’s libido improved significantly after going on custom hormone therapy. It was like turning on a light switch. It led to anal only sex for the last 4+ years. She may want to get a comprehensive hormone test.

You should have a conversation with her and let her know your desires. Occasionally we have impromptu anal, but generally she likes to prep with an enema. It give her the confidence to let loose when I’m fucking her ass.

Last, and most importantly, she orgasms during anal penetration and seldom did during vaginal sex so epic anal orgasms solidified her preference for anal only. I finger and toy her ass at length and edge her until it’s my turn to fuck it.

I hope this works out as well for you as it has for us. My wife would have laughed at the thought of anal sex years ago, but now it’s the only thing both of us want to do. I hope you get to the same place. Always happy to offer advice.

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Re: are we going anal only??!!

Post by Rimmer » Fri Sep 23, 2022 12:56 am

Canassman wrote:
Wed Jan 21, 2015 3:30 pm
. Usually she asks something along the lines of "where you going?" when I'm getting ready for penetration -..........but would like some vaginal stimulation once in a while - even a dildo woukd be fine......... I no longer have the anxiety I used to have bat worrying she would ask me to fuck her pussy when I really just wanted her glorious ass.

Pinched from three of your posts here @Canassman My wife used to ask, 'where do you want it?' But we later agreed that that should mean, on the bed or outside against a tree - not which hole - yes we have that agreement about vaginal stimulation, dildos, cunnilingus and more recently fisting and stretching (which has led to a little more vaginal sex as her stretched pussy has become an interesting contrast to her ass). Yes, I had that same anxiety about her asking me to fuck her pussy. She ended up asking me if I wanted to go AO and that anxiety evaporated, I was so happy. As I said, we have a little more vaginal sex these days, but the agreement that we are AO is still there, if we have vaginal sex, it is just that we decided to on that occasion, it hasn't broken any kind of covenant or set a president. we might never have vaginal sex again or have it five times in a row - which has never happened so far. It is very freeing when you both get to the point where " how do you want it?" refers to position or location and never to which hole. She is happy to take me in any hole but expects that to normally be her ass hole.

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