Anal negativities

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Juliet
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Anal negativities

Post by Juliet » Sun Nov 13, 2022 4:05 pm

Topic mentioned share the experience of anal only life style. I would like to share some of mine where I found critics over the fetish.

I write articles and stuff for local news papers and for blog requests. To collect data and come up with responses I always check what ever the opposite what I am. Example. I checked a post on a blog once, pussy rocks anal boo. Yeah that's the actual topic. Surprising enough half of the people men women both responded to say anal rocks. How ever these are the main criticisms found an this is my personal preferences.

Religious view.
My father is a christian. So I have been on churches and know some statements about religion. I think in Christianity sodomy is a sin. I don't want to go in details with religions it would offend people. The reason I drop this idea from my end was I've been doing anal for a long time and me personally have found a way to do anal that I won't have any physical issues such as fissure, rectum tissue fracture, hemorrhoids, etc. This is why I believe when it comes to anal, the one who receives is the one who should call for the shots. It's a MUST to learn your body. I do not know anything about good deeds or sins. But I do know one thing. And that's how my body reacts to certain sexual activities. I've figured out how to do anal without putting my physical in danger and have maximum fun with it. Isn't that enough?

It's an exit.
Other main argument is it's an exit. Not an entry. This has been the biggest argument over anal I guess. Very confusing I would say because I have spoken with doctors who says the same and says don't do anal while other doctors says this is how you can do it without issues. So what's the line here? I believe anus is a sex organ. Why? Because it can make your cum, orgasm and squirt for some. Even tho women don't have a prostate still people would say women does. Reason is the possibility of anal orgasm. So if your butt can make you go "wooo" how that's not a sex organ. And ofc anus is designed for exit. But our human bodies are multifunctional. Your mouth, for eating and make noise. Eventually our revolutionary mind made languages and we use mouth to speak. And at some point some one thought " you know what I'm a suck his ding ding, or lick her hoo haa" and oral sex is invented and now we do those. Nose for smell and breath. Your eyes not just for seeing. It's for touching inner dimension of your self when you do yoga. Hands, variety of things depends on how creative we are. And why then if the anus also a sex organ and why it exit. Well then why men cum from same thing they pee? At least we have vaginal canal and a urethra. Thing is if human body revolutionized to have one limb and organ for each and every task we would be like an apple tree in a season. Hanging out things from everywhere. It's just learn your possibilities while you learn your limits. You born, live, and die in this body so why not exploring the possibilities of this. And anal sex is just a small thing isn't it. If you don't like it. It's a personal preference. Only because you DON'T like it, you haven't FIGURED it out, you HATE it, that doesn't mean it's the wrong thing to do. This is the main argument most people have, It did not work for me hence it shouldn't for everyone.

Third main reason why people don't like anal sex is physical issues. And ofc if anyone have the incapability to have anal sex due to any physical incapabilities those should not do it. Healthy is number one. No arguments there.

This is the main three points I have seen in different views about anal negativity. So this is my experience of reviewing those main negativities I have came across.

Rimmer
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Re: Anal negativities

Post by Rimmer » Mon Nov 14, 2022 1:50 am

Thanks for the post @Juliet I tend to agree and here are my thoughts:
I am a believer, but I don’t think anal is a sin, The story of Sodom is misunderstood and wrongly preached, many Christians, or believers, don’t actually read their bibles or do any real research into the subjects, they just follow their pastor’s own bias. I believe the anus was designed for recreational sex. I am quite sure God did not want companies to make money out of getting people to take pills and pump cum into rubber bags and chuck it in the bin. I think the first anal would have taken place the first time Adam gave Eve a back rub and thought, ‘Hmm, I wonder if I can stick this in there?.’ And there was no sin in Eden until they eat what was prohibited, So having had anal sex, they could not have been told they had sinned.
It is funny when people say it is an exit, doctors surely should not stick thermometers up there or advise people to use suppositories. A similar logic would then dictate that a man should not enter a woman’s vagina as it is initially covered by the hymen. Logic would dictate that the hymen is a no entry sign and that the anus should be used instead. But mankind has no issue in forcing the cock in and ripping the hymen to gain pleasure, even if it hurts the first time or two.
Clearly the vagina is for reproduction and also for pleasure and the anus is for pleasure. I can’t see how one could have sex doggy style and not be thinking, I need to put my cock in that ass hole.

As for physical reasons, the same would go for vaginal sex, there are people here who can't have vaginal sex, even my wife will go ouch sometimes as I hit the top of her vagina, but I can go balls deep as hard as I like in her ass. She doesn't have a medical condition, just sometimes her vagina has elongated more than others, or down to sex position. But if you do have a medical condition, you have both the ass and the vagina to opt for.

Backdoorlover
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Re: Anal negativities

Post by Backdoorlover » Mon Nov 14, 2022 3:50 am

The “exit only” thing is the most mentioned anti anal arguement. But we push pills in there.

Our mouth is to eat. So entry only ? But vommit comes out when we’re sick, making it an exit. 🤷🏻‍♂️

At this moment in my life I finally have a woman who really enjoys anal sex a lot more then vaginal. Before she was with me, she never even experienced a vaginal orgasm, only orgasmed with clitplay while having her ass fucked.

Now we’ve stopped vaginal penetration she’s hornier then she’s ever been in her life. Her ass is litterally ready for sex any minute of the day. And her joy is undeniable.

We would now even dare to argue that the pussy is no entry. Only a baby exit. Cause sperm doesn’t even need so be dumped inside to impregnate a woman.
Anal only since 22 december 2021. Living a long time dream

Lisbon_Couple
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Re: Anal negativities

Post by Lisbon_Couple » Mon Nov 14, 2022 5:23 am

Juliet wrote:
Sun Nov 13, 2022 4:05 pm
This is why I believe when it comes to anal, the one who receives is the one who should call for the shots. It's a MUST to learn your body. I do not know anything about good deeds or sins. But I do know one thing. And that's how my body reacts to certain sexual activities. I've figured out how to do anal without putting my physical in danger and have maximum fun with it. Isn't that enough?

I total agree with you, the one who receives is the one who leads and call for the shots. I was lead to the AOL by my wife.

She has a perfect control of her sphincte. so when we make love, she decides when I cum and here I cum (mouth or lovehole).
She can make me edge for the time that she wants, she cums as many times as she wants before she decides it's time to squeeze me and let me cum. You can't do the same with a vagina ;) .
Juliet wrote:
Sun Nov 13, 2022 4:05 pm
I believe anus is a sex organ. Why? Because it can make your cum, orgasm and squirt for some. Even tho women don't have a prostate still people would say women does. Reason is the possibility of anal orgasm. So if your butt can make you go "wooo" how that's not a sex organ.

I could agree more, It's a sex organ, an in the case of my wife is the only sex organ that she has because of her Vaginismus.
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Re: Anal negativities

Post by Colt1911 » Mon Nov 14, 2022 7:05 am

The older you get, the more cynical you become. I’m suspicious of anyone who says anal sex is a sin. As others have mentioned, my wife orgasms from anal penetration, not vaginal penetration. If God wanted people to only orgasm from vaginal penetration, why can men and women orgasm from anal penetration? It’s not God who doesn’t want people engaging in anal sex, it’s people themselves. The cynic in me also believes those who impose restrictions on others are sexually unhappy themselves.

My wife of 40+ years discovered anal pleasure after many decades of vaginal penetration without orgasm. She could orgasm from clit stimulation but not penetration. She now orgasms every time during anal penetration. What decent human being would deny pleasure to someone who can experience orgasm during anal sex? These are miserable people who want to make sure everyone else is just as miserable as they are.

This is not new. Many miserable people claim masturbation is also wrong. Since everyone masturbates, is everyone going to hell? I don’t think so.

The exit only argument is a joke. In addition to reproduction, the purpose of a woman’s reproductive organs is to conceive and push a baby through the “exit”. People are natural explorers. We discover things that give pleasure. Just because others say it is wrong to experience pleasure by doing anything besides having vaginal intercourse and ONLY for the purpose of producing a child are simply miserable people trying to impose their will on others.

We experience only joy during anal sex. My wife discovered powerful anal orgasms, which makes my orgasms that much more powerful. None of us here should ever bow to miserable people who dictate what is and isn’t an acceptable sex act. Each of us should engage in anal sex today in solidarity of the lifestyle we’ve chosen!

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Re: Anal negativities

Post by Rimmer » Mon Nov 14, 2022 7:11 am

Colt1911 wrote:
Mon Nov 14, 2022 7:05 am
Each of us should engage in anal sex today in solidarity of the lifestyle we’ve chosen!

Hahahaha, brilliant

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Re: Anal negativities

Post by Ozzy » Mon Nov 14, 2022 9:28 am

Concerning God and anal sex: I follow a religion called swedenborgianism, also new church, which was inspired by the writings of Swedish scientist and seer Emanuel Swedenborg. And he says yes, there's marriage and sex in heaven too! And also in hell, there's not marriage, but there's sex. So guess what, lots of anal sex in the other side of life as well! Lol

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Re: Anal negativities

Post by notnice66 » Sun Dec 04, 2022 6:21 pm

I'm an atheist so it kinda amazes me the mental contortions people go through to justify what they wanna do. If you like anal sex, or you wanna rim someone, or you wanna put toys in your butt - then just do it.

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Re: Anal negativities

Post by Colt1911 » Sun Dec 04, 2022 8:58 pm

notnice66 wrote:
Sun Dec 04, 2022 6:21 pm
I'm an atheist so it kinda amazes me the mental contortions people go through to justify what they wanna do. If you like anal sex, or you wanna rim someone, or you wanna put toys in your butt - then just do it.

Whatever consenting adults want to do that doesn’t harm others should be permitted everywhere. Unfortunately, that makes too much sense.

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Re: Anal negativities

Post by Ozzy » Mon Dec 05, 2022 4:59 am

notnice66 wrote:
Sun Dec 04, 2022 6:21 pm
I'm an atheist so it kinda amazes me the mental contortions people go through to justify what they wanna do. If you like anal sex, or you wanna rim someone, or you wanna put toys in your butt - then just do it.

I think the next life is like a new version of Windows. It's an upgrade, but the base is the same.

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