CumInAssOnly wrote:For quite some time now my wife and I have been enjoying anal sex, and it's been a journey getting her gradually more and more comfortable with anal penetration. When we first started out she couldn't take me very deeply, and I had to thrust slowly or it would make her uncomfortable. Gradually she's been able to tolerate more and more.
This past Friday we finally did it -- I was able to get ALL the way inside her!
Congratulations! It can be difficult at first (or indeed often for months) for a woman to become sufficiently relaxed, even if she's willing. This means she's finally accepting anal penetration and her body is enabling this rather than fighting it.
CumInAssOnly wrote:
We were spooning on our sides (her most comfortable position) and I was lubed up really well. She'd had a medium-sized plug in for about an hour.
That sounds like excellent preparation. What needs to be overcome is the inner sphincter and the "rectal sling". The rectal sling is the muscle a few inches inside where the rectum curves a little away from the spine. When nervous it can tense up and anything jabbing against it will feel painful. Spooning, especially if she pulls her legs up toward her chest, straightens the rectum.
CumInAssOnly wrote:
I just kept pushing into her in these little imperceptible trusts, not believing how deep I was getting. After several minutes it happened, I could feel her anus gripping around me at the absolute base of my cock. (My wife is quite thin so she has no butt cheeks in the way. From behind I can get in as deep as it's possible to get.)
Even with my wife who is very experienced, it can take a little time for her to open up properly and as she completely relaxes achievement complete penetration.
CumInAssOnly wrote:
Being completely inside was just an incomparably amazing feeling. It's so much tighter a sensation than any vagina can produce! Anyway it felt so good that I didn't get to enjoy it for long -- without even thrusting my penis started pulsing and I unloaded a huge one super-deep inside her butt. I made sure she knows what an amazing wife she is.
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It was a perfect night!
The other amazing thing is that the sensations change slowly as she loosens up and her rectum straightens out and the deeper I go. It's quite a different feeling to the initial penetration. There are also quite different feelings depending on where you are at inside, with different muscles groups, or depending on how aroused she is.
The best things is that now not only will she be enjoying it more, but so will you.