my history of anal

cornhole · Post by **cornhole** » Thu Oct 30, 2014 1:00 pm

hi everyone,
i thought i would try to document anal themes that ran through my life over the years. to re-state. i am married and we are not A-O (yet).

when i was 16 i was at a summer program at a new england liberal arts college for high schoolers. 61 girls and 8 guys. need i say more? well, i was fooling around with a girl there and she had no birth control and was scared, actually terrified of getting pregnant and forbid my cock anywhere near her pussy. i suggested she slap some vaseline on my cock but before i could say " for a handjob" she asked if i was trying to get her to let me fuck her in the ass. at that point, i had never even heard of such a thing (this was 34 years ago) and i was really embarrassed and grossed out by the thought.

the next year, i heard from my girlfriend that a friend of mine who was going out with a friend of hers was really into anal. i found that strange. at that point i still equated anal with homosexual behavior. not that i didn't like gay guys but at the time i was living in new york city and would get hit on constantly and it was really annoying. i also was a teenage guy and found the whole gay lifestyle kinda gross. times and attitudes change.....

next was when i was in college and i had a regular girlfriend. when i would go down on her and she would come, i noticed that her outer sphincter would tighten up as well as all those muscles down there. it really turned me on. i started to always put a finger or a thumb over her hole as if i was pressing a button so i could feel what was going on. i never stuck my finger in andi never dared to bring up trying anal although by now, i had seen some porn mags with girls taking it in the ass and i was really interested. this particular woman didn't even like doing it doggy style as she thought it too "animal". she was way hot though.

i did have a girl on the side for a while and one day i was fucking her from behind and i just shoved it right in her ass. no warning or anything. she made no quick movements or sounds of pain. she just let me do it. after a minute she asked that i put some baby oil that was nearby on my dick. funny thing is, i finally got to put it in an ass and i didn't think it felt that good. i thought the pussy felt better so after a while i went back in her vajajay. even though we continued to see each other i never put it in there again. and we never talked about it again.

i had a lesbian friend in college who told me a story that i could never get out of my head. she went home for a weekend and ended up hooking up with the boyfriend she had in high school(before she knew/accepted that she way gay). anyway he talked her into anal and she absolutely loved it. couldn't give it enough praise.

another eight years went by before i went out with anyone that i felt i could approach about anal. i had this girlfriend that let me put it in her ass on a regular basis. once again from the very first moment i put it in, she never moved as
though there was any pain and never made a sound. once again, i didn't think it felt as good as pussy. but i liked the idea of it and would take turns with her holes. it turned me one but the pleasure part wasn't there. it was just something that i accepted. i still was attracted to female asshole but i still liked the feeling of my dick in the puss.

right after i married my wife, the lovely and talented mrs. cornhole, i started trying to finger her ass and she would slap my hand away. i would try to move the penis near her butt and she would say no. i was really bummed but in love and accepted my fate. but of course it was still in my mind. so i would try "pushing the button" of her sphincter. sometimes she would let me, sometimes not. she is a beautiful person and female and i wouldn't trade her for anything. she can't have an orgasm though and i make sure to always take care of her needs(except when i need a quickie). i always wondered if anal might help her to come but i didn't seem to make any headway towards that. about 11 years ago i was able to talk her into using a butt plug in hopes that it might pique her interest. i guess you could say that she tolerated it but wasn't exactly excited about it. looking back i would have to say that it was a combination of doing it "for me" and maybe just a little curiosity on her part. she did let me put it in there once and i came although i only went in about 3 inches or so. i think she got pregnant soon after and didn't continue.

over the years it was the same thing. she would slap my hand away or say no. but then sometimes let me finger her there. a couple of times i ran my tounge over it. but i always seemed to run into resistance. i think it was a combination of all the taboos one gets about anal tied up in her psyche combined with a cold water effect that children can cause in a relationship. i especially think that it makes women become less sexual creatures in general as their attention is on the kids. not true in all cases mind you, but just an observation.

anyway, now that our youngest has reached an age where he is more independent i think she started to let go of that part of her. i even found myself getting more libido a few years ago in much the same way. as it turned out, somewhere along the way, rubbing up against her during forplay seemed to trigger something that i had never seen in her. it also started to feel really amazing to me. in talking about it with her, we both agreed that there is a kind of electricity that exists in her butt and touching it with my finger brings it out. even more so when i use my cock. we did this exclusively for a while. i called it " teasing her ass" and she found that phrase pleasing where "anal play" or anything with the word "ass" or " butthole" seemed to make her shy away from experimenting.

anyway, here we are going down this anal road that just gets more intense every day. last night i came in her ass after going down on her with my finger in her ass. she keeps pulling it deeper everytime. and her orgasms get bigger too. i can't believe that i thought ass didn't feel as good as pussy years ago. now i don't think there is anything that has ever or will ever feel so good. i think she thinks so too. at the rate things are going i have a feeling that we will be anal only at some point.

thanks again to all who have shared their stories and advice as it has helped us both out tremendously.

TheRockingRoll · Post by **TheRockingRoll** » Thu Oct 30, 2014 2:53 pm

An ass is not just an ass, you know? There's a whole person attached to it, and now your're more aware of this

Congratulations for your progress, TRR

Post by **marcus** » Thu Oct 30, 2014 3:42 pm

cornhole wrote:i can't believe that i thought ass didn't feel as good as pussy years ago. now i don't think there is anything that has ever or will ever feel so good.

What you've discovered as most of us do after a time, is that the more she enjoys anal and the more relaxed she becomes, the better it feels for you too.

I remember years ago, when we started out, it felt quite different as it was all so new to my wife and naturally she tensed up. And that, unfortunately, is where so many people stop their anal exploration.

Robert · Post by **Robert** » Fri Oct 31, 2014 11:45 am

Same here. I've thought it feels better now than it did even a few months back. Given that we now have anal more than any other kind of sex I guess that makes some sort of sense. Her ring does squeeze quite as tight and the passage beyond seems to envelope my shaft in a more natural way - again not so rigid. The other difference over time is that I've been able to get ever deeper penetration. Yeah I know there are limits but it used to feel shallow but now I feel like I've got to some place completely different. I don't know if you can get to the other end of the rectum or is it just that it somehow becomes more flexible.