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[LuvMyWifesAss]

... That's one thing a pussy is good for, showing when your woman is aroused!

Well, that's not all it's good for. It does have the obvious purpose of procreation. Also, it can be used to lube your cock for anal sex if other lubrication isn't available.

That said, I've put a couple of limits on our vaginal intercourse. First, I only enter her vagina if she also has a plug in her ass. This is really about me training her anal receptiveness: I want her to get used to the feeling of always having her anus full when she has an orgasm. So we start every sex session by putting the plug in (if it isn't already from the night before). Second, I never come in her vagina -- only her ass.

These are good ideas, as they provide positive reinforcement for her. You want her to associate her orgasm with anal stimulation. The more she associates pleasure with anal stimulation, the more receive she will be to all things anal.

[Robert]

Urabus, thinking this over I also agree with the advice about making sure she's anally stimulated whatever. My girlfriend always finds that the feeling of something in her ass always takes over. And also its a constant reminder of how she has her best orgasms.

Keep it up and don't lose sight of your goal. I know how easy it is to slip and fall back but the only way forward is to keep on trying and remind ourselves that it's worth it.

I'm also finding regular contact with the other forum members is keeping my confidence up and giving me motivation.

[marcus]

Any news Urabus?

[urabus]

Its been a while since we've even had sex. There's a lot going on and she's not been in the mood. Four weeks ago we did though. One weekend we did it three times.... That's a big deal for me

Started off with vaginal then after a few minutes I lubed a finger and put in her anus. She was immediately in pleasure. Not too much longer I pulled out of her vagina, lubed my cock and went into her ass. It was fantastic.

Next morning I went into her ass without vaginal foreplay. Then an hour later did the same as the day before.

The kids are away this weekend and I forsee a lot of sex over the next two nights.

[marcus]

It's regrettable that the lack of sex appears down to a lack of opportunity and mood. I feel for you. Otherwise, from what you describe, when in the mood she becomes extremely aroused and is both willing and able to do anal with ease. Perhaps you need to focus on, and create, appropriate conditions for her to be more in the mood for sex. I don't think persuading her that anal is better is necessary as from what I'm reading vaginal serves only as foreplay now. I think you should take some comfort from that and feel positive about that achievement.

I do hope the two of you ended up having a wonderful child free weekend!