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by LuvMyWifesAss » Sun Feb 15, 2015 7:15 am
Robert,
Make sure you are providing lots of positive reinforcement. Tell her how sexy her ass is. Let her know how lucky you feel that you have a girlfriend that allows you to have anal sex with her. Let her know how you've never felt closer to her before than when you are having anal sex with her. Let her know how you can't beleive you get to cum in her ass, etc. Remember, you want her to equate the positive feelings she has, whether physical or mental, to anal sex. But don't make it all about anal. Let her know how beautiful she is, give her back rubs, flowers, etc. at those times when you two have had anal sex..
Reinforcement works both ways as well. If she really wants vaginal sex, don't complain. Act as if you are happy to do it. However, provide her less stimulation, pleasure, and positive reinforcement. What I mean by this is, pay less attention to her breasts or other erogenous zones. Don't provide the feedback you will be during anal sex. If you are pleasuring her breasts and telling her how beautiful and incredible she is during anal sex but not during vaginal sex, she will equate those positive feelings to anal sex. She will feel more loved and accepted when having anal sex. As a result, she will begin to want anal sex more and more. Done well, she won't even realize this is intentional. Better yet, she will begin to want anal sex as much as you do. This isn't wrong or deceptive. Remember, you are taking her to a place of greater pleasure and intimacy. She wants it, she just doesn't know it.
This has made a big impact on others. So this is my advice.