The widest plug I have is my 2¾" silicone one. I can put that one in & almost forgot about it. The only reminder is the large round base flange, especially when my sphincter tries to suck that plug in really deep, is It can tend to feel a little pinching of the skin of my cheeks. I'd love to find another silicone plug of that size (or maybe larger) that has a more elongated base, that will fit between the cheeks better.
I wanted to be plugged non stop using this glass butt plug:
https://www.dildoshop.fr/fr/godes-plugs ... -4-cm.html
My idea was to wear it all the time, except for hygiene (shower, bathroom) and to sleep.
The plug is absolutely great and it feels right at home inside me. I have no problem wearing it non stop, I have no discomfort, and I don't ever need to lube it again after insertion using saliva (glass is great for this, and my ass naturally lubes itself when stimulated). That really made me want to wear it like you wear a bracelet or watch.
I wore it with no issue for 6 days, and the morning of the 7th day, I felt really horny waking up in my bed, so I fingered myself (something I don't usually do in bed in the morning), and... my middle finger found itself right into my ass without even feeling my anus.
The canal part of my butt plug is actually a bit wide for a plug, a bit bigger than a middle finger. The impression I got was that my "default" ass opening, because of the plug, became the plug's canal width. But I'm not sure of that.
The feeling was actually extremely hot, but I got scared that I widened myself too much forever. So I stopped wearing the plug, did Kegel exercises for days, then started wearing it again, but much more sparingly, and no more than 3 hours long.
Now, I'm definitely much easier to penetrate anally (which is great), but I feel "normal" again, and I'm actually more "conscious" and muscled back there, and my partners tell me they have much greater pleasure fucking me than before the plug.
So now, I'm thinking back about my "non stop" attempt: is there really a risk that your anus "thinks" its closure state is the plug's (and would therefore cause incontinence), or was I just relaxed that morning and willing to be fingered, and my ass opened because it wanted to, but it wasn't actually being physically too loose?
I'm confused. I want to try again wearing this plug all the time, but I'm scared. What are your experiences or knowledge regarding this?