Many years ago I met a woman once at a party.
We got into heavy petting and ended up in bed at her place.
As she was riding me I reached around to play with her anus.
She said "Are you into anal?" to which I thought "Is the pope Catholic?"
She bent over and I gave her ass a lick to get it wet back there but she didn't want me to do that.
As I remember ( we were both pretty drunk) I entered her easily and we enjoyed anal throughout the night.
I guess my wife & I are 50/50 in this no lube department.
Until recently she always insisted on copious amounts of lube but I was turned on by the OP's post (thanks Adventurista) and we have worked out a compromise that has been great for us.
I start out with massaging her asshole with coconut oil, inserting a finger and twisting it around which always arouses her.
I then insert a plug of frozen coconut oil which I prepared beforehand, setting it in the freezer for a few minutes.
I like to push this in part way, allowing her to push it out again and then I push it back in, keeping this play up for a bit as she finds this to be a real turn on too.
Finally I push the plug, which has melted some by this point, all the way in and follow that with my dick.
For this stage of our anal play I don't go in super deep or with hard thrusting.
The point is to let the oil melt fully and loosen things up back there.
She then hits the potty and poops out the copious amount of lube and anything else that may be up there.
Sort of a coconut oil enema if you please.
She then comes back to bed primed for action and orgasms.
Usually just a bit of spit on the end of my dick gains me entry again.
This time we go full bore with me following her directions to bring her to a couple orgasms.
I love looking at her gorgeous gaping butt hole in between her orgasms.
After this she hits the bathroom again.
When she returns she tells me it's my turn to do what I please which is code for me to wipe her anus and my dick with a hand towel we keep on the bed.
She is really dry and I have to enter her slowly but she has already been opened up so we both know I'll eventually get in there without too much pain.
Once I'm about 3/4 of the way in I gently rock back & forth.
Being semi dry, her rectum really grips my cock - a big turn on for both of us.
She always has another cum at this point which is my signal to finish my end of things.
Anal sex is just so fantastic!!!
Who would have thought that after 25 years of being anal only we would come up with a new wrinkle in our love making skills?