So it's been building for some time now, but a slow burn you could say. Sometimes that's the best, as with too much of a new person you can see too much, too soon and realize that it was never going to work. I like to think we are both cautious enough and wise enough not to rush rather than lacking any spark.
So we come to the part which is relevant here. For the first few months we had been nothing but oral/vaginal sex so I asked him one time how he felt about anal (it has been too long since my last encounter
) He seemed a little surprised and a little awkward but as it turned out he had never tried, although he said he had thought about it often. "Well would you like to with me?" I ask.I should have known.
Straight to the bedside cabinet I go for the condoms and KY. He was very hard as he put on the condom and I lubed my ass. Quick as anything I was kneeling in the middle of the bed and he's up behind me, prodding at my ass. It wasn't the easiest of entries as I was tight and nervous (plus I haven't done anal in a while) and he didn't have the experience.Sadly he didn't manage more than a few thrusts before he came. All the same I enjoyed it and the next time the tension wasn't there.
And since then he's been requesting anal with me pretty much every time. I'm okay with that and to be perfectly honest I've been getting off on his obvious excitement. At this point I should add that, while I'm really fascinated by the lifestyle, and I'm probably highly unusual for a woman who's accepting and enjoys anal sex, I do still like vaginal. It's true I had been exclusively anal with someone before but that had been more for their benefit.
It will be interesting to see how far this one goes.
