Tight or loose ass preference.

Tell about your own experiences with the anal only lifestyle.
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Re: Tight or loose ass preference.

Post by Faded » Sun Mar 11, 2018 8:09 am

On a scale of 1 - super tight to 10 - super loose I prefer anything between a 5 to 8. My foreskin can actually get quite tight sometimes so an experienced butthole for me just works out better. Also just knowing that it's well used turns me on far more than say a virgin or barely used hole.

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Re: Tight or loose ass preference.

Post by Mikkey85 » Sat Mar 17, 2018 6:31 am

Faded wrote:On a scale of 1 - super tight to 10 - super loose I prefer anything between a 5 to 8. My foreskin can actually get quite tight sometimes so an experienced butthole for me just works out better. Also just knowing that it's well used turns me on far more than say a virgin or barely used hole.

Yes I think your can "recognize" a well used hole when you see one. I once had sex with a women, and when I penetrated her doggy style (vaginally first), I just saw that she wouldn't deny a butt fuck and that she had regularly anal sex. She just let me slide in, her ass was pretty loose, there was not much foreplay necessary.

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Re: Tight or loose ass preference.

Post by throwawaymedfree » Fri Sep 27, 2019 3:23 pm

The slight gape and the "lips" of a well used asshole are sexier and more inviting than the balloon knot. It's like she can suck your dick with her asshole. Even better when it's a bit pink and swollen right after fucking, and its asking for more. The desire for cock never stops, and guys get more heated after looking at an asshole like that.

The asshole can always get tighter when the girl clenches it, then release to show off her gape.

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Re: Tight or loose ass preference.

Post by Ace of Fours » Sun Sep 29, 2019 12:08 pm

I think I am in the "loose" camp.

Thinking back over the years, the old "anal sex feels beter" idea is just not something I have ever found. Being totally honest with myself, vaginal sex probably feels better. Even with a tight anus, once you are past the sphincters I think there is just less physical stimulation. Maybe it is less friction or pressure on the head of your cock? I don't know.*
So I think this is probably relevant to why I prefer a looser asshole. More specifically why as my wife's asshole has accepted me more and more easily over the years this has just been more of a turn on. Why? Because what turns me on more about anal in the first place is not the greater physical stimulation but the mental stimulation.
So I think I associate tightness with lack of skill and experience (on both sides); with having to go easy; with my partner not being able to enjoy it as much as I am. Conversely, looseness lets me know she is going to enjoy the sex; looseness tells me I can fuck her asshole as hard as I fuck her pussy; looseness tells me I have a very special woman who doesn't just suffer anal as an occasional treat for me. In my present case, it makes me feel proud of my wife, proud to be her husband, that I have this incredible woman that I can pretty much penetrate in the rear the way most of the guys I know can only dream of.


*To me this is the odd thing about the reality of anal versus how it is generally understood. Most people think of it as something that women suffer, that feels at best uncomfortable and at worst painful, yet something that feels better for guys. My experience is totally the other way round. Ultimately, I think the potential for a lot of women is to actually find anal sex more pleasurable than vaginal sex, purely physically, whilst for the guy (assuming he is penetrating her) any greater pleasure is psycological and actually the physical stimulation is not as great.

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Re: Tight or loose ass preference.

Post by throwawaymedfree » Sun Sep 29, 2019 12:31 pm

Ace of Fours wrote:
Sun Sep 29, 2019 12:08 pm
*To me this is the odd thing about the reality of anal versus how it is generally understood. Most people think of it as something that women suffer, that feels at best uncomfortable and at worst painful, yet something that feels better for guys. My experience is totally the other way round. Ultimately, I think the potential for a lot of women is to actually find anal sex more pleasurable than vaginal sex, purely physically, whilst for the guy (assuming he is penetrating her) any greater pleasure is psycological and actually the physical stimulation is not as great.

I agree, that's been my experience as well. I hear from guys that pussy feels better because it's like a tight glove that stimulates the whole penis while anal is like a cock ring, while anal can feel pleasurable and more intense for both sexes. Receiving anal definitely feels better than vaginal (to me at least). When a man like anal, it's either because he prefers the specific feel of the asshole (and if you go deep enough, you can get your head through her colon ring which is stimulating as well) or because it's psychological for him. A well used asshole is a signal of sexual hunger, receptiveness, and trust (intimacy). A big appeal of anal and what kept me going deeper into it was psychological as well. I like that it's still relatively rare and that a lot of guys are curious about it. More guys for me. Fuck, I am greedy.

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