Our long journey to Anal Only

[Kal El]

The first time I ever saw anyone engage in anal is typical for most American teenage boys: porn. It was the late 1980's and my friends and I were at a party. Our friends parents were out of town and we had alcohol. After a couple of hours of drinking one of my friends yelled "I've found your Dads porn collection, turn on the tv." His Dad had 7 or 8 VHS tapes of porn. The first one we put in was one of those 70's Swedish Erotica pornos. One of the scenes was a guy banging his wife while asking for anal. His wife was like "No fucking way, but I'll call my friend over. She does anal and you fuck her ass." ( my thoughts on this are 1. Yeah right 2. What a great wife) so her friend (played by porn legend Little Oral Anne) comes over and he tags her ass. All of my friends were like "oh my god, no way I'd do that" so they took the tape out and put another one in. My reaction? I stole the tape to watch later. And over and over.

None of the girls I dated in high school would even remotely consider taking it in the butt.

Two weeks after I graduated from high school I met my future wife. One of the things I liked about my now wife was that she like to watch porn. After we were married I asked if she wanted to try anal. She flat out refused. I knew that I'd need to put a long term plan in place and be patient. Since I was in the Army I started what I called Operation Buttfuck into gear.

At first all I did was use one of my fingers while fingering her to apply simple pressure to her anus. I'd make sure it was covered with pussy juice and just rub a little and apply pressure. I'd never do it for longer than 1 or 2 seconds at first. Then I'd do that while she was riding me. Once again never more than 1 or 2 seconds. After a month or so of than, I then started to extend the time to 4 or 5 seconds. After a while she started to rub her anus while riding me so I knew my plan was working.

Another part of the plan was to "accidentally" lick her anus while giving her oral. After about a 1 1/2 years of doing this I was down south and she goes "lick my ass like you do my pussy"

After about 6 months of applying pressure and rubbing her anus a change happened. She was riding me then she starting rubbing her anus as normal, then she stuck her finger in her ass. As soon as she did it she had a huge O. She started doing this every time we had sex. I asked her if she was ready to take my cock in her ass and she asked me if I was crazy. (The truth is I was crazy, crazy to try anal!)

Then just after our second anniversary something odd happened. We were doing some shopping and she tells me that we needed to buy lube cause she was ready to try anal. I got a stiffy right then and there in the store. She told me it was happening that night. (Looking back this is rather funny cause 2 weeks prior she had both feet operated on and she was in walking boots on both legs. I, however didn't mind.) That night I took her anal cherry. I used a ungodly amount of lube and went slow. After about 15 minutes I started thrusting as if I were in her vag. She had a huge O. I asked her if she was ready to do that more often. Her reply "once or twice a year." I considered that victory! Operation Buttfuck was a success!

After being married for about 7 years we had buttsex about 5 times a year. By the time we had been married for 15 years we were up to twice a month. I knew she liked it better than vaginal at this time but she wasn't ready to admit this. She alway came harder and had started squirting every time we had anal. Then she started having female problems. Vaginal sex started to hurt. After having sex that was nothing but vaginal sex she would have intense pain. Soon we started out with vaginal and finished with anal, every single time we had sex. She didn't have as much pain after. Soon I suggested we go straight to anal so she wouldn't have pain afterwards. There is such a horrible feeling knowing that sex is causing your wife pain, so I wasn't even trying to go A.O. At this time I just didn't want her to hurt. She wasn't ready to go all in however, but about 80% of the time we were anal only. At 17 years of marriage she had a surgery on her lady parts and she stopped having the pain after vaginal. I was expecting her to want to do anal less. We stayed at about 80% anal though. This summer we celebrated 19 years of marriage. We were talking after having sex and realized that we had not had vaginal sex in 5 months. I told her we should just agree to go pure anal. She agreed but on one condition, we have vaginal one last time. I had "no choice" but to agree. The next evening we were having sex and as I'm in her vag ( she was on top) she takes me out of her vag, puts it in her ass an goes "my pussy is worthless,this thing only goes in my ass from now on." And since then it has.

In the beginning I just wanted to try it. The thought of anal only was something I had never considered. What I didn't know was that she way back in the beginning of Operation Buttfuck she liked it and had started playing with her butt when she masturbated. Also at about 16 years of marriage she had started anal only when she masturbated, but couldn't give in to the fact that anal is what she preferred.

In September I discovered the Anal Only tumbler. It was nice to see that others we like us and preferred Anal Only. I hope this helps others. Just remember that sometimes the goal of trying anal sex is a marathon and not a sprint.

[prettypink]

I'm pleased the two of you appear to have found common ground.

I don't want to spoil the party (so don't take this the wrong way) but doesn't it concern you her saying her "vagina is worthless"? That sounds a little strange. Could that be some kind of post surgery trauma?

[assman99]

I'm pleased the two of you appear to have found common ground.

I don't want to spoil the party (so don't take this the wrong way) but doesn't it concern you her saying her "vagina is worthless"? That sounds a little strange. Could that be some kind of post surgery trauma?

Sounds to me like erotic talk for the benefit of both partners. Correct me if I'm wrong, OP, but in my prior relationship (AO), she also would tell me things like "That thing isn't good for anything but reproducing. I want to *fuck*." It gives me an erection reciting it for you, so I reckon OPs lady was just talking dirty, not displaying some kind of inner turmoil.

[Kal El]

beansman is correct. I think she said that because she knows I like her to talk dirty during sex. Also, I think the fact that she had come to terms with preferring anal was liberating to her. We have talked about it and she had a hard time accepting that she liked anal more. It isn't that she cared what others would think if they knew, but she thought she was odd because as a women she should prefer vaginal. But once she accepted it, she has been all in.

I should have been more clear that after her surgery on her lady bits, vaginal had stopped being painful.

[buttguy]

Kal,
Really happy for you. I wish all women would get it like your wife does. I have been obsessed with the female ass since I was very young. It's all I want besides blow jobs in bed. I hope to get to where you are someday.

[prettypink]

OK. Thanks for explaining! It just isn't the kind of thing I could imagine myself saying - I forget we are all different!

[MikeyR]

Not only does Kal El's wife talk dirty, but she knows just what to say to get a guy revved up. I'm probably gonna cum later thinking about hearing a woman say that to me:

my pussy is worthless,this thing only goes in my ass from now on

Notice that she didn't offer to let him fuck her anally, she actually ordered him to do it and made her pussy off limits and her ass wide open. Fuck... I'm definitely gonna cum soon...

[Kal El]

Thanks buttguy. With a little luck and patience you can there.

[luv2play45]

What a great story Kal El.
You have the patience of Job and you really care about your wife.
Wonderful!

[KeepItReal]

Great story of patience and perseverance! Operation Buttfuck, I love it!

It would be awesome if someone invented a tablet which gave women pain in their vagina - it seems the best way to make them try anal!
I'm kidding ofcourse but we all know how popular that tablet would be lol!
No doubt countless men would secretly dissolve the tablet in their wifes drink!