How did it start for you?

[tzedien]

I recently posted my story on the site which got me thinking about other peoples stories. How did anal only start for you? Particularly couples. Slowly over time? Quickly? One sided idea, or mutual? Easy to work into it or hard? Tips for others?

[urabus]

Wifey and I started with me playing with her anus while having vaginal sex. We'd do it fairly casually and then I decided to use a small vibrator on her ass while we had vaginal.

It was like it put her into another galaxy of pleasure. Not long after that, we had anal sex and it blew both our minds with pleasure. We would do it after a bit of anal play to get her anus relaxed.

I bought her an anal plug after then and we've loved using them since. She's on her third plug now. I've bought her differing sizes and shapes depending on how we feel.

We increased our anal sex in the last 3 years and more than a year and a half ago she's been able to take my cock with no anal play beforehand.

Over the last year we've been having mostly anal only sex. It's unusual to have vaginal sex without anal moving to anal. So much that we've mutually agreed that anal sex is actually referred to as "sex" and anything else is foreplay. It's a true reflection of what anal sex means to us in terms of pleasure.

We haven't gone "anal sex only" for more than a few months. But each time we have vaginal it's been while she's wearing an anal plug. I haven't cum in her vagina since January this year.

We recently agreed neither of us will orgasm with vaginal sex. This is mostly because she has lost the ease to cum from vaginal, such is the high level of pleasure she receives from anal. The other reason is that I mentally won't let myself cum in her vagina.

I love talking about this as I'm so proud of her and how she's accepting her enjoyment, so if anyone has any questions please ask.

[Regent]

It's interesting to hear women opinions:)
Especcisally, when BF offered anal as are most part of a sexual life)

[MissChief]

I was always fascinated with sex in my formative years and had something of a porn addiction when I was young. I would stay home from school to watch it, but that all ended when my mom came home early from work one day because she was sick and I had to hide in my closet all day so I wouldn't get caught. I remember always being most fascinated by anal videos for some reason. I think the reason I did it was because I knew I shouldn't be looking at it, but the thought of doing it and getting away with it was really exciting, and it was like I was holding some secret knowledge of what "adults do", because I knew none of my friends knew about it.

That sort of obsession and curiosity, which I now know was really unhealthy, led me to having anal sex once before I even hit puberty. I naively initiated it, but it was consensual and with somebody only 5 years older than me. It wasn't particularly enjoyable but it wasn't uncomfortable either.

When I went through puberty I was still really hypersexual but didn't seriously date a lot because of my social anxiety. The only guy I dated in high school was really into anal sex and sort of "analized" me. The first time we tried vaginal sex was very painful even though he was very attentive and patient. I figured the pain was because it was my first time, but it happened every time after that too. My doctor first thought that the pain, my bad menstrual cramps, and occasional spotting were endometriosis, but I since found out it was because I have a shallow cervix. So naturally we had anal sex a lot more than we had vaginal sex, which he really enjoyed and I came to love. We were together for a few years, but to make a long story short, the relationship didn't end very well.

I kinda spent a few years of my life just focusing on making myself feel good however I could. I had a friend with benefits for a few weeks and did some casual exploring with him. I did a lot of personal exploring about different kinks and desires, and when an online playmate of mine mentioned "anal only", I felt like I found the lifestyle I really wanted. Now I'm here, still single, but AO for almost 2 years. Vaginal masturbation is a thing of the past for me and I don't see myself ever going back to it. What will happen when/if I find somebody I really like is a mystery to me but I'd like to think that I'll be assertive enough to get the kind of sex I really want to have.

[tzedien]

Wow!

[MissChief]

Ehh...yeah. Maybe that was TMI.

[FarmerDan]

Noooo! This is a community where there's no such thing as TMI

[tzedien]

No. Not tmi. That's why I started this post. Everyone has a story, and at some level this story touches your heart. When i said ''wow'' it was just because your story was exactly what i was hoping people would share. What makes them human, and in this case AO.

[Regent]

scioness, thank you for answer)
Single - is a matter of time.
There are many man who love anal sex... But too modest to say it)))

[Haunter]

I was always fascinated with sex in my formative years and had something of a porn addiction when I was young. I would stay home from school to watch it, but that all ended when my mom came home early from work one day because she was sick and I had to hide in my closet all day so I wouldn't get caught. I remember always being most fascinated by anal videos for some reason. I think the reason I did it was because I knew I shouldn't be looking at it, but the thought of doing it and getting away with it was really exciting, and it was like I was holding some secret knowledge of what "adults do", because I knew none of my friends knew about it.

That sort of obsession and curiosity, which I now know was really unhealthy, led me to having anal sex once before I even hit puberty. I naively initiated it, but it was consensual and with somebody only 5 years older than me. It wasn't particularly enjoyable but it wasn't uncomfortable either.

When I went through puberty I was still really hypersexual but didn't seriously date a lot because of my social anxiety. The only guy I dated in high school was really into anal sex and sort of "analized" me. The first time we tried vaginal sex was very painful even though he was very attentive and patient. I figured the pain was because it was my first time, but it happened every time after that too. My doctor first thought that the pain, my bad menstrual cramps, and occasional spotting were endometriosis, but I since found out it was because I have a shallow cervix. So naturally we had anal sex a lot more than we had vaginal sex, which he really enjoyed and I came to love. We were together for a few years, but to make a long story short, the relationship didn't end very well.

I kinda spent a few years of my life just focusing on making myself feel good however I could. I had a friend with benefits for a few weeks and did some casual exploring with him. I did a lot of personal exploring about different kinks and desires, and when an online playmate of mine mentioned "anal only", I felt like I found the lifestyle I really wanted. Now I'm here, still single, but AO for almost 2 years. Vaginal masturbation is a thing of the past for me and I don't see myself ever going back to it. What will happen when/if I find somebody I really like is a mystery to me but I'd like to think that I'll be assertive enough to get the kind of sex I really want to have.

Thank you scioness for your precious contribution. I was so "caught" in its reading that it took me only a blink of an eye to reach the end XD.
By the way, what's a TMI?

To me: I just explained it with detalis in my introductory post. Feel lazy tonight, please find it yourself, it's there