We went to his place, relax, a drink, small talk, and well...date stuff. Went up to his room. I have my little travel kit, so I excused myself to the washroom, and cleaned out with a Summers Eve douche (I hate those disposable enemas, way too salty, the Summers Eve is perfect, and tastes like chip dip).
Foreplay went great, I discovered his cock was even bigger than when I felt it in the coffee shop (I'm a bad girl), and it came time for the main course. I asked him if he wanted it in my ass (always a dumb question), and he got even more excited. A good sign.
Needless to say, a great fuck, and when he came, I lamented that he was wearing a condom, but on a third date, this is what you do. It didn't take me long to cum, cause it had been a while.
Long story... We made a pot of french press coffee, and sat around naked for a bit. I was very relaxed, and comfortable, and he seemed so too. I played with his cock a bit, and he seemed to be responding. He said he wanted into my pussy so bad. Dead silence. Time for 'the talk'.
I told him outright, I only do anal. I haven't done any vaginal in a very long time. He asked if something was wrong with me, and I said 'no', just never been a fan. He looked a little shocked, and I asked if he had a problem with that. I explained how I never come from vaginal, and sometimes from clitoral, but neither turned me on, and I always came from anal. It looked like it was taking a while to sink in. He said he really liked giving oral. Men seem to gain a huge sense of accomplishment when they give oral, so I said that was fine. Too early to bring up rimming.
Back upstairs for round two. He went down on me for a while, and I just told him that was enough. I wasn't going to come, but I gave him that 'Good boy' look. A shot of lube, and I sat down on his cock, right to his balls, and put his hands on my boobs. Once again, we both came.
Flash forward...Sunday morning. I just got a text from him. Text. As bad as a post it. 'Sorry, this isn't going to work out'. Of course I have no idea if it was my AO announcement, or if he just didn't like me. I'll never find out. He sure seemed to enjoy the anal.
Back to the drawing board.
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There are plenty more out there, keep trying!
As luck would have it, a guy just asked me out. Coffee with him tomorrow. Fingers crossed.
I don't feel the "problem" of anal being involved here.
Good luck to find your anal mate though.
BTW, kind of old fashioned to wait for the third date - can't remember EVER doing that!
Anyway, friends, I really can't believe how easily and often you manage to get dates. A very total mystery to me, indeed XD. I will admit I'm a bit envious of such success, and note that this feeling (envy) is almost absent among mine What to say? I admire you