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Anal opens us up to new adventures

Posted: Tue May 28, 2019 10:33 am
by aredeejay3001
I have a long detailed thread in Introductions that spells out how my wife and I have introduced anal play into our marriage over the last 18 months. We’ve crossed over into making anal a regular part of our sexual life and I couldn’t be happier.

We forged ahead with a number of firsts again the other night. Kiddos did a sleepover at Grandma’s, so we had a rare night to ourselves. The day before, my wife got her period and she lamented that we’d planned this kid free night. I of course, thought it would be a perfect opportunity to talk about whether she’d want to restrict ourselves to anal play for the evening.

Our home state has recently legalized marijuana, so we were taking this evening as an opportunity to explore that as well via some high quality chocolate edibles. We don’t smoke pot so it was fun to share in trying this together. It left us both feeling kind of heavy and we just kind of hung out, watched some TV together, before getting ready for some intimacy. I started by applying some massage oil to my wife’s nipples to give her some attention there. We’ve also been kissing/making out a lot more than we have in the past.

After some nipple play and kissing, I asked her to roll on to her side, so I could pull down the back of her sleep pants and underwear. I showed her how I now keep a little bag under my pillow with finger cots, anal lube and even an anal screw dildo. It’s thrilling to me that now our anal play is all out in the open and matter of fact. So I put on a finger cot and spread her cheeks and this time dripped the lube onto her anus. I held off on penetrating her, instead running circles around her anus as I spread the lube around.

Finally I inserted my finger and started kissing her neck, which drives her wild. She’s indicated she likes deep penetration more than in and out actions, so I concentrated on really going deep into her. I wound up rubbing up against a little spot that I could feel and she start moaning, saying how good it felt. I think this was the other side of her G-spot, as it was just on the other side of her vagina. I kept pressing that and rubbing it and she was going crazy. She kept moaning about how good it felt and she almost had an orgasm from this alone! I’ve just ordered her some new vibrators and she wants to do this again when she has them, so it’s great to see her enthusiasm for all of this.

I withdrew my finger for us to slow down a bit and moved to inserting the large anal screw into her ass. She wound up taking pretty much the whole thing but it wasn’t giving her the high she’d been getting from my finger. If you read my thread in Introductions, I talk about a failed escapade involving these screws, so it was nice to have her take it in her ass finally. We have two of them, so my hope is for us to us them on each other, simultaneously.

So finally it was time to actually have anal sex and asked my wife if she could lay on her back so we could do it missionary position. I put a finger cot on her and asked her to keep working her ass while I lubed up my cock. She said, “This is something I haven’t done before!” Watching her finger her own ass definitely helped me come to full erection. She took her finger out and I slid my cock into her ass. We fucked for a while and I finally exploded when she grabbed my ass to pull me in deeper into her.

We ended the evening with her masturbating with a vibrator while I talked dirty to her. She wanted me to tell her a fantasy so I told her one about me sitting in a chair while she knelt on the floor to suck me off. The fantasy culminates with her taking me in deep and swallowing me as I come and then she kisses me so I can taste the come in her mouth. This set her off into her own orgasmic explosion.

The next morning, as we prepped to go pick up the kiddos, she stopped me from getting dressed after I got out of the shower. She said she was feeling “naughty” and wanted me to sit on the bed. I did as I was told! She knelt down on the floor and proceeded to put the fantasy from the previous night into play, complete with full on swallowing of my ejaculation, something I don’t know if she’s ever done. And yes, she came up to kiss me, so we could swirl our tongues together.

I’ve been saying to myself that my wife and I are having our best sex in years but really I’m now realizing that this is the best we’ve been sexually EVER! In this month of May alone, we’ve had anal sex a number of times, I’ve had the best two blowjobs that I can remember and yes, I’ve fucked my wife in the pussy, as well. I don’t know if we’ll ever be going anal only, but for now anal has definitely opened up things for us across the board.

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

Posted: Fri Jun 07, 2019 7:28 pm
by aredeejay3001
We just finished a mini-vacation in the sun with the kiddos: nice big unit with separate bedroom for us. Finally got the kids down to sleep early enough one night to have some time to play. Overall our collective libidos are completely amped up! My wife and I snuggled up in bed and starting deeply kissing. With no pretense, my hand went right to her ass, with my finger honing in on her anus. We continued deeply kissing as my wife was pulsing her ass open to take in my finger.

Some more new things for us: my wife has started shaving her pussy, not completely, but mostly around her labia. I’m going to get her a home waxing kit so she doesn’t have to shave. I had to reward her good behavior with some solid pussy licking. After our deep kissing post blowjob session of the previous week, I made sure to take breaks to deeply kiss her, so she could taste herself. I finally put on a finger cot, lubed it and snuggled up with her to get down to business.

I easily inserted my finger in her ass and started working what we’ve discovered is her new favorite spot, deep in her ass. With the same hand (and different finger), I fingered her pussy and worked her G-spot while we continued to kiss. Her ass was so loose and I really think I could have penetrated her without lube. It was wonderful and we were both just floating on the high. We worked her to what could have been an orgasm (?) My wife wasn’t sure but said it felt different with both her pussy and ass being worked -- and she said she loved it.

Again being sensitive to maybe her needing some down time, I asked what she wanted to do and she said “I’m just waiting for you fuck me.” I asked her how she wanted to be fucked and she repeated what’s now becoming magic words for us: “I want you to do whatever you want to do.” which we both know means getting ass fucked.

So the short of this story is I actually had difficulty penetrating her ass -- my erection just didn’t seem to have it going that night. We wound up trying lots of different positions and I loved the continued approaches that had me rubbing my cock against my wife’s asshole. On top of this, she was holding her cheeks open in a very submissive fashion. At one point, I had to stop to tongue her anus. In the past, she’s chided me for this as being non-hygienic, but she admitted this night that she likes when I do that and that it feels really good. We ended with me seated on the chair and my wife lowering her spread ass onto my cock. I didn’t last long and wound up ejaculating against her anus and ass. We both laughed with neither of us concerned about the lack of deep penetration.

She tried out her new vibrator and we again had some nice conversations about our suddenly robust sex lives. My wife said she really enjoyed having both her ass and pussy stimulated at the same time and said she wants to do a session with a dildo so both could be filled at the same time. She said, “You can decide where you put your cock” So I think we’ll be trying out some DP sessions soon.

We were too conked out the other nights to get down to business but my wife did surprise me when I was showering (and kiddos were watching TV) by locking the bathroom door and joining me -- again, something we haven’t done in years! We soaped each other up and eventually I sat down so she could straddle my face. Time was short, so I gave her a few minutes of pussy licking before instructing her to turn around so I could tongue her ass while playing with her pussy. I spread her asshole and got in really deep with my tongue and she was moaning loudly. I thought that was the end of it when I stood up but sure enough she dropped to her knees and gave me a rapid fire blowjob which ended with me spraying into her mouth.

I’m still giddy from all of this. Anal play is now a central part of our sexual identity and my wife is not only enjoying it, she’s embracing it fully. I love her so much.

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

Posted: Wed Jul 17, 2019 11:17 am
by aredeejay3001
Haven’t posted in a while but wanted to share a nice experience from last night. My wife and I haven’t fooled around in a while (kids not in school so they keep us up late, wife has been sick with a bad cold, etc.) but last night we wound up snuggled together, awake for once! We started just rubbing our backs as we faced each other before bed time. My wife is on her period so in the past that would probably mean “hands off” but of course our shift to anal has wiped away any of that. As we touched each other, I moved my hands under her jammies and underwear so that my hand was fully grasping her ass cheek. I squeezed and pulsed my grip and drew my wife closer to me.

Knowing we both were tired and sensing her enjoyment of this moment, I shifted so that my finger moved to her anus. She moved to accommodate me. Now earlier this year, as we started to finally move into anal play, my wife would ask for me to wear a finger cot and then I would often take that opportunity to lube up. But she’s also expressed a desire to stay in the moment, so lately my anal probing has been without lube, without finger cot. And I’m able to achieve some penetration, so I believe she actually enjoys this. Another difference about last night was that usually our anal play has been when my wife is already turned on: when I’m kissing her neck hot spot or playing with her pussy or deep kissing. But this time she just seemed to want to focus on the anal penetration. We were facing each other, so I did move in to kiss her softly but there was no making out, it was just the quiet probing of her ass.

Eventually my wife said she had to shift, so she rolled onto her side, away from me -- our usual sleeping position. Without any pretense, I pulled down the back of her jammies and underwear to expose her ass. I also used this moment as an opportunity to do a quick squirt of lube from the new squirt bottle I keep bed side (saves me from having to fumble with tubes of lube.) I spread her cheeks and rubbed my lubed finger over her anus. Finally, I easily slid into her ass and snuggled up to her. I kissed her neck a bit but again I could sense this was not going to be a hot and heavy session, this was something different. I switched around fingers and even wound up using my other hand so as to snuggle up most closely to her before getting into a nice rhythm of finger fucking her ass.

This continued for a while -- just spooning and gentle, deep finger fucking. My wife seems to be getting a better sense of her own role in all of this and has been squeezing her ass when I finger or fuck her in the ass. I love that.

And then something exquisite happened -- my wife’s breathing deepened and slowed and soon enough she was asleep! I floated with her like this, sometimes still gently moving my finger inside her. Sometimes she woke up briefly and would squeeze her ass around my finger, at which point I would resume slowly finger fucking, but then she would drift off to sleep again. Finally after a while, she woke up and said she had to roll over again, so I slowly withdrew my finger, kissed her and then went to wash up. I returned to bed and we clasped hands as we both fell asleep.

I’m so happy that my wife can now be so comfortable and tender with our anal experiences that she can actually fall asleep while I’m fingering her ass. Of course, now I’m curious to see if this could happen while fucking her ass in the same position but frankly it’s a struggle for me to last with my cock in her ass as I’m beyond turned on by her. But that would be something.

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

Posted: Thu Jul 25, 2019 12:49 pm
by Anal biscuit
Please keep on sharing your experiences. 👍🏻

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

Posted: Sun Aug 04, 2019 5:59 pm
by hasani2222
I’m so happy that my wife can now be so comfortable and tender with our anal experiences that she can actually fall asleep while I’m fingering her ass. Of course, now I’m curious to see if this could happen while fucking her ass in the same position but frankly it’s a struggle for me to last with my cock in her ass as I’m beyond turned on by her. But that would be something.

You're getting there, man! If she can sleep with you fingering her, you can eventually get to that same point using your cock. It's not a such a problem in my opinion that you don't last long in her ass, but I'd suggest trying your best not to pull out. Just keep it anchored in there. After cumming, slow down and slide in and out ever so slowly - basically an anal massage. If you do that enough, her ass with learn to relax post orgasm and drift off to sleep. Meanwhile you keep your cock parked tight up her ass all night. Practice makes perfect!

Thanks for posting your awesome anal adventures. Fun to read.

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2019 4:45 am
by analsexonly
Apologies for never responding to this earlier, but I agree that I'd like to hear continuing updates—rest assured that I and others have been reading this even if not responding.

I agree it does sound like you're making excellent progress and her love for anal is increasing quite rapidly. Continuing to increase the frequency of anal play and sex at a pace you're both comfortable with is going to get her loving and craving it more and more.

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

Posted: Fri Sep 27, 2019 5:45 am
by aredeejay3001
Thanks all for the encouragement!

Life is back to busy (three kiddos in school again, *I'm* in school again...), so our anal adventures have to be a little more strategically planned. Things continue to go well for us and I'll post some more detailed updates soon (I've got a few new toys at the ready! ;) )

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

Posted: Sun Sep 29, 2019 4:06 am
by Ace of Fours
Your response to me had me re-reading your intro post (I read it in the past) and then all the updates.
Really interesting to read your progress updates and I hope you both keep heading in these positive directions :D

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

Posted: Sat Oct 12, 2019 9:03 pm
by aredeejay3001
An update on a fun romp I had last night with my wife. We’ve been a little less active what with our busy lives (three young kids, full time jobs, evening school for me) but we wound up snuggled up massaging each other last night for the second night in a row. The first night we fell asleep before we could get down to business and then the following morning, while spooning in the morning, our six year old came barreling in as he tends to do!

So last night, we quickly got down to some deep kissing and caressing. After playing with my wife’s breasts, I began kissing her neck hotspot while fingering her wet pussy. She in turn started stroking my erection with me having to guide her to slow down a bit. It’s been difficult to pace myself since our sexual flourishing of the last 2 years, so I wanted to make sure we had a good session.

Inspired by recent posts about ass to mouth experiences, I wanted to see if we could at least add pussy to mouth to our repertoire. I instructed my wife to get on all fours diagonally on the bed. Our sessions recently have started with her sucking me to full erection before we fuck, so we continued that pattern, but this time I then moved around to fuck her from behind. I had a bit of trouble gaining entry due to the height of the bed and barely got my cock inside her before we had to shift to get better access. With my cock now withdrawn, I moved around back around to where we started when she started sucking me. I wondered if she’d show any apprehension but she took my cock in her mouth without hesitation and started sucking me again.

I expressed how much I loved that and I’m not sure if she was even aware of the significance to me. I’m sure in our hot and heavy dating days, we’d done this but that was long ago. I returned to fuck her and with a better angle, got in a good rhythm of fucking. As has been the norm with this position, in order to pace myself, I withdrew and bent down to dig my tongue into her asshole. Instead of then resuming to fuck her, I returned back around for some more cock sucking and once again she lovingly took my cock in her mouth. At this point, I was getting very turned on.

When I went back around to start fucking her again, she asked if maybe things would work better if she stood also and bent forward over the bed. So we tried that and indeed the angle was better. Now in a good position, I accessed the bottle of lube on her nightstand (we now each keep a bottle on our nightstands) and got my fingers ready to start finger fucking her ass. My wife has been opening up to DP experiences, so now I’m usually penetrating her ass with either my fingers or a dildo while we fuck. Once again, I withdrew a couple of times to tongue her ass and on one of these occasions I noticed my wife had been rubbing her clit. This also seemed like a new thing, so I smiled as I started fucking her again, this time with my finger sliding in her ass in synch with my cock.

I felt euphoric about the whole experience and so withdrew my cock once more to pace myself. I looked down at my wife in her submissive position, ass up, hand working her clit and it just drove me over the edge. I felt myself about to come and so being the dutiful husband I wanted to make sure I could sink my cock in her pussy as I came, so I quickly grabbed her hips to drive my cock into her. There was a microsecond of me positioning myself to gain entry and then I sunk my cock inside her. She moaned loudly and I was happy she was enjoying the orgasmic moment. As I started ejaculating I made sure to pump a number of times, driving my cock in deep. As I was doing that, suddenly something flashed into my mind. I slid my hand from wife’s hip, over her ass towards her anus… and came to the base of my cock!

In my haste to enter her before I came, I’d inadvertently driven my cock deep into her ass!!

I bent down to kiss her back and neck and felt a swirl of emotions: surprise, arousal, and even slight concern. Since we’d started having anal sex, I’ve always made sure to pace things gradually. I stayed bent over my gorgeous wife, enjoying the after glow of having my cock deep in her ass, Slowly I stood up and let my cock slide out of her. I laid down on the bed and she joined me. We hugged and caressed each other silently for a while. Eventually my wife got up to go wash up. As she was in the bathroom, I wondered if I should say anything about my accidental anal intrusion but I also didn’t want to draw attention to it.

She came back to bed, snuggled up to me, looked at me and exclaimed, “That was fun!”

My god, I love her so much.

She added, “I didn’t know you were going to go there.” and so I admitted how it kind of was an accident and we both laughed about it. I told her I usually wouldn’t drive into her ass so suddenly but she reassured me, saying, “It didn’t hurt at all. You’d been getting me ready. You slid right in!”

And as I replayed the scene in my mind, I was over the moon at how she gasped in pleasure when she suddenly felt my cock enter her ass.

We stayed snuggled up for a bit before she got out her vibrator. As she worked her clit, I played with her nipples and kissed her neck. Soon enough she came to a thrashing orgasm. I stepped out to wash up myself before returning to spoon up with her.

A fantastic night!

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

Posted: Thu Oct 24, 2019 7:24 pm
by aredeejay3001
After the “accidental anal” session we had a couple of weeks ago, we've had a couple of really nice nights of anal sex and in both cases, I really felt like I was able to savor the physicality of it all. Previously my mind was often afire as I entered my wife’s ass with thoughts like, “Oh my god, I can’t believe we are finally doing this!” Now I’m able to really focus on how it feels to have my cock in her ass, how her asshole grips my shaft as I slide in and out. It’s been great!

We had a great session just the other night. She got super turned on from nipple play and neck kissing and that evolved to first G-spot play via her pussy before I worked a few fingers into her ass to give her a good finger fuck while we kissed. I had one finger in easily but then gave her a good licking and lubed her up for multiple fingers, which was a first. She’s gotten really good at squeezing her ass around whatever is inside and she knows it drives me crazy. I fucked her deep with my fingers while kissing her neck and it reached a near orgasmic crescendo. She said she needed a break, so we cuddled for a bit before she started sucking my cock to get me ready for sex.

When we got down to fucking, I stood on the edge of her bed and she spread herself to me and just asked, “How to you want to take me?” What a heavenly question! And I answered without thinking, “I want to take you every way.” and she laughed. Her pussy was so wet and I’ve really been turned on by our first forays with pussy to mouth so I started by fucking her pussy hard. I pulled out and instructed her to sit up to suck me. This time I told her how much it turned me on that she was sucking my cock after it had been in her pussy. She sucked and then observed, “Mmm…. I taste sweet!” and I swear I almost blew my load right there. If you had told me even just a month ago that my wife would be sucking my cock and remarking on how her pussy tasted, my jaw would have dropped.

I knelt down to get a taste myself and indeed she was tasting sweet. I worked my hand into her pussy -- she was sopping wet -- and I smeared all that lovely pussy juice over her ass and asshole, stating, “Let’s get some of that sweetness down here.” and then I of course dug into licking her ass. What a great experience.

When I finally got to sinking my cock in her ass, I was having a little difficulty gaining entry, so I tried a new, bigger, heavier butt plug I’d gotten and she took that easily. I licked her pussy for a bit to let that stretch her out and then removed it and easily slid my cock in. We fucked for a bit and then she asked when she could start squeezing and I said, “Squeeze whenever!” Man, she vice-gripped my cock and I barely lasted a few seconds before I ejaculated inside of her. So good! I stayed inside her for a while before finally sliding myself out.

She went to use our bidet to clean up a bit and then came back to close out with her vibrator as I kissed her neck. She closed out with a loud shaking orgasm. I’m loving this routine of kissing/ass play/pussy play/pussy fucking/pussy to mouth/ass fucking/vibrator fun!