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Orgasm denial until anal sex

Posted: Tue Jun 04, 2019 12:42 pm
by Senecasky

I'm a highly motivated newbie (kind of) to anal. My husband controls when I orgasm
and he said that I'm not having another orgasm unless his cock is in my ass. I've been
edging multiple times a day to keep myself horny and (bonus!) have been getting out
our sex machine to fuck myself with. I've used it to fuck myself anally with a small,
bumpy dildo and in the past have had a very unexpected anal orgasm, which was so
cool! (Downside, hubby wasn't please because I didn't have permission to cum.) Anyhow,
currently I'm at about 4-1/2 circumference with the dildo I'm using and trying to stretch
myself comfortably up to a 5, 5-1/4 before attempting anal with my hubby. Any
encouragement is welcome. The sex machine was my Christmas gift and is just freaking


Re: Orgasm denial until anal sex

Posted: Sun Jun 09, 2019 10:58 am
by Senecasky
I've been sick with a head cold the last few days, but I haven't let that stop the homework I'm doing on my ass. I took the next size up dildo, maybe 4.75 circumference, and placed that up my ass while resting upstairs, edging, and surfing porn. I kept it in about 1/2 hour. It felt so comfortable I decided to try the largest dildo we have, the one that's slightly bigger than my husband. I took it easily!

I was washing everything when he came up to check on me. I told him I was horny, and that I thought we should try anal. You should've seen his smile! Lol. We started in my pussy so we wouldn't wear my ass out. In the past we've gone full bore anal from start to finish and it caused some discomfort and pain, and I wanted to avoid that this time. He entered my ass and about 2 minutes later filled me up with his cum. I popped a small butt plug in afterwards to keep it all in. I almost came, but I didn't have permission, so I let it go.

I told him I'd like to do anal every/every other day and he said he's great with that. I asked if he liked anal better and he said it's "different." When I asked how so, he said it's tighter which is great, but he also likes the head stimulation my cervix gives him. So... I'll go where he leads. My goal is to please him and to be ready to go for anal any time he requests it.

Re: Orgasm denial until anal sex

Posted: Thu Jun 13, 2019 1:45 pm
by Senecasky
And.... A cool discovery I made. Last night we had sex and started in my pussy, and I wasn't really all that horny. He changed his mind halfway through and slipped into my ass and it was like a switch flipped and I was instantly horny. Wow. I'm totally encouraging him to use my ass more. I mean, if he doesn't feel strongly one way or the other, then we'll go with what I like! :D

Re: Orgasm denial until anal sex

Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2019 6:34 am
by analsexonly
@Senecasky That's good to hear that as you're exploring more, your sexuality is shifting more to your ass. That's actually quite common, I find, with increased exposure to frequent anal play, so over time I expect your desire for vaginal sex will more or less disappear entirely and be fully replaced with a desire for anal only.

As you increase the frequency of anal, you'll find that discomfort or soreness go away as well, eliminating any need to spend part of the time on vaginal to reduce the amount of anal you have.

Re: Orgasm denial until anal sex

Posted: Fri Jul 05, 2019 11:25 pm
by gromm
So how's that going so far for you? :D