Our (slow) Anal Journey
Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2021 6:35 am
Hey everyone!
My wife and I have been incorporating more and more anal in our sex lives. Butt loving (not so much asshole loving) is a huge turn on for her. As she put it, her asshole isn't first or second gear, but third or fourth.
Unfortunately, she has some anal trauma. She was raped anally as a teenager and anal has come from a NO 4 years ago to her thanking me for being persistent and patient with her. She loves anal now! However, I haven't been able to get her to orgasm anally. And our anal encounters are always so short.
I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman. And I want that life spent AO. But she is convinced her vagina is her primary sexual organ. She was primarily with women before me (she's pansexual) so all of her sexual life before now has been all about her clit and vagina.
I got my vasectomy last week. I don't have any hope of AO any time soon, and I'm tired of condoms and pulling out. But as we talked about me getting a vasectomy, and with some sexy talk during sex, I think she is going to be more willing to let me cum in her ass. I guess she has been deathly afraid of my little swimmers.
Next Wednesday is my birthday. And I got her 2 backless panties and a new bottle of water-based lube (she has sensitive skin). I'm really hopeful my birthday night could be the night I can cum in her ass (since this has this far been more my kink than hers, I finish quickly. But, since this is such a powerful kink of mine, I can easily keep on going), and keep on going so she can have an anal orgasm.
I know there is no hope of AO so long as anal orgasms are hard to achieve. Wish us the best everyone that my birthday night can be a watershed encounter bringing us closer to an Anal Only Lifestyle!!
My wife and I have been incorporating more and more anal in our sex lives. Butt loving (not so much asshole loving) is a huge turn on for her. As she put it, her asshole isn't first or second gear, but third or fourth.
Unfortunately, she has some anal trauma. She was raped anally as a teenager and anal has come from a NO 4 years ago to her thanking me for being persistent and patient with her. She loves anal now! However, I haven't been able to get her to orgasm anally. And our anal encounters are always so short.
I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman. And I want that life spent AO. But she is convinced her vagina is her primary sexual organ. She was primarily with women before me (she's pansexual) so all of her sexual life before now has been all about her clit and vagina.
I got my vasectomy last week. I don't have any hope of AO any time soon, and I'm tired of condoms and pulling out. But as we talked about me getting a vasectomy, and with some sexy talk during sex, I think she is going to be more willing to let me cum in her ass. I guess she has been deathly afraid of my little swimmers.
Next Wednesday is my birthday. And I got her 2 backless panties and a new bottle of water-based lube (she has sensitive skin). I'm really hopeful my birthday night could be the night I can cum in her ass (since this has this far been more my kink than hers, I finish quickly. But, since this is such a powerful kink of mine, I can easily keep on going), and keep on going so she can have an anal orgasm.
I know there is no hope of AO so long as anal orgasms are hard to achieve. Wish us the best everyone that my birthday night can be a watershed encounter bringing us closer to an Anal Only Lifestyle!!