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With due respect, it should always be vice versa unless you indulge in masochism.
So, I will always stick to the natural saying:

If it hurts, you're doing it wrong.

Uh, we must have different definitions of pain.

I can feel it when I floss my teeth, just like I can feel it when I brush my teeth or wash my hands.

But, I'd never say flossing "hurts."

To each their own so long as it's consensual.

I like "hard," which to me is very different than "painful."

Mary

To quote my submissive AO lover: "Anal sex, just like BDSM play is about hurting in exactly the right way ... it takes the right kind of lover to walk that line."