HUGE Advance in Anal Sex
Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2023 11:30 am
Hi everyone
I come to tell you about the great progress that I have had with my partner in anal sex (long post warning).
I previously told you about myself in the following post:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=20439
To describe it briefly: my partner and I have been in a relationship for 10 years. Almost from the beginning, she started taking birth control. Over time, her libido was lowering and she began to take an apathetic attitude about sex, seemed not to be very interested in it and felt like she was doing it to keep me satisfied. This was a situation that brought our relationship to the edge on some occasions. During that period of time anal was something that was only a possibility on my birthday or Valentine's day and honestly I was content if we at least had sex.
As I told you in my previous post, she had to stop contraceptives in November due to the side effects they were causing. This marked a turning point in our sexual life, since almost immediately we noticed a drastic increase in her libido. Her desire for sex skyrocketed, we went from having sex 4 times a month to 4 times a week. She began to take initiative, she had a hornier attitude and even had thoughts about sex during the day. And then we discovered that the contraceptives were the cause of the problem.
Due to her increased desire and interest, this seemed like the perfect time to try to introduce anal into our sex life. On the previous occasions that we had tried it, I was impatient and did not take enough time during the preparations so she ended up a little sore the next day. When I proposed anal to her, I told her this and promised her that this time I would do it very carefully and we would start little by little: first with caresses, then introducing my fingers and finally we would try penetration. Although she was not totally convinced, she decided to give it a try.
On subsequent occasions we began with vaginal sex. Once she had at least one orgasm and she was really horny, I would suggest to try anal. I prepared myself by buying a silicone lube. As I was giving her oral sex, I would start slowly inserting a finger into her ass, waiting for her to feel comfortable and only going deeper when she said so. Then I did the same with two fingers. If at this moment she felt comfortable and without pain, I began to try penetration. Despite the fact that I have read publications where they say that it is possible to reach orgasm only with anal, I did not want to be impatient and took the safe bet: I always stimulated her clitoris. This brought her to mind blowing orgasms EVERY TIME. She felt an explosion of pleasure that seemed to have no end, where I noticed her blank eyes, shortness of breath and trembling legs.
By doing it this way we achieved two main goals: that she would enjoy it and that she would not have pain the next day. I also made sure to follow the advice of some users, giving her positive reinforcement every time we did it. I would tell her how special the moment had felt, how much of a connection we felt, and how it represented a very pleasurable practice for both of us. Once this barrier was overcome, we had two incredible weeks with an anal always experience. In this time we discovered that her anal orgasm was so intense that it left her totally exhausted with no energy to continue, so we left it as our grand finale.
I come to tell you about the great progress that I have had with my partner in anal sex (long post warning).
I previously told you about myself in the following post:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=20439
To describe it briefly: my partner and I have been in a relationship for 10 years. Almost from the beginning, she started taking birth control. Over time, her libido was lowering and she began to take an apathetic attitude about sex, seemed not to be very interested in it and felt like she was doing it to keep me satisfied. This was a situation that brought our relationship to the edge on some occasions. During that period of time anal was something that was only a possibility on my birthday or Valentine's day and honestly I was content if we at least had sex.
As I told you in my previous post, she had to stop contraceptives in November due to the side effects they were causing. This marked a turning point in our sexual life, since almost immediately we noticed a drastic increase in her libido. Her desire for sex skyrocketed, we went from having sex 4 times a month to 4 times a week. She began to take initiative, she had a hornier attitude and even had thoughts about sex during the day. And then we discovered that the contraceptives were the cause of the problem.
Due to her increased desire and interest, this seemed like the perfect time to try to introduce anal into our sex life. On the previous occasions that we had tried it, I was impatient and did not take enough time during the preparations so she ended up a little sore the next day. When I proposed anal to her, I told her this and promised her that this time I would do it very carefully and we would start little by little: first with caresses, then introducing my fingers and finally we would try penetration. Although she was not totally convinced, she decided to give it a try.
On subsequent occasions we began with vaginal sex. Once she had at least one orgasm and she was really horny, I would suggest to try anal. I prepared myself by buying a silicone lube. As I was giving her oral sex, I would start slowly inserting a finger into her ass, waiting for her to feel comfortable and only going deeper when she said so. Then I did the same with two fingers. If at this moment she felt comfortable and without pain, I began to try penetration. Despite the fact that I have read publications where they say that it is possible to reach orgasm only with anal, I did not want to be impatient and took the safe bet: I always stimulated her clitoris. This brought her to mind blowing orgasms EVERY TIME. She felt an explosion of pleasure that seemed to have no end, where I noticed her blank eyes, shortness of breath and trembling legs.
By doing it this way we achieved two main goals: that she would enjoy it and that she would not have pain the next day. I also made sure to follow the advice of some users, giving her positive reinforcement every time we did it. I would tell her how special the moment had felt, how much of a connection we felt, and how it represented a very pleasurable practice for both of us. Once this barrier was overcome, we had two incredible weeks with an anal always experience. In this time we discovered that her anal orgasm was so intense that it left her totally exhausted with no energy to continue, so we left it as our grand finale.