Married straight guys who love sticking something in their ass?

Techlady1990 · Post by **Techlady1990** » Mon Jul 01, 2024 2:42 am

Well, to be honest im not AO. I have done this a couple times now with my husband, and I feel like we can talk about it more without embarrassing about the idea. It starts to feel like a normal kind of sex for us. I really start to loving it having my husband cum in my ass.

I have read that an anal orgasm for men is even more intense then for a women. For that reason I really really want to put my finger in my hubbies ass. For him its a no go area, but I know for sure he would enjoy it. At least in my opinion it doesnt hurt to try?
In his opinion anal is only for women or gay people but not for straight guys, and I just want to have him experience it.

Im very curious on how straight (married) guys think about this?

FarmerDan · Post by **FarmerDan** » Mon Jul 01, 2024 3:46 pm

That gay stereotype is so wrong! Gay guys do anal because they have limited options, they don't turn gay to get it.

Statistically, if you're a guy that loves to receive you're about as likely to be getting it from a female partner as from another guy. (There are a lot more horny straight women than gay guys!)

Personally, while usually a top I've tried receiving anal from a variety of genders. While I love both giving and receiving there's just no spark for me with a guy. Hairy, smelly, ill mannered - who'd want to spend time around someone like that? (Just kidding, guys..)

Your guy is obviously comfortable with the concept of anal sex because he's ok with giving it to you. His reluctance is probably more to do with culture (for many people this is a forbidden zone). I suggest you start off indirectly by caressing his butt cheeks and telling him how much you like them and then progressing over time to rimming him.

Post by **Canassman** » Mon Jul 01, 2024 8:35 pm

If you’re male sexual attraction is to females then you are straight- regardless of the sex act you are engaged in. If you are attracted to males you are gay, regardless of the sex act you are engaged in. If you are attracted to both then you are bi, or pan, or whatever category most fits.
Liking anal does not mean you are gay… it’s abt who you want to do it (or whatever sexual activity) with.

Techlady1990 · Post by **Techlady1990** » Mon Jul 01, 2024 9:04 pm

With that I can agree, it is what gender you are attracted to. The kind of sex you have doesnt make you gay or straight. I just dont know how to get the idea off his head.
Is it true a man can cum only from anal fingering without any penetration? I have read about it and I really want to let my husband cum this way, just to let him experience what I start to like about anal

Backdoorlover · Post by **Backdoorlover** » Tue Jul 02, 2024 3:31 am

I get what your husband is like. My girlfriend experimented with fingering my asshole while giving me a great blowjob. But for some reason it never did it for me, so the stopped doing it and just improved her deeptroat skills. Then stared doing ass to mouth on every occasion.

I guess I am simple a true top who wants to be the one taking the bottom and she is a true bottom who loves to be pinned down while her asshole gets a pounding. I feel better this way. What I do like is her licking my asshole, cause it’s more of a submission.

Techlady1990 · Post by **Techlady1990** » Fri Jul 05, 2024 12:46 pm

Backdoorlover wrote: ↑
Tue Jul 02, 2024 3:31 am
I get what your husband is like. My girlfriend experimented with fingering my asshole while giving me a great blowjob. But for some reason it never did it for me, so the stopped doing it and just improved her deeptroat skills. Then stared doing ass to mouth on every occasion.

I guess I am simple a true top who wants to be the one taking the bottom and she is a true bottom who loves to be pinned down while her asshole gets a pounding. I feel better this way. What I do like is her licking my asshole, cause it’s more of a submission.

My husband doesnt want me to lick his ass, and I completely ok with that, his ass is too hairy for me I dont find that sexy :p
My husband told me if i really want it we can try when he is drunk, but he prefers it to me getting him in my ass. I respect his choice and Im ok with that. I just wanted to let him experience something else