First experiences

Tell about your own experiences with the anal only lifestyle.
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marcus
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First experiences

Post by marcus » Mon Apr 14, 2014 12:49 pm

We're having another lull in the conversation, or so it seems. While we wait for the discussions to revive here's some questions for you.

When you first tried anal, was it part of some long standing wish to do so?
Or was it just experimentation and trying out something new for the hell of it?
Was it your idea or a partners?
Did you like it straight away or did it take time for you to enjoy?

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Re: First experiences

Post by blizzak » Tue Apr 15, 2014 12:10 am

Me personally I was young 16 an the girl told me to.... Since then its always been going for it .... Not until I was 25 ish did I truly understand the proper steps.... L:ube foreplay ....

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Re: First experiences

Post by Canassman » Tue Apr 15, 2014 10:09 pm

As teens my g/f and I got hold of a porn VHS & were watching it when one of the actresses told the actor "back door me baby!" I was stunned by what I saw & instantly knew I wanted to try that. It was a couple years later when I got the courage to ask my (the same) g/f to try. She was stunned but tried it with a condom. We were not all that successful - no lube; we tried off & on for a few years... Eventually some reading let me realize how to improve my technique. It must have worked because we've been together ever since &, if not 100% AO - we are abt 80-90%!

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Re: First experiences

Post by Marquis » Wed Apr 16, 2014 12:45 am

I also became sexually active at an early age, 15 for me. One day I asked my uncle if he had ever fucked a girl in the ass, as I had seen it in porn many times by then but figured it was something disgusting and degrading that "real" girls didn't do. He laughed and confessed that he had never had a lover that he had NOT fucked in the ass, and confessed his own preference for the asshole. I think this was a big influence for me. At the time I was 17 and having regular sex with my first serious girlfriend. I would press on her anal region with my hand while we had sex and she started to show interest in it. One day I told her I wanted to try anal and she seemed quite put off, although she had previously expressed vehemently that she wanted to be very experimental and would try anything I asked of her. So we began to experiment with it slowly, first with my fingering her asshole a little, at her request. For a while I reminded her frequently that she had promised we would try full anal sex but she would have some reason to delay. Then one night she simply stated that she wanted to try then and we lubed up with vaseline and I inserted myself into her anus very slowly and gently. Once it got in I was able to penetrate and thrust fairly well and when I told her I was going to cum she said she wanted me to. I can actually remember the whole thing like it was yesterday. Anal became a frequent activity for us from that point on, but I was rarely getting as much of it as I wanted. My next gf was much more accomodating to my desire and my long term relationship following that was almost entirely AO.

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Re: First experiences

Post by amorous945 » Wed Apr 16, 2014 6:41 am

marcus wrote:We're having another lull in the conversation, or so it seems. While we wait for the discussions to revive here's some questions for you.

When you first tried anal, was it part of some long standing wish to do so?
Or was it just experimentation and trying out something new for the hell of it?
Was it your idea or a partners?
Did you like it straight away or did it take time for you to enjoy?

Since my "very" first introductions to anal sex would deviate from the standard decorum of this site, I will stay with what is more favored and acceptable.

Since I already understood how pleasurable anal could be, at this point in life my wish for it wasn't a "long standing" one.

On my part, it definitely wasn't just a desire to experiment or try something new for the hell of it. In my wife's mind, I'm sure it was all more in the realm of experimentation. In my naivety, I thought that my wife would naturally love it right off, and anal would become a regular part of our sex life.

It was definitely my idea.

Of course, I liked it right off, but my wife's initial reaction to it can best be described as one of ambivalence, which was difficult for me to understand. It took a while for my wife to move beyond her issues with it and learn to enjoy it.

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Re: First experiences

Post by Marquis » Thu Apr 17, 2014 8:53 pm

amorous945 wrote:
Since my "very" first introductions to anal sex would deviate from the standard decorum of this site, I will stay with what is more favored and acceptable.

Ok, now I'm REALLY curious!

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Re: First experiences

Post by the2beans » Fri Apr 18, 2014 8:30 am

marcus wrote:When you first tried anal, was it part of some long standing wish to do so? Or was it just experimentation and trying out something new for the hell of it?

The former. My fascination with anal sex started right around when I started having sex (at 15yrs) but it wasn't until around 19 or 20 that I first got to try it.
marcus wrote:Was it your idea or a partners?

It was my idea for a long time but when it finally happened it was because the partner at the time finally suggested giving it a go. In this case, it was because we had separated and she knew that this would be something that would keep me interested/get me back.
marcus wrote:Did you like it straight away or did it take time for you to enjoy?

Early anal experiences were relatively dismal in retrospect. I thought it was great at the time simply because I was finally doing something I fantasized about so deeply. The reality was that the early experiences were all with girls who were not into it and didn't get pleasure from it and so it was a slow and short-lived experience that usually ended with manual stimulation after they couldn't go any further.

Years later I introduced anal sex to a girlfriend who took to it very receptively and then I discovered what anal sex was really meant to be and realized how terrible all my prior experiences had been.

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Re: First experiences

Post by taylork » Sat Apr 19, 2014 4:49 pm

With another girlfriend when i was 18. Trying anal was my idea because i had wanted to as long as i could remember. She had tried it before and i had to talk her into it. I loved it right away though as it felt so much more like how sex was meant to feel to me.

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