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I've been amazed how rapidly my interest in vaginal sex has faded. I was always interested in trying anal and also used to love watching anal porn more than any other. But...until my girlfriend had never tried it and still always used to enjoy vaginal with her and others. Then I got to try anal and the change happened then. What was a big game changer was when I first heard about AO and for the first time I thought to myself that I could see myself doing this. I tried to work at getting us to have more anal sex and recently that has started to pay off. And now, after a short time really I find I just don't think about vaginal (though have to sometimes unfortunately) and would be happy never doing that again as long as I live. What surprises me is how quickly this has all happened. Did anybody else find their interest fading just as quick or was it over a long time? Do you find it strange that something you once enjoyed now has no apeal whatsoever?

I'm thinking of other men mostly, but don't have a problem if the girls here want to talk about it. Or if they want to talk about their fella's.

Personally I think all sex is pretty damned awesome. For me anal vs. vaginal is like chocolate cake vs. carrot cake for dessert: I'll always pick one over the other, but either way I'm eating dessert so who can complain!

I've always found anal more appealing than vaginal, for as long as I can remember, but it wasn't until I read about people going anal only and completely stopping having vaginal sex that I even considered it was a possibility, and from that point on vaginal sex lost all its appeal to me.

analsexonly wrote:I've always found anal more appealing than vaginal, for as long as I can remember, but it wasn't until I read about people going anal only and completely stopping having vaginal sex that I even considered it was a possibility, and from that point on vaginal sex lost all its appeal to me.

Where did you read about people going anal only? The first I ever heard of it was on the analonly.blogspot and that was before this place existed. I know for sure people must have been anal only before then. Was there any sites I missed?

mardobolo: I get what you're saying, and I can even enjoy oral sex still, but somehow I now find vaginal sex frustrating and unsatisfying. Yes, I can still cum but its just not the same at all. Afterwards I feel like in a way I've not had sex. Maybe it's just the weaker orgasms, but I feel it's more than just the pleasure.

Robert wrote:

analsexonly wrote:Where did you read about people going anal only? The first I ever heard of it was on the analonly.blogspot and that was before this place existed. I know for sure people must have been anal only before then. Was there any sites I missed?

Yes, LuvMyWifesAss' blog was, I believe, the first place for me as well.

analsexonly wrote:

Robert wrote:

analsexonly wrote:Where did you read about people going anal only? The first I ever heard of it was on the analonly.blogspot and that was before this place existed. I know for sure people must have been anal only before then. Was there any sites I missed?

Yes, LuvMyWifesAss' blog was, I believe, the first place for me as well.

That was the first for me too and he really helped me out with working everything out with my gf.

I'm like you robert but looking back i think i didn't have much interest to begin with with vaginal sex. I just thought i did because all the other huys were always talking about it but even then i would always notice a girls ass first.

Anyway its not as good for you and your gf as anal and soon with luck you'll be AO and won't have to think about it again so why worry?

Robert, it sounds like this is on your mind a lot. Discovering this side of yourself, this preference for anal, is rather like falling in love. The most intense kind of love affair, and it's only natural you find yourself thinking about old loves less and less. Except in this case you'll never fall out of love but instead the feelings will only grow stronger.

This is still early days for you and it is understandable that you're so caught up in it all and questioning yourself and what's happened. No doubt there is still some part of your mind that still can't quite let go of the social pressure and lies to conform, and as such are surprised at yourself.

Take it from one who has been there that your interest in vaginal sex will fade rapidly, and you'll go through this transition. The big problem as you've probably noticed is at this stage in your relationship you still have to continue with some vaginal, when you now want it less than ever. It's difficult because the more anal you have, the less appealing vaginal become, and the more frustrating it can become. You have to watch out for potential difficulties with your girlfriend if she isn't at the same stage as yourself and she may pick up on your impatience, or feel rejected or undesirable.

Marcus I don't have a problem accepting it or with questioning myself. I was just caught out by my feelings doing a sudden flip.

But yeah it is difficult as you say during this "transition" (even if I think I really am out of the vaginal phase for goo). In between sex it s unbearable and my sex drive has gone way up, thinking about her sweet ass all day.

Since the increase in anal sex between my wife and I, I have felt less interested in her vagina. Certainly over the past few months as I have been wanting to go AO my interest has dropped away altoghter.

I just realised as I think about things here... I think I have only given her pussy a licking once in the last six months. And about half that time included rimming her. She used to requested oral attention everytime before vaginal sex. Now, she doesn't ask for it. I guess she is becoming less interested in vagainal stimulation and I didn't realise it.

urabus wrote: I just realised as I think about things here... I think I have only given her pussy a licking once in the last six months. And about half that time included rimming her.

The same!!

urabus wrote: I guess she is becoming less interested in vagainal stimulation and I didn't realise it.

I think my gf was maybe never that interested in vaginal and only just started to realise.