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In another post I shared about how my interest in vaginal sex was fading. In fact it's been diminishing for years even before I tried anal, ever since the first time I had sex and it became less interesting bit by bit every time after. I could never imagine becoming bored with anal sex. It always feels fresh and exciting like the firtst time.

Do you think most normal people feel the same? If they've not discovered anal how do they carry on without getting bored?

I've no doubt they are bored. You hear about it all the time, with endless discussions on magazines and blogs about how people can spice up their sex lives. Vaginal is very functional but it doesn't bring the same emotional intimacy, and definitely not the same level of physical pleasure. I believe those special qualities lead to some kind of brain chemistry reward or feel good factor that keeps anal fresh, as you have noted.

Why do they carry on? Because they don't know or care for the alternative. Because they've been lied to or are afraid. Or have had bad first anal experiences.

There is absolutely nothing boring about vaginal sex. The biggest part of sex goes on in peoples minds, and it all depends on what you fantasize about. You are into anal sex, and that is fine, and maybe your fetish is so strong, that you have grown to dislike vaginal sex.

Well, that's OK if your partner feels the same way, or if you can keep from being obsessive about it, and enjoy it if she's willing to do it sometimes, and be willing and learn to enjoy giving her what she needs the rest of the time. Otherwise, you probably should find another partner.

But you are dead wrong to think that other people in general find vaginal sex boring. My wife and I really love anal sex, and sometimes we will do only that for several month. But that don't meant that we find vaginal sex boring, on the contrary, we find it very exciting - we just find anal sex more exciting, and we both find the fact, that we are skipping vaginal sex naughty and very arousing.

But sometimes we can't have anal sex for several month, and then we just use other fantasies to enhance our sex life, witch makes vaginal sex just as good as anal sex, and just as intense . It is not what you do that makes a good sex life, it's the way you use it in your head.

I would argue that while vaginal sex is clearly not boring to you, it is boring to some, myself included.

analsexonly wrote:I would argue that while vaginal sex is clearly not boring to you, it is boring to some, myself included.

The post is about people in general, not us. The question was if people in general get bored from having vaginal sex only, and I am just trying to point out, that some people here seems to be a bit obsessed about trying to convince everybody that vaginal sex in general is boring, and that most people don't find vaginal sex boring at all.

People get bored from doing the same thing over and over, and anal sex will get just as boring as vaginal sex in the long run if it is the only thing you do.

DanishCouple wrote: The post is about people in general, not us. The question was if people in general get bored from having vaginal sex only, and I am just trying to point out, that some people here seems to be a bit obsessed about trying to convince everybody that vaginal sex in general is boring, and that most people don't find vaginal sex boring at all.

I don't see that anyone is trying to convince anyone else of anything. It just seems like an honest and genuine question, whose sentiments I happen to share.

Why are we even wasting our time on this forum if not to share our thoughts and to find out if others also share those same feelings?

DanishCouple wrote: People get bored from doing the same thing over and over, and anal sex will get just as boring as vaginal sex in the long run if it is the only thing you do.

I don't necessarily believe that.

Very interesting question... and responses!

I think it's important to realise and accept that "we" are the ones who are not "normal"
(Although I like to think I'm abnormal in the sense that I'm exceptional and everybody else if just average )

Most of the world worships pussy - if they didn't then the human population wouldn't have gotten so big! Indeed, in ancient times, taking it in the ass was all the rage (amongst women and men!) yet pussy still reigned supreme even then! So it's fair to say that vaginal sex is NOT boring for the vast majority of mankind - nor should it be...

As we are Anal Enthusiasts, it will be difficult to understand this... but in the end, what does it matter as long as people are happy with their sex lives - I prefer Coke while others prefer Pepsi... to each their own, and there is no need to

However it does worry me when we take our passion for Anal so far... that we start belittling the glorious Pussy! We'd all agree that most men would love to have a womans sweet ass, but women are not so sure about giving it up! (At least not the average woman, as the fine ladies who join this site would heartily disagree!)

A far better way to encourage women to be more adventurous and open their backdoors for us - is to be Pro-Anal as opposed to being Anti-Pussy...

Being (overly!) negative about vaginas... which we have to admit, are the very essence of femininity, is obviously not going to go over well with women - it would be like women saying a mans dick is useless compared to all the big hard toys you can get now, and the only good think a man has is his mouth for oral sex! Rejection is hard for anyone to deal with lol!

Why not love pussy just as much as ass? Except we prefer to caress/lick/finger/play with here vagina instead of penetrate it, which we'd rather do with her anus.

Just because we put Ass on a pedestal - doesn't mean we should kick Pussy out of bed!

(Besides... they are both so pretty!)

Agree 100% with you, KeepItReal.

KeepItReal wrote: A far better way to encourage women to be more adventurous and open their backdoors for us - is to be Pro-Anal as opposed to being Anti-Pussy...

Mmmm.

I think you mistake indifference or lack of passion for them as hating vagina's, which is just not true (speaking for myself at any rate).

KeepItReal wrote: Why not love pussy just as much as ass?

Er...because I don't It's not a choice you know. If it were I wouldn't be here.

KeepItReal wrote: (Besides... they are both so pretty!)

If that's so then why do so many men and women insist on them being shaved?

DanishCouple wrote:There is absolutely nothing boring about vaginal sex. The biggest part of sex goes on in peoples minds, and it all depends on what you fantasize about. You are into anal sex, and that is fine, and maybe your fetish is so strong, that you have grown to dislike vaginal sex.

Well, that's OK if your partner feels the same way, or if you can keep from being obsessive about it, and enjoy it if she's willing to do it sometimes, and be willing and learn to enjoy giving her what she needs the rest of the time. Otherwise, you probably should find another partner.

But you are dead wrong to think that other people in general find vaginal sex boring. My wife and I really love anal sex, and sometimes we will do only that for several month. But that don't meant that we find vaginal sex boring, on the contrary, we find it very exciting - we just find anal sex more exciting, and we both find the fact, that we are skipping vaginal sex naughty and very arousing.

But sometimes we can't have anal sex for several month, and then we just use other fantasies to enhance our sex life, witch makes vaginal sex just as good as anal sex, and just as intense . It is not what you do that makes a good sex life, it's the way you use it in your head.

Thank you. This is a great and honest response. I get that many here have anal fetishes but their experiences are not universal and I sometimes question how much is reality and how much is just watching too much porn.