Changed my status
Changed my status
I've changed my status in my profile from "curious" to "anal only". This is it guys. Needless to say, I'm very, very happy!
Re: Changed my status
Congrats! What's the story?
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Not much to say beyond what I've been posting in the forum over the last year or so.
My girlfriend and I had slowly but surely been having more and more anal sex, and less and less vaginal. All of this without actually making any official or verbal agreement. It just happened, naturally and by itself, and we've now gone a few months without vaginal. I can't even remember the last time exactly.
I've had help and advice from other forum members along the way, particularly from luvmywifesass, and found techniques like positive reinforcement helped, but I think we definitely would have got there in the end.
We have reached a new level of intimacy now beyond just the pleasurable side of the sex. I think we both feel a much deeper connection now when we have sex, more passionate, then just the basic need to get off, and that also has the knock on effect of making it last.
I can't imagine what it would be like to go back and lose what we have now.
My girlfriend and I had slowly but surely been having more and more anal sex, and less and less vaginal. All of this without actually making any official or verbal agreement. It just happened, naturally and by itself, and we've now gone a few months without vaginal. I can't even remember the last time exactly.
I've had help and advice from other forum members along the way, particularly from luvmywifesass, and found techniques like positive reinforcement helped, but I think we definitely would have got there in the end.
We have reached a new level of intimacy now beyond just the pleasurable side of the sex. I think we both feel a much deeper connection now when we have sex, more passionate, then just the basic need to get off, and that also has the knock on effect of making it last.
I can't imagine what it would be like to go back and lose what we have now.
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Congratulations! Always a pleasure to see another forum member go fully AO.
My wife and I had a similar, gradual transition to AO. I too remember that sudden thrill when I looked back and couldn't remember when the last time was, but felt confident we'd never have to compromise on vaginal again. It's a great sense of freedom after all those years.
My wife and I had a similar, gradual transition to AO. I too remember that sudden thrill when I looked back and couldn't remember when the last time was, but felt confident we'd never have to compromise on vaginal again. It's a great sense of freedom after all those years.
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Toronto9092
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Re: Changed my status
Congrats! That's incredibly inspiring to read about 
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Toronto9092 wrote:Congrats! That's incredibly inspiring to read about
Thanks! I hope that many more couples will see how it isn't that hard to do. I used to be in the doubters camp myself, but persevered. The rewards are worth it!
