mcmoose wrote:I'd be interested to hear from others who can remember the last time they had vaginal sex and if they still count the years

Well, unlike your wife, I can't remember the exact date my wife and I last had vaginal sex, I just remember it was late July in 2006. My wife and I had gone to my parent's beach house alone together for a long weekend. Obviously, my parents weren't there. We had sex Friday when we arrived. As usual, the vaginal sex just seemed perfunctory, then we moved onto the usual main course of anal sex. We had sex again Saturday morning, with much the same feeling. Saturday night, we were in bed and I was rubbing her asshole with a lubed finger while we kissed and fondled. That's when she turned to me and asked if I minded skipping vaginal sex and just having anal. When I told her that sounded great to me, and that I didn't care if we ever had vaginal sex again, she lit up. I was saying it half jokingly, as I guess I never imagined she might actually want that. It was then that we both realized we both had wanted this for a long time, but were afraid to tell one another.
My god, it was like she felt free to enjoy her ass, without her vagina getting in the way any longer. It was as if her vagina had been a distraction from truly enjoying sex the way it was meant to be. We must have had anal sex seven or eight more times that weekend. It was like we were teenagers again. We have not had vaginal sex since. Okay, my cock may have slipped a handful of times, but we always corrected that situation immediately. One of the times it slipped, my wife said, "You know that doesn't belong there. Your cock only belongs in my asshole." It was like music to my ears. She asked me recently if I thought it was strange that she only wanted my cock in her ass. To which, I asked her if she thought I was strange that I only wanted to put my cock in her ass. She said, she guessed that meant we were made for each other.
I tell her all the time I married my fantasy. And that she's better than any porn star.