•if someone had the occasion of asking you the open question publicly, in front of a crowd of people you don't know, would you mind it or live it without concerns?
•Have you ever encountered, among those to which you revealed your ( =our... ) preference, anyone who listened to you and then supported you or even openly shared your tastes?
Of course people have supported me! My last relationship ended due to being stationed across the world from each other in the military. We were anal only for quite some time together and one of our last conversations had something to do with going AO and she hoped she could find someone else as into it as me. It was an accident for us, but, the very next guy she was with was grossed out by it. My best friend is a woman, one night while catching up after i got back from korea, the subject of anal came up. I told her i hadn't had my genitals in a vagina in over a year. She laughed and said 'lucky you!' I will definitely take that as encouragement. A few of my other friends acknowledge it, but don't say anything about it really, a few are very curious as to how i have 'pulled it off' like it was some kind of trick. I just make it known during the early stages of dating/before dating that i am very into anal. I dont MIND vaginal so much, i just have a heavy preference.
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The only embarrassing part would just be knowledge of my sex life being open to the more prudish among us, not the anal only part.
My sister and I are lovers, we're married. Everyone knows. Meh.
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Btw- If you send women unsolicited dick-pics, you are just a dick yourself- it's harrassment!
Haunter wrote: Dear Sgt_Valk, I admire your freedom, but... Aren't people around you somehow upset? Does anyone unfairily judge your buttsexualism as if you were perverted? I think it would be very appreciable to be able expressing your true self without concern of others' thoughts -I myself usually act like so- but for this specific topic I'm quite afraid things would be read in the wrong way. It's a great pity, but I feel so...
You would be amazed what you can get away with if you deliver it in a confident or confidently indifferent way. In a way people are like sharks. Sharks go berserk if they smell blood. You start apologizing for the things you like and its like the sharks who smell blood. You will get ridiculed. Be confident about what you like and you will get away with it. That's why gays in entertainment got away with being gay long before it was socially accepted in general. As a Dutch saying says: Bold persons own half the world. Or the English equivalent: Fortune favors the bold!