Anal dream persistence

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Onetrackmind
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Anal dream persistence

Post by Onetrackmind » Fri Jul 23, 2021 7:32 am

Hi All, I'm a straight male and in a long term relationship.

For the first 2 years me and my girl used to have regular anal however now it's a forbidden word and been told that it'll never happen again.
My issue is, lately i've been dreaming almost every night about it. It's the only porn I watch - I just can't get it out of my system. Is there something wrong with me? Unfortunately, it's my deepest desire and knowing my partner will never do it again has me searching in all different areas. What can I do?

Analien
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Re: Anal dream persistence

Post by Analien » Fri Jul 23, 2021 8:58 am

What is the reason that your girl refuses to continue in regular anal, if you don't mind sharing?
Is it because of a medical problem? If a psychological issue is behind that, there can be a solution. Try having a talk about it with her and you will see what happens. It is the least you can do for the start.
Vstříc análním orgasmům.

Onetrackmind
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Re: Anal dream persistence

Post by Onetrackmind » Fri Jul 23, 2021 9:13 am

Sure. I don't mind sharing.

It's because when we last did it a few times. I went too hard too fast and she thought it was painful. Another thing was one of the times she left some excrement on my penis and it smudged onto friends sheets which was a little embarrassing for her. I guess i get a little too excited.

Sucks too as the first time we did it was with her family downstairs, super sexy situation. blew me after and then went back down for dinner. Now all i want to do is relive that moment. But she says I'm gay for wanting it. no win.

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Re: Anal dream persistence

Post by jack.fats » Sat Jul 24, 2021 2:11 pm

Onetrackmind wrote:
Fri Jul 23, 2021 9:13 am
Sure. I don't mind sharing.

It's because when we last did it a few times. I went too hard too fast and she thought it was painful. Another thing was one of the times she left some excrement on my penis and it smudged onto friends sheets which was a little embarrassing for her. I guess i get a little too excited.

Sucks too as the first time we did it was with her family downstairs, super sexy situation. blew me after and then went back down for dinner. Now all i want to do is relive that moment. But she says I'm gay for wanting it. no win.

Buddy, "shit happens" anyway! If I might say...

IMO, it's just to let you down and desist from having it!
Tell her, it is lustful and make you feel so relaxed by "birth control state": no brown stuff no party... that's for sure! ;)

What don't you have a shower together to see how it goes?

Tell us later and keep us posted!

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Re: Anal dream persistence

Post by amaizeg » Sun Jul 25, 2021 2:00 pm

I have never encountered a woman who would want it and then stop wanting it, except maybe if you kinda talked her into it and she was only doing it for you.

My experience is that it is best to let the woman lead but never leave her ass completely out of the game. Caress her, lick her, show her how much you love and cherish that side of her sexuality without being pushy. Obviously she is not completely against anal sex, but maybe give her time to have it on her own terms and take an effort to make her love it.

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Re: Anal dream persistence

Post by Analjay (Analmostly) » Mon Jul 26, 2021 1:05 am

Hi fella, it’s not at all gay to want anal sex. Gay couples kiss and hold hands but we don’t put a ‘gay’ taboo on that. I’m a Christian – that is I accept Jesus as the son of God – but I am also into
Kinky sex – for want of a better word. I can’t help it, so I decided to accept it and enjoy it. I can’t help believing what I believe or desiring what I desire. In a way we may as well be gay, in that we have a sexuality that isn’t considered the norm and some would frown upon. But it is they who are missing out. I can understand your partners issue with the brown sheet. We once had that happen in Thailand in a hotel. I was embarrassed but in my mind I turned it round and made it into a little mental trophy. I still don’t like to get the covers dirty though; but I don’t mind it (quite like it) on my dick. In my opinion and experience, one needs to be loving and kind, but also gently make your sexuality known to who it concerns. I told you I was a Christian, I didn’t really want to, it’s not that sort of forum, but it’s just to show that sometimes you have to state your position and stand by it. That’s not saying to be nasty or overly demanding, but if it’s driving you wild, then it may well erupt in other areas of life/relationship and you may not realize. Your girl can obviously accommodate you as you have had anal in the past, so its not to do with fumbled initial attempts. Maybe, when the mood is right, sit her down and say, listen we need to talk. And tell her what I said about holding hands not being gay (not knocking gays by the way) and tell her you love her (I take it you do) and you desire her body including and especially her ass. Tell her her ass drives you wild and you hope she is flattered by that, that she has such a hot ass. Tell her you will be more gentle (she will probably eventually be the one to say she wants it harder) and say you will either refrain from anal if you are not in your own bed or tell her you will take a night bag and take a large towel that you can lay down. She may feel better if there is a sort of plan in place so she knows you are looking after her feelings and acknowledging her worries about embarrassing situations – in fact it just struck me – that may be the thing with her statement, she may think it will reflect badly on her if her friends find out she is having kinky sex, she may be saying to you what she thinks her friends would say to her….maybe.
It’s a bit like fight club, standing in the supermarket queue with a tender butt, thinking, yes…ya’ll don’t know what I’ve been up to…..
I hope it goes well for you and that your girlfriend ends up loving it.

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Re: Anal dream persistence

Post by Backdoorlover » Sun Apr 10, 2022 3:46 am

Onetrackmind wrote:
Fri Jul 23, 2021 9:13 am
Now all i want to do is relive that moment. But she says I'm gay for wanting it. no win.

After experiencing a woman who herself suggested anal, and later was annoyed I loved it more then her pussy, I must say that this remark your girlfriend makes is not at all okay.

My ex first gave me anal a few times a week. I was gentle, asked her how it felt and the smiled while saying “I feel great”. She had no trouble being penetrated after some plugging.

And then, after a few years she started to change her behavior. She “had to” give me anal to make me happy. I was gay and should look for a man if I loved ass that much.
She’s my ex now. Never accept it when a woman calls you gay for wanting to assfuck her. It ‘s shortsighted and toxic. Like you I started to live too much in my head. Masturbathing about assfucking her was more thrilling then fucking her pussy. It simply didn’t work that way and I will never accept such words from a woman again.

The woman I’m with now was even on board right away when I mentioned the anal only lifestyle. And soon we will be 4 months anal only. Because we both love and preffer it.
Backdoorlover’s quote:

“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”🔥

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