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by Rimmer » Thu Jan 18, 2024 1:52 am
@Ryan_ukm Welcome. My girlfriend, now wife, wasn't into it, but in the end it was her who asked if I wanted to go AO, which we did for several years. I've told the story several times, so I won't here. My wife discovered she likes to be submissive in sex or should I say dominated, but then she found she also could get Bratty and also switch - again, I have said before, we don't 'live' that life but those terms do fit. If your GF said she was into it and now says she is not, there may be a power play or a tease going on. Be careful how you test this, if you decide to, you don't want to cause any upset; but I found my wife, though submissive, would sometimes be awkward, for want of a better word, about a thing. We later found that she sometimes finds it fun to play the Brat. Just something to consider.
