Nostalgic for anal only now that I know what it is

sadisticprofessor · Post by **sadisticprofessor** » Mon Nov 17, 2014 6:07 am

Hello everyone,

I'm a brand-new member of this site, having discovered the AO tag on tumblr just last night!

Ten years ago, when I was in my early 20s, I was in an AO relationship without calling it as such. She was my first serious girlfriend, and in point of fact my first sexual partner. So, my first time having sex was anal, and I guess it's always had a special place in my heart ever since.

I'm single and have recently moved to a new job in a new city and a new state. So glad I've stumbled upon this community and this lifestyle concept, as I'm determined to establish this in my next relationship.

Cheers,
Sadisticprofessor

amorous945 · Post by **amorous945** » Tue Nov 18, 2014 1:01 pm

Hello, sadistic professor, and welcome to the group! I find it quite interesting and rare that your very first sexual experience was anal! I assume that since this was your first time, it was your partner who took the lead in this? Would you mind sharing a bit more about how this unfolded?

sadisticprofessor · Post by **sadisticprofessor** » Wed Nov 26, 2014 3:33 pm

Hello there!

Thanks for the welcome.

Well, my girlfriend and I were both in an intense sexual relationship at the time...with a lot of "outercourse" and that led to orgasm. But we were both technically virgins and wanted to stay that way. One night, we were out at the beach, just walking, and we saw another couple having very hot sex inside their car. We drove home, started fooling around, and without either of us really thinking, I got some of our massage oil, penetrated, and finished in her.

Afterwards whenever she wanted to try it again she would just mention the massage oil.

Speaking for so many men, of course the sensation of anal penetration was great. Later on, with other women, when I started having vaginal sex, of course I enjoyed that as well.

I don't think I'm going to "hold out" for an Anal Only relationship. Nor would I really pressure a future partner in to adopting it against her will. However, I can speak from experience that many women really do prefer anal, and I think there should be some space created for them to express this. And my guess is there will be others who, like me, will stumble across this concept online and it will pique their interest.

So, I'm not going to make AO a life goal. But, if I ever met a woman for whom this made the most sense, I would certainly go along with it.

taylork · Post by **taylork** » Sun Dec 07, 2014 5:57 pm

sadisticprofessor wrote: So, I'm not going to make AO a life goal. But, if I ever met a woman for whom this made the most sense, I would certainly go along with it.

If you dont try you'll never get. My gf totally accepted and embraced being AO. Sure, it wasn't with a few bumps along the way, but was also way easier than i expected plus i got some expert advice on how to proceed. Don't ever give up on the idea.