Anal Only Lifestyle Forum

Hey, folks!

I'm a 41 year old guy who loves to have anal sex (don't we all...).
Me and my girlfriend (who's 43) both enjoy it very much.

I wouldn't say we're anal only, more like 50/50.
But anal is part of our regular sex-life and not an "extra add on".
I would say we're probably about 50/50 anal-vaginal.

Personally, I mostly prefer anal to vaginal.
To me, the female anal rosette is a most beautiful thing.
I love performing anilingus on my girlfriend and I love to explore her wonderful butthole with my fingers
using lots of lube.

We've never discussed going anal only, and I wouldn't ask. I'm fine with the way we are now.
We're having plenty of anal sex. Although, personally I would probably say yes if she suggested we go AO
(which I don't think she would ask). But at the same time, I love her tight pussy.
But I LOVE her tight asshole perhaps a tiny bit more..

Our anal sessions usually begin with us kissing and me starting to slowly and lightly touch and stroke
her asshole. Then i usually slide one finger in using some saliva. Then another, and often a third.
I finger her like this and sometimes also let another finger slip into her pussy.

Then she rolls over on her belly and I put lube on her rosette and on my cock.
Then I massage the oil or lube into her butthole, deep fingering her slowly with rhythmic strokes.
After a while I start performing anilinngus on her, sometimes going down to briefly lick her pussy.
But I concentrate on her rosette and let my tongue whirl around and now and then slip into her,
This makes her moan with pleasure...

I then slowly but surely push my cock inside her tight butthole all the way in, pause for a second
and then start to fuck her in a steady rhythm increasing as I go along.
Sometimes she well stroke her pussy or I will massage her clit with my hand.
Other times none of us touch it.

My girlfriend is entranced while I fuck her anally and moans and groans.
After doing this for a while, she rolls over on her back and I straddle her across her chest
and we go for an ATM-session where she sucks me deep.
This really turns me on.
Sometimes we go back to me fucking her anally and cumming in her asshole,
other times we finish of by me fucking her pussy.

The whole concept of focussing sex around the female anus is so exciting to me.
I love performing anilingus, I love fingerfucking a tight rosette, I love the sensation
of going deep into her lubed-up back-pussy, and I love how she loves ATM...

I have a great sex-life and a great girlfriend!

Looking forward to visiting this forum regularly.

Welcome to the forum - wondering who introduced anal to your relationship and how?

Canassman wrote:Welcome to the forum - wondering who introduced anal to your relationship and how?

Well, fairly early on in our relationship I gently tried touching her anus lightly with one finger will we were kissing and making out, and as she didn't shy away from it I progressed from doing this to inserting one or two fingers. It was obvious she liked it, so once we'd broken this barrier I just asked her one time if she had any oil or lube and she just got up and handed me a bottle. That was the first time i penetrated her anally. After that anal became a stapel. I could tell she really liked it because she was gyrating her hips, moaning and saying things like "more, more..."

So it was all kind of intuitive and an implicit understanding.

Often if she hasn't been able to get off but I have, I will start stimulating her clitoris with my hand. But nine and a half times out of ten she will gently and slowly remove my hand and show me that she wants me to finger her anally while she stimulates her clitoris at the same time.

She will from time to time also rim me when she performs oral on me, which is also something I enloy hugely.

So we both enjoy anal.

Welcome, analrosette, and thanks for sharing your story with us! This site is one of few places where you can actually find substantive discussions about anal sex. Most other places are either porn sites or just general sex forums, which I'm sure you've already found out. I'm usually disappointed when anal is discussed on general forums, as the subject seems to be broached with a disclaimer first, such as, "we only do it once in a while, or only if I'm REALLY in the mood, or we save that for special occasions," and then they'll resort to talking about how much vaginal is preferred. Also, you'll always get the usual warnings and false information about anal sex from people who have no clue about what they're talking about.

People here approach anal sex from a lot of different perspectives and for a lot of different reasons. You won't always be able to identify with everyone's motive or approach, but you'll always be able to find some who you can identify with.

Welcome—it's great to hear from people who have made anal a core component of their sex life even if they aren't doing it exclusively. It's such a wonderful and important thing that it has never made sense to simply be, as you described it, an add-on sex act.

My girlfriend is entranced while I fuck her anally and moans and groans.
After doing this for a while, she rolls over on her back and I straddle her across her chest
and we go for an ATM-session where she sucks me deep.
This really turns me on.
Sometimes we go back to me fucking her anally and cumming in her asshole,
other times we finish of by me fucking her pussy.

Hey analrosette,

It's great that you and your girlfriend are enjoying aspects of anal a lot more, even if you are doing vaginal as well. Thanks for detailing how you got into anal. Hearing about experiences can potentially benefit other people's circumstances. Especially for the AO community here. ; )

I think it's quite hot that your gf does ATM! When I first got into anal I thought it was disgusting, but now it's a huge turn on. I'm wondering....how did you and your gf get into ATM? What was it like the first time? What is something that came about naturally or did either of you push for it? Is it something you do every anal session?