Hello, I'm DirtyOldLady

[dirtyoldlady]

Lurked a couple days and decided I'd register. Hope you don't mind me joining in the discussion(s).

I am no stranger to discussion boards. Ran one for several years (tipping my hat to the admin and mods) and have participated elsewhere at times.

What else would you like to know?

[Canassman]

Tell us about your anal experience, are you anal only? Trying to shift that way? Experimenting? With a partner or single? Etc

[analsexonly]

Welcome, thanks for joining! Hope you'll stay a while and interact more.

[dirtyoldlady]

Anal experience...oh dear. You know there is a tale to be told, so here's the shortest version possible.

I knew I liked things in my ass long before I knew why or what to really do about it...before puberty even. Lost my virginity young - 14 - and there was some anal experimentation and yes, I liked it, but I felt really guilty and dirty about having liked it.

I married at 20. We're still married. 34½ years now (oops, now you know how old I am). But, shortly after we married, we had a little bump or two in the rocky road of marriage and I briefly left him. Needed to support myself, so worked as an exotic dancer, back when we were called strippers. We worked things out, though, and he took me back. We've been faithful to each other ever since.

But, I never told him I wanted anal sex. Not for 28 years...not until I had little cancer scare (lump was benign, but the two weeks of Hell waiting to find that out changed me forever). I sat him down one night and told him that I wanted anal sex. That I liked wearing a plug in my ass and that I would be as submissive for him as he wanted me to be. That's the hard part for him. Our relationship has always been one where I run the house, etc. because he was gone a lot (he was in the Navy). So me suddenly telling him he can order me around and I'll obey him? He didn't believe me at first, and he's really not into the whole D/S thing. However, he is quite the "McGuyver" so we have had some fun innovating ways to make things work for us.

Things got a little complicated a couple years ago - this old lady had to have the 'lady bits' out and at that point we went 100% anal only. Then the old man started having problems with getting and staying hard so now Viagra helps with that, but there went the spontaneity.

One of the things he said the night I told him what I wanted was that I was silly for not telling him years ago. I really could kick myself for that. So if I have any advice for the younger generation - it's this: Let your Anal Only Flag fly. Don't be afraid you'll lose your partner. Ask for what you want. Negotiate it out if they aren't sure. Start with things they aren't afraid to try...you might be surprised in the end.

[KinkyKeith]

Dirty old lady awesome name...
Just be glad you finally said something, imagine all the people that have never told their SO their fantasies,,,ever

[John842]

Hi DOL !
Glad you've joined this site.
You sound like a wonderful woman and your husband is lucky man. Perhaps we will hear from him at some point in the future?
Best regards
J

[Fulltime]

I had a similar issue with erections. Viagra and cialis were kind of hit and miss
So I switched to Trimix injections.
BINGO! I get the erections of a 16 yr old
Mucho fun!

[Pinklioness]

Welcome, welcome! I totally agree, it's rare to find a guy who isn't at leat willing to try anal, so why not talk about to. Could be mutually beneficial and pleasurable.

[777joee]

I had a similar issue with erections. Viagra and cialis were kind of hit and miss
So I switched to Trimix injections.
BINGO! I get the erections of a 16 yr old
Mucho fun!

Trimix? Tell me more......