Interested, willing to give it a go

[singleinDC]

I was wondering... was your friend supportive of the idea? How exactly did you find this site? Good luck!

[Gwen970]

I was wondering... was your friend supportive of the idea? How exactly did you find this site? Good luck!

Short version - we were talking about our respective sex lives, I lamented about the massive decline in ours and the guilt I was feeling. She knows about my vagina issues. She also knows that once upon a time, my husband and I enjoyed anal and so she asked why we weren't at least doing that once or twice a month. She's one of my friends who has also enjoyed anal although I think I enjoy it more than she does. She and her hubby are more "once a month" kind of folks or for special occasions. But she absolutely was supportive and encouraged but also because she knows my husband would be all over the idea too.

I'm not sure why we stopped after I delivered, it just never came up or happened. I think subconsciously, I'm a "mommy" now but that's a stupid reason. So I've shed that. But also the rigors of caring for a newborn and being tired 24x7 and the trials of breastfeeding (which also kills your drive, be patient boys, prolactin MURDERS any hope of your wife being horny) just made sex a secondary thing. After 6 months though even I was itching for some action. Just sadly, even him fingering me vaginally hurt and he was about as gentle as they get.

As far as how I found this site, I googled "only anal sex" and there was a few Tumblr pages, your requisite porn but then a few tumblr pages that pointed to here as well as the site itself. So I lurked for a few weeks and then thought I'd share my story. Can't be the only one. Vaginal tearing during childbirth is a common thing. So is painful intercourse after vaginal birth (although in most women, it goes away, unfortunately I was left with a lot of scar tissue).