New to Site : New to Anal

[MacyGirl]

Hello community. First off I should probably mention that I haven't actually ever done anal. I've been with two different boys and both thought it was gross or made them gay or something. So I kinda just stopped inquiring about it. We are long broken up and I think about anal a lot. Anal is almost always the genre of porn that I gravitate too. Frankly it seems so aesthetically attractive and I day dream about what I would look like in those same situations. Yes, I do touch myself there. Haven't gone out an purchased anything anal specific but I use my vibe in my ass often and get soooo turned on. Anyway, just wanted to introduce myself and say hi. Hoping to make friends and explore anal and learn about myself. Ciao!

[Canassman]

Welcome to the site. I'm wondering how you learned about anal and do u find pleasure from anal masturbation? Or is the attraction just about the esthetics?

[MacyGirl]

Hi Canassman!,

Thank you for the reply. I learned about anal in middle school sex ed I suppose. Though girls talk about all things sex related when we're young. It always seemed so strange back then but for some reason just stuck in my mind. Then seeing it in pornography made me realize it's something people actually do and I guess normalized it for me. Yes, I absolutely get pleasure from anal masterbation. Not to go into too much of the gory details but I use my vibrator, that an older (female) cousin bought me at age 18, for anal stimulation.

[analsexonly]

Hello and welcome! I'm sorry to hear about your negative experiences with guys ignorant about the pleasures of anal. The idea that anal sex with a woman is "gay" always baffles and annoys me. It's sex with a woman—anal, oral, or vaginal, it's not gay sex, by definition! There are a lot of guys out there who would be more than happy to try anal, I can assure you. But I do find that it's often best to experiment with it on your own first, as you are doing, to learn to enjoy and familiarize yourself with it before trying it with a partner. I'm sure you'll be able to find someone who wants to have anal sex with you—don't let the ignorant behavior of past partners keep you from pursuing something you'd like to try!

[singleinDC]

Welcome to the site, MacyGirl. As you can see, you're in good company here. Hope you stick around.

[MacyGirl]

Thank you for all the messages. I'm flattered Technical question......why are my messages stuck in "Outbox" as opposed to "Sent?"

[singleinDC]

Thank you for all the messages. I'm flattered Technical question......why are my messages stuck in "Outbox" as opposed to "Sent?"

If a message is in "Outbox" it hasn't been read yet. If it's in "Sent messages", it's been read.

[Sideguy4U]

It doesn't make men gay.